It turns out that Qin Xiao and Xiaojun have been working hard in the metropolis. Both of them are ordinary company employees, and their income is not very high. After several years of hard work, they mortgaged a house.
After paying off the mortgage and other daily expenses every month, they have little income left.
To make matters worse, Xiaojun's mother suddenly fell ill.
Xiaojun, who received the call, was very worried. He rushed back to his hometown overnight with only 10 thousand yuan. Before he left, he repeatedly told Qin Xiao to borrow 10,000 yuan and transfer it tomorrow.
The next day, Qin Xiao borrowed money from his colleagues and transferred it to Xiaojun. Unexpectedly, Xiaojun came back that night.
Faced with Xiao Jun who hurried back, Xiao Qin was puzzled and asked, "How did you come back so soon? How is mom's situation? "
Xiaojun looked a little unnatural and replied hesitantly, "It's no big deal. You can leave the hospital after observation in the hospital. "
After listening to Xiaojun's words, Qin Xiao was relieved and asked, "Did you use the money transferred later?"
Xiaojun said, "Yes, I renewed my hospitalization deposit."
Xiao Qin was a little surprised by this answer. Since my mother-in-law is not seriously ill, why should she pay an extra deposit of 10 thousand yuan for hospitalization?
However, considering that Jun Xiao was very tired all the way, Qin Xiao didn't ask again.
What Xiao Qin didn't expect was that this was just the beginning.
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After that illness, Xiaojun's mother called Xiaojun every once in a while, saying that she was not feeling well and asked her to go back to see a doctor.
Qin Xiao reminded Xiaojun: "Mom's illness is always repeated, which is not the way. It is better to take her to a big hospital in the city for a thorough inspection. "
Jun Xiao ignored Qin Xiao's opinion. In order to meet his mother's demand for money at any time, Xiaojun even remitted all his income back to his hometown. The pressure of mortgage and living expenses fell on Qin Xiao's shoulders.
In this way, Xiao Qin had to borrow money from his colleagues to repay the mortgage.
After persisting for a period of time, faced with Xiaojun's indifference and more and more debts, Qin Xiao really couldn't persist, and she filed for divorce.
In Qin Xiao's view, he can get rid of Xiaojun and his mother through divorce and start a normal life again.
However, she didn't expect that the tree would calm down and the wind wouldn't stop. Xiaojun's mother still hasn't given up.
One day after the divorce, Qin Xiao received a phone call from Xiaojun's mother. Out of politeness, Qin Xiao thought about it and answered the question.
After the phone was connected, Xiaojun's mother's tone was a little tough: "Daughter-in-law, why did you divorce Xiaojun so rashly?" You will remarry immediately! "
Qin Xiao asked calmly, "Aunt, don't you know the reason why Xiaojun and I divorced?"
Xiaojun's mother said with some annoyance, "Just because an old woman of mine is spending money to see a doctor here, it makes you unhappy. You young people don't understand filial piety now! "
Qin Xiao still said quietly, "Auntie, if you really need money when you are sick, even if you lose everything, I have no complaints. But are you really sick and spend money? "
Xiaojun's mother faltered and said loudly, "You have to give me alimony, whether you are sick or not!" "
Qin Xiao sighed lightly and said, "Aunt, I'm telling you for the last time, whether the money I give you exceeds the alimony standard or not. It's just that Xiaojun gives you all his income. Do you think he has done his duty as a husband in a family? "
For a family like Xiaojun, Qin Xiao doesn't intend to set foot in it again. It is not the pride of "a good horse doesn't eat grass back", but such a family really has no nostalgia.
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Later, Qin Xiao heard that Xiaojun's mother used "illness" as an excuse to ask Xiaojun and Qin Xiao for money, because she wanted to save some pension money for herself, and because she was worried that if Xiaojun married Qin Xiao, Qin Xiao would divide the property.
Hearing this statement, Xiao Qin just shook his head and smiled, which further proved that he was right to choose divorce.
As for Xiaojun's mother later asked Qin Xiao to remarry, it was because Xiaojun couldn't get rid of the single situation, and Xiaojun's mother thought of such a way.
If I know this, why should I know it?
It should be a harmonious and beautiful family, but it has come to the point of falling apart because of its excessive persistence in material things and selfishness in character.
Children have the responsibility and obligation to support their parents, but parents can't treat their children as ATMs. On the issue of alimony, parents can talk with their children on the table instead of taking some hidden or even deceptive means.
In family life, don't treat material wealth with selfish mentality, at least keep respecting the autonomy of other family members in material control.
Deception and selfishness are bound to lose the trust of others, so is family life.
Without trust as the foundation, how can a family be maintained?
When a child's marriage breaks down, parents not only don't reflect on their own behavior, but take their own selfishness to further demand others' behavior. It's ridiculous!