Rb: No matter how much your husband loves you, don't treat him as a relative.
I just came back from a business trip in Beijing the other day. Before I went home, I received a phone call from Liu Juan. She cried and said to me, where are you? Can you come and stay with me? I may get a divorce. ? Hearing this, I rushed over without coming or putting my luggage away.
As soon as I entered the room, many things were scattered all over the floor, vases were dropped, wedding dresses were cut, and even the photos on the wall were broken. Later, I learned that she quarreled with her husband because she discovered each other's secrets.
While cleaning up the house, Liu Juan came across a contract in a drawer. It was a house purchase contract, and the signature on it was neither her husband nor her, but a woman's name.
She knows this woman very well, that is, a female colleague who is close to her husband. The two of them had quarreled about it, but Liu Juan loved her husband so much that they believed everything they said.
Who knows that the relationship between the two people has reached this stage, and it is obvious that what she is most worried about has already happened. When he came back from work, Liu Juan asked him for a statement. At first, he was picky. Later, when he saw the contract, he calmed down a lot and confessed everything. He also told Liu Juan that he was pregnant with his own child. If he wants a divorce, he should leave.
Liu Juan ended up like this. It is strange that she treats each other as relatives.
1. Relatives may not leave you, but husbands will.
Anyone who has experienced a failed marriage knows that relatives may not leave you, but husbands will.
So don't treat your husband as your own relative, or you don't know how much pain he will suffer if he leaves you.
In the face of her husband's ruthless betrayal, Liu Juan is particularly sad, because she is too attached to each other at ordinary times, so her sense of loss is very painful.
After the divorce, she didn't know what to do, let alone how to adapt to life without him.
The more a woman regards her husband as one of her own in marriage, the easier it is to lose some chips.
Second, women should love themselves and don't get stuck in it.
If a woman treats her husband as one of her own, she can't help but sink in.
The more you love each other in marriage, the easier it is for the other person to lead you by the nose.
Similarly, women treat men as their own because of their deep love for them, so they give their hearts to each other.
Women must learn to love themselves, or you will easily hit a wall in marriage.
At the same time, women must be rational when getting along with men, and never fall in love blindly.
Third, it is best to keep more distance from your husband.
Liu Juan's husband cheated, the biggest reason is that he can't stand the temptation, but only if he has lost interest in Liu Juan.
She regards each other as one of her own, so everything is transparent, including her own heart, so he dares to say that Liu Juan can't live without him.
Husband and wife are lovers, there is no need to be relatives. It's better for two people to keep a little distance.
Women should hide more secrets and more things of their own, so that they can keep the temptation, and secondly, they will not appear too ignorant.
In short, women should not treat a man as one of their own just because he has been kind to them for a while, let alone dare to give her all because of his sweet words. It is true that love is about heart-to-heart, but we should also know how to hold back, otherwise the longer the time, the more tasteless the feelings between two people will be.