I think about it every day and dream every night. Don't forget, there will be consequences There is a saying in Zhuangzi that grief is greater than immortality, and everyone's degree of sadness is different. Therefore, when dreaming, the logical control center of the brain is closed, and you will "review" what you experienced during the day, and what you saw during the day will be mobilized, and the parts related to this event will be transferred from birth to now.
Sometimes, so do i. When my life and work were in a mess, I began to dream about my relatives who had died for many years frequently, dreaming of eating together, going out together, laughing together and crying together. In the dream, they were all fine. When they woke up, they found themselves alone. In fact, a long time ago, I sometimes dreamed that my loved ones died at night, and then I woke up in tears and found that it was just a dream. The feeling of happiness and joy in my heart is indescribable.
Psychologists point out that no matter what kind of dreams you dream, horror or beauty, they are all direct or indirect strong desires in your subconscious. In any case, the days are still going on, the dead are gone, and the living still have to move on for life, or keep themselves busy and not think about it.
I think about it every day and dream every night. It's been more than a year and two months since my mother died. I dreamed of my mother many times, and I was very sad!
When my mother was around, I was very unfilial to my mother and felt too guilty to have a clear conscience. I can't forgive myself when I think about it. Poor old mother, why did you give birth to an old girl like me? Not only did she not become a mother's intimate cotton-padded jacket, but she also became a real executioner!
It hurts to think about it. Originally, my mother had lost her child in her later years and could not live any longer. She suffers from dementia. I took care of my mother and couldn't even steam an egg custard for more than 20 days. I long for my mother, and my bones are empty. I fell out of the toilet and broke my crotch. Since then, an 88-year-old man has been eating and pulling on the kang. How painful! Mom has suffered a lot! All because of me.
In my dream, my mother can't walk either. What kind of girl am I? Poor mother, she was miserable when she was alive and miserable when she died. I never have a mother again in my life! Only in dreams can you see your mother! May 7th, Magu Festival, Tomb-Sweeping Day, I also went to burn paper for my mother, but what's the use! Do or die screaming is really useless! May parents in the world enjoy their old age! The confession in the dream is useless! If there is a hell, I will go!
I often dream of my dead relatives, because we still miss them, not only in our dreams at night, but also in our daily life. The blood relatives in the world are not indifferent to the death of their relatives, but the soul blending between relatives is deeply rooted no matter how many years have passed in Cang Sang. Mom and dad have been dead for decades, and we pay New Year greetings to our parents, grandparents and mother-in-law every Spring Festival. The next spring, I dreamed of my mother every day. I know my mother misses me. On the sixth day of the first month, I went to visit my mother's grave. First, I opened a cake, put it on the ground and lit it with a lighter. Loud firecrackers splashed a stone the size of a pumpkin and hit me in the face. It hurts. I stood in front of my mother's grave in surprise and said to her, "Mom, I'm late." I know my mother can hear you in heaven. I haven't dreamed about my mother every day since that day. So, spend more time with my parents while they are still here. Even though they are gone, they still miss us.
As the saying goes, "think about it day and night." Why do you often dream about the person you love? Because you miss them in your heart and have a personal attachment to them: your dead relatives.
In some places, there is a superstition that it is unlucky to dream of your dead relatives often, which means that something bad will happen. Therefore, many superstitious people will burn paper and incense after dreaming of their loved ones to resolve their fears and anxieties.
I don't think so. In my dream, I can see my long-lost relatives. At that time, my mood was cheerful. I cherish this hard-won time in my dream. Inner joy like a child. When I woke up, everything returned to reality and was beaten back to its original shape. My heart is full of melancholy.
Because these parting relatives are in another world and can only meet in their dreams. Because you are lonely and confused inside, you hope to get comfort and enlightenment from your relatives. They are also your spiritual watchmen. You need someone to lean on.
If you have no feelings for the person you love, you will be like a passer-by after dreaming, and sometimes there may be a lot of personal grievances and knots in your heart.
Thank you Wukong for inviting me to answer. I answer from several aspects:
1. Think every day and dream every night.
In fact, many people often dream of their dead relatives. If they were close after their death, they all thought it was probably because they missed them so much. But if it is a relative who has died for many years and doesn't think too much on weekdays, it is very confusing. At present, it is impossible to analyze this phenomenon scientifically, and it can only be explained by various dream interpretation books. Let me explain this phenomenon.
For example, many people deny the existence of human meridians because the meridian theory recorded in traditional Chinese medicine theory has not been scientifically verified.
