Some people think that Aite's colleagues in the working group, especially Aite's leadership, are very wrong. Maybe he doesn't feel offended by the newcomer, but thinks that your behavior has affected his professional image in front of leaders and colleagues.
Someone said: "I don't think this is a taboo in the workplace, but there is a feeling of naming and criticizing." Even when I was in college, the class Committee only chose one classmate in the group, and there was another feeling that this comrade was named in public. It is best to talk privately. "
Then let's look at the problem from this angle. Why does he feel this way? He may think that if you communicate with each other through a large group, the other party will inevitably think twice and think that you may be assigning him a job openly, but he feels that the job has been handed in and doesn't want to continue to intervene.
Someone said: "A colleague told me that it is taboo to classify Aite who is more senior than his colleagues in the workplace, so it is necessary to say it in private." He also said that he was excellent before he came to this company, but he should pay attention to this problem when he first came. "
Some people say: "Not only in the workplace, when studying, the class committee will also collect information and remind them to make up lessons in private chat. Only when you don't come back from private chat will you be in the group. This is the feeling of naming and criticizing. "
However, some people don't. Someone said, "Sorry, we often cooperate with a large group of Aite leaders to urge approval. It is he who puts himself too high, but you know this man's nature and loves to care. Just pay a little attention to his problems, so as not to give you little shoes. "
Then the question is coming, isn't it to inform the other party to make it public? This is not because he made mistakes in his work. It is understandable that he will be angry if he is criticized for being so special in the group, but this is only a normal notice.
But some people think that if it's important, I can't contact anyone, and Aite can accept it. If sesame seeds are big, it's really hard in the group. So it can be seen that everyone's reaction to this matter is different. Some people think it doesn't matter, others feel offended.
So now, if it is not a serious problem, many people try to avoid making others uncomfortable and reduce the potential probability of making enemies, thinking that doing so is only good for individuals and not bad.