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In feelings, women are always willing to pay, and humble love will only make them lose the right to be loved.
After all, men and women think differently. When you lose your original charm, men no longer love you.
As Zhang Ailing said: "Love a person can be very humble, so humble as to fall into the dust. Fear of losing will make you dislike yourself, but he doesn't love you in this dust. "
Women must remember that when it is time to maintain dignity, they must maintain dignity, and when it is time to maintain principles, they must not do things they should not do. Once they do, they will make themselves "fall in price".
You have to understand that if a man thinks you are "cheap", he will definitely not treat you as a treasure, and he will always be negligent. You can't be happy with him.
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A woman should always pay attention to her words and deeds no matter who she is with.
You know, everything you say and do is related to your position in another person's heart.
Some things will make men look up to you, but these behaviors will make women look cheap:
Pay no attention to your image
If you don't have a good image, how do you want others to see your beautiful appearance? After two people are together, women often give up external promotion because they have seemingly stable feelings, wishful thinking that no matter what they look like, that man will like himself very much.
As everyone knows, such performance will only make women very cheap. Who doesn't want his other half to be clean and shiny? If a woman's image gradually moves closer to the street aunt, then her temperament will also change accordingly, making others feel "cheap".
Therefore, no matter who a woman is with, she should pay attention to her image. If she indulges herself blindly and is untidy for a long time, she will only look cheap.
Always asking for his advice, having no opinion of his own.
Everyone should have their own opinions, and we can't ask others' opinions every time we meet something. Because other people's ideas can't represent your ideas. If a woman takes a man's opinion as her own, then you will always obey what he says without his own opinion.
At first, men may think you are obedient, but after getting along for a long time, men will think you are cheap and even stop respecting you. He thinks he got you, and your obedience is a sign of your cheapness in his eyes.
Therefore, women, no matter how much you love a man, you should understand that asking for his advice is to respect his performance, but asking for his advice in everything will make you look cheap.
Separated and still struggling.
Men and women are different. When a man says he doesn't love, he really doesn't. And women may change their minds because of men's insistence after breaking up, but men will not have such performance.
After separation, the more women struggle, the more men will feel that women are cheap. After all, people who are optimistic are fearless. Your affection will make you humble to the dust, but he doesn't love you so much. Your efforts will become worthless, your feelings will appear cheap, and all you have to do is move yourself and push him to another woman.
Women should love themselves well and don't be too humble under any circumstances. If you break up, turning around decisively and struggling hard will only make you mean and even make that man regret being with you.
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Women must understand what to do and what not to do in their feelings.
Let yourself live with self-esteem and love with dignity. Don't make yourself cheap because of feelings and men.
You should be like a proud white swan, confident, calm and noble.
But all this is your own efforts. Therefore, strive to improve yourself and make yourself better from the inside out, and you will become the most beautiful existence in a man's heart.