What is science? Science is the external expression of human brain knowledge, that is, the external expression of human internal functions. We see that all scientific and technological inventions are external manifestations of human inner wisdom. We should be clear that there is science after human beings, and science lags behind human beings. It is not difficult to see that China's theory of traditional Chinese medicine is based on the theory of the supremacy of human life synchronization, so at present, science cannot verify the existence of meridians.
The existence of human consciousness leads to the existence of dreams. Here I talk about dreams from the perspective of philosophy and Buddhism.
2. First of all, we should understand that human consciousness exists in sync with human life, which is the essential difference between human and other animals. According to the meaning of Buddhist chakra diagram and Taoist Taiji diagram, human consciousness and body are divided into yin and yang. Human nature is composed of two substances, and the interaction between consciousness and existence produces * * *, which is the voice of soul and body. People lose one kind of substance, and another kind of nature does not exist. This is the process of death and separation. When people die, consciousness (called the eternal existence space of the soul) melts into the soil and exists in the form of ions.
3. Human conscious thinking has storage and residue.
According to scientific tests, the world's largest telescope can capture signals a long time ago, which is enough to prove that consciousness can exist in another way independently of the human body. (such as the form of waves, the form or quantum state of light, etc. )
Buddhism's three methods, interest-bearing method, five eyes and six magical powers, Taoism's thought consciousness of knowing everything and so on. They are all pursuing the inherent seeking for the law, tracing back to the past and judging the future. Their purpose is to connect human beings with the existence of various consciousness in nature, and the pursuit process is the reappearance of human dreams.
To sum up: dreaming of dead relatives is the sound of consciousness of you and your dead relatives. Why is this happening? Two factors determine:
First, you have the blood of your loved ones in your blood, and the blood relationship is destined to be the same. Second, thinking induces * * * sounds. You eat, live and sleep with your relatives every day. Since childhood, your subtle communication will inevitably affect your thinking. Man has passed away, and his consciousness remains in space. Two kinds of thinking meet in different spaces to produce synchronous vibration, which makes our dreams come true. This is the answer.
In short: there are all kinds of signals at home, and images will appear when you adjust the TV frequency.
The five elements meridian theory of traditional Chinese medicine is very obvious. In the past, learning Chinese medicine depended on the secret method of human meridian passage. Now learning Chinese medicine is just learning the knowledge recorded in books. I don't understand myself. The meridians are blocked. How do I diagnose the cause of the disease? How can we recognize the dialectical relationship between the meridian trend of patients and diseases? This is also a major reason for the decline of Chinese medicine today.
Okay, that's enough. In short, people's conscious thinking is not limited by time and space, and they may meet in your dreams at any time. This is what people often say, being in the right place at the right time and being indispensable, which is another deep meaning of this sentence.
Some people dream more, and the things in their dreams are often bizarre. This situation is mostly an illusion caused by mixed information stored in the mind. Or the illusion caused by the mixing of internal and external information. For example, when you sleep, your arm is pressed, and sometimes you dream of being tied up when you sleep; If you wear less quilts and the weather is light and cold, you may dream of being blown by cold wind or snowing.
However, some people often see their dead relatives in their dreams, which is different from the delusion caused by information series. Because the information of the deceased relatives is the same as the real information before, this is not a delusion and worth studying. At present, there is not much psychological research on this situation, and it can only be explained according to the classics.
According to "The Sixth Tathagata Praise" in the Bodhisattva's Prayer Sutra, "If there is an afterlife, all beings are equal. Dream or sleep, see ghosts and gods, but they are all shaped. Or sad or crying, or sad or sigh, or fear or fear. These are the parents, brothers and sisters of the past, and the husband and wife are well-being. They have bad taste and have never been apart. There is no hope that Liv can save you. When you tell your ancestors for convenience, you are willing to leave the evil path. " In the same way, it can be inferred that often dreaming of deceased relatives may be similar to what the Tibetan scriptures say. This is a deceased relative who came to ask for a dream, hoping to help him do some rituals and get rid of evil ways. I had this dream too. I dreamed that an uncle who died in a car accident came to see me. Later, I read him the Diamond Sutra several times, and I never dreamed of it again.
Of course, this statement has no scientific basis. It is hard to believe that contemporary people are knowledgeable and seem a little superstitious. Let's talk casually, don't take it seriously. Sometimes, maybe when I am extremely relaxed during sleep, some information in my mind is released. It is a kind of information release, a normal brain physiological activity, and it is not worth making a fuss about.
There are many such things in real life. It seems that everyone will have this experience, but the frequency is high and low. Some people dream about their dead relatives once or twice a year. Some people dream several times a week; Some people are happy when they dream; Some people are depressed after dreaming. ...
