This sentence "It's time to put it down" seems to put Liu Xin down. In fact, as a psychological counselor, I prefer to look at this "letting go" from a psychological point of view. Putting others down is actually putting yourself down. So, in a word, I think Jiangge's mother should "let go" Liu Xin. If you don't let go, you will always be entangled with Liu Xin. Your eyes will be affected by each other's words and deeds, and your mood will be affected by each other's behavior. It's a pity that Liu Xin won't do anything to make you happy. In her place, Jiangge's mother won't have anything happy to happen. Is that what people say?
If we don't let go, Jiangge's mother won't take her eyes off Liu Xin. Liu Xin's existence now has no other positive significance except reminding Jiangge's mother that she once lost a beloved daughter. The focus of Jiangge's mother's life will always be on this negative event. ? Of course, no one can forget the "so heavy" in life, but not forgetting does not mean that we will never alleviate the pain, condemnation and crusade. After all, if we want to live, there will be no one in this life. Then, it is a question of how to live. Should we crusade? should be However, there is a limit, and this limit should be on the premise that you can still live a normal life with sunshine and warmth in your life.
So, in my opinion, it's time to let go. To be exact, Jiangge's mother must first let go of herself, allow herself to have a new meaning and way of life, and allow herself to live more meaningfully in her lifetime. I think this is what Jiangge would like to see. If you let yourself go, you will free your life.
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