What is the joy of having a boy? What is the joy of having a girl?

Once upon a time, giving birth to a boy was called "the joy of cheating" and giving birth to a girl was called "the joy of cheating". "Nongzhang Nung Wa" praised The Book of Songs and Xiaoya Four Cadres. "When a person is born, he sleeps with his bed on his back, wears clothes on his back, and takes off his clothes on his back. ..... is the place where women are born, where they sleep, where they wear clothes and where they play with tiles. " Zhang is a good jade; Tiles are part of a spinning wheel. Boys Nongzhang and girls play with tiles, which is a view that boys like better than girls. The difference between "sleeping in Nongzhang" and "sleeping in tiles" still existed in disguise during the Republic of China. In some places, male students are called "exultation" and female students are called "Little Xi". Friends and relatives presented colorful books and couplets. Male students wrote "Nongzhang" and female students wrote "Tiling". In his article, Mr. Lu Xun once exposed and criticized this patriarchal approach: as soon as his son was born, he regarded it as a treasure, put it on the bed, dressed him well, and played with a piece of jade (Zhang) in his hand; If you have a daughter, you can only throw it on the ground and give her a tile to play with.