As far as my work experience (psychological consultation) is concerned, if I really dream about my relatives who have died for many years, then the simplest answer is "you can't let go"! This reluctance has many meanings, some of which are that you are reluctant to leave this relative; Some of the promises you made to this relative before you died, and that relative died before he could do it; Some of them died suddenly, and TA didn't have time to explain anything to you, so you can't accept such a departure. Some relatives had many contradictions and conflicts with you before their death. You cursed TA more than once, but TA really passed away, but your hatred didn't disappear with TA's body ... Among them, all kinds of emotions such as reluctance, unwillingness, regret and hate caused by love precipitated in your inner world, pestering you, binding you and torturing you. You don't know how to release this (negative) emotion. Then, you began to use your "rational weapon" to defeat it, so you began to play a "free man" on the surface (not bound by the emotions brought by your deceased relatives), but the more you look like a person during the day, the more you attract ghosts at night. The "ghost" in your heart reminds you of your truth through the simplest form-dream! Dreaming of relatives who have died for many years, the folk mean that this is a ghost dream. Of course, dreaming of ghosts is not necessarily a nightmare. Many people dream of ghosts that they know very well, and they are not afraid at all. It's just that sadness and desolation subconsciously spread on their backs. ...
If you want to say goodbye to them (deceased relatives), whether in your daytime life or in your dreams at night, you have to finish the unfinished business with them-what words, what things, what love, what hate, what doubts ... before they die, they have no time to say, do and make an end, so let's finish it now.
Let's not talk about the word science today, just talk about my personal real thoughts and opinions. A dream that everyone cares about. Why do you often dream about your deceased relatives? Personally, I think that when people die, the body returns to nature, becoming a small part of nature and becoming eternal. However, everyone can't see it, but it still exists in nature, but it exists in nature as another substance, which is invisible and intangible. There is no denying that it exists. This is the destination of the body. And where did the human aura go? Personally, I think it also exists in the nature where we live, only in another way, invisible and intangible. This is a signal that people's aura has become wandering around. Just like a cell phone signal, it's just a signal. If there is no mobile phone to receive the signal, the signal is useless. As we all know, magnetic field can also be called magnetic signal, but if there were no magnetic field on the earth, there would be no mobile phones, telephones and televisions. Therefore, after death, the body becomes a small part of nature, and human aura can also be said to be a signal, which is a part of the signal in nature. Does this have anything to do with dreaming? I said yes, everyone knows that the signal exists and the signal is good. If there is no receiving equipment, this signal will be useless to ourselves. The signal of the deceased is useless to others and your relatives, but it is the receiving equipment that receives this signal, and your own receiver matches this signal, so you will dream about your dead relatives at night. This statement is called telepathy when relatives are alive. Not living is a dream. Most people may disagree with me. Like previous predictions, they will not be recognized, but they have existed for decades or 1800 years. Some people want to object to my statement, and it is not a relative or someone who appears in the dream. How do you explain it? For example, just like a radio, it will receive many signals and a series of sounds at the same time. And our own receiver itself successfully matched the signal of the dead, so at the same time, we would dream that our relatives and people we didn't know appeared in the same dream, including the living. The signal that people are alive will not leave the body. But the signal is there. As we often say, the sixth sense is also a reaction when the signal sent by the human body is received by itself. These are my personal feelings and understandings, but they are not completely correct. For your reference only. Maybe it will be recognized in decades or years. Love is broadcasting Yilan Media.
As the saying goes, think every day and dream every night. As long as people are still alive and thinking, they will keep thinking and remembering. The waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves before, and a new generation will replace the old ones. People in their sixties, grandparents died, then their father, uncle, aunt, father, mother, uncle, uncle, girl died one after another, and even a brother and another sister-in-law left. These three generations went to the crematorium several times in succession for decades, and gradually became numb. Actually, I know you're dead. Let me hug you again. Of course, a hug is empty, and relatives are not afraid.
Dreams are the continuation of daytime thoughts, perhaps a reflection of inspiration, maybe I miss them too much, and bring them into my dreams, sometimes I get scared. Is it because my life is not long, and my relatives call for guidance? In fact, a person's death is like a lamp. If he really has a soul, he loses his dream. If there are so many unjust, false and wrong cases, there will be no cases, and Dou E will not be wronged. If there are so many murders, ask the police for a dream and the case will be solved.
Too many dreams are also a disease. You should ask the doctor for a prescription to regulate your internal organs.