At eight o'clock in the evening, I received a message from my cousin. My heart thumped. You won't borrow money from me again, will you? !
Sure enough, after a few commonplaces, we talked about borrowing money. He said he wanted me to lend him the loan, and he promised to pay me back on time. I refused again and again. He said, give me the real estate license and loan guarantee, and he really asked me if he couldn't even help his relatives.
I'm helpless and it's hard to do it. I said, if you go on like this, we won't even have the last blood relationship. I really can't help you.
Not to mention that I really can't help him, my cousin borrowed money from me, not once or twice, but four or five times. I refused once last time. Since the Spring Festival last year, I decided not to borrow any more money, because borrowing money will only make our feelings fade again.
That was a few days after my mother and I visited his house last year. He suddenly called me and said that he needed to lend me 1 10,000 to 20,000 for emergency and pay me back in a month. Since he said he could pay it back in a month, I believed him and lent him 10 thousand. Soon I transferred 10 thousand to him. Originally, he wanted to lend me a little more, but I was worried and insisted on borrowing only 10 thousand.
A month later, he didn't take the initiative to pay me back. After I sent him a message, he didn't reply to me immediately, and it was delayed until the afternoon 12. After I urged it many times, it was transferred to me. In fact, I really don't want to have the cheek to rush to pay back the money, but he really doesn't have this consciousness and is embarrassed. So whether I have the ability or not, I don't want to lend money to others, which will only make two friends helpless.
Speaking of my cousin, we were quite friendly when I was studying. I often go to his house. Later, after graduating from work, he went to work in Guangzhou. I have also been to Guangzhou several times to find him and live in the house he rented.
Later he changed his job and went to Shenzhen. I never went to see him again.
The first time he borrowed money from me, it should be ten years ago, when he borrowed 3 thousand from me. I gave it. But he didn't keep his promise and pay me back before the deadline. I hate people who break their promises. As the saying goes, it is not difficult to borrow again if you borrow and pay back. But if he drags on like this and has no credit, it will be really bad. After that, I seldom contacted him, let alone went to Shenzhen to play with him.
I later told my mother about the 3000 yuan, and she told my uncle. Anyway, my mother gave me the answer that they gave it back to her, so I won't ask again.
Although 3 thousand is not much, in this way, the feelings between our cousins have faded. He never talks to me, and I never contact him. I heard a lot about him from my mother.
Looking back on the past ten years, my cousin's fate is really rough. Superstition says that his life is bad. My cousin is a few years older than me and doesn't study very well. After graduation, he went to Guangzhou. I don't know much about the specific work. I only remember that when I first went to see him, he was the director of a shopping mall or something. It seems to be doing well. During his stay in Guangzhou, he changed several girlfriends, but none of them happened. My aunt is also anxious about it. Later, he went to Shenzhen. I heard that he works as a manager in SF, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan. Looks like he did a good job. But I don't know why, and his financial situation has been in trouble ever since. I don't know the details. I heard that I invested in a lottery station and later failed; I heard that I was cheated by hundreds of thousands or something. I know nothing about his financial situation except that he always seems to need to borrow money during his years in Shenzhen. Asked me several times, but I declined.
He is also in his forties, unmarried and worried about his uncle and aunt. Last year, I heard that I fell in love with a woman. menstruation felt that the woman was too short and there was nothing she could do. Later, they gave birth to children and got married in their hometown. I didn't come back without time. I said I put it here in Shenzhen, but I don't know why it didn't come up. If there is wine here in Shenzhen, I can go there. They had a daughter, and my cousin forced her to buy a small house in Shenzhen. I heard it costs 2 million. The housing prices in this first-tier city really surprised people in third-and fourth-tier cities. This time, my cousin is in more debt.
Later, I heard that the woman suspected her cousin of all kinds of bad things and refused to give her the life she wanted. They got divorced! I was surprised when I heard the news. Not long after having children, I divorced willfully. ! This woman has a great personality. This wife I haven't met is a thing of the past.
Poor cousin, bought a house, got into debt, divorced. The baby is also the woman's. The housing price in Shenzhen is beyond the reach of ordinary people.
After the divorce, I heard that he was going to sell the house. I wonder if he sold it. He borrowed money from me last year.
In fact, I think that if I can't get along in Shenzhen, I might as well go back to Maoming and live a better life without so much burden. But he said that I am living well in Shenzhen now, with development and prospects. I don't think so.
Besides her cousin, she also has a cousin whose marriage is not smooth. She got married early, but she divorced again when she heard that her husband was prone to violence and domestic violence. At present, I have been living in my uncle's house. My aunt and uncle have retired, but my uncle found a job as a security guard and earned a little money.
Fate is so ruthless that many family lives are very difficult.
For my cousin, I can only say that I can't help him. If I were rich and powerful, I would be happy to help him, but I am just a member of an ordinary family, and I have barely helped others.
May he tide over the difficulties as soon as possible.