A friend is someone you want to see when you are happy, someone you want to find when you are sad, someone you don't have to say thank you when you get help from the other side, someone you don't have to say sorry when you are disturbed, and someone you don't have to change your name when you are promoted. Friends can walk in the rain with umbrellas, roll on the beach by the sea, immerse themselves in some kind of musical reverie, swim in the sea of books, have sorrow to accompany you to cry, and have joy to accompany you to laugh silly.
A friend is not the first person to come, nor the person who has known him for the longest time, but the person who has never left since he came. The most precious thing is not that you can't get it or lose it, but that you have it at this moment. Too much experience, only friends are unbeaten. What can be used to interpret this special thing? I think it is decades of eternal life. It's best to pass in a blink of an eye, grab, grab, slip away, stay and be satisfied. Although I am not satisfied with these things, I have experienced too much, and I am happy to keep them with me. Friends don't keep in touch often, but they won't forget that every time they think about it occasionally, they still feel so warm, so kind and so gentle. Friends put care in their hearts and hide care in their eyes; Friends go through life after life. Friends don't have to be suitable, but they must be in the same boat. You don't have to be inseparable, but you must cherish each other. It doesn't have to be icing on the cake, but it must be timely. You don't have to meet every day, but you must keep it in mind. Life is really not long, cherish each other!
How to play alone in the New Year? (A person is in Jiangyou, Mianyang, a foreign country).
It's a joke.
Hypocrite, don't press it now.
Having an affair again. Comfortable and annoying.
It'll be fun, won't it?
When a person is wronged in a foreign land, he is particularly homesick, being in a foreign land and being a stranger. He misses his relatives twice every holiday.
Everyone will miss home when they are far away from home, but we can't give up the idea of struggle because of this little miss. If you are wronged, you can talk to your friends and confide in them. When you are homesick, you can call your parents and ask them how they are. You can't fade away because of temporary sadness, but think about what you need to do at this moment and what is the purpose of your leaving home.
I don't mind if people can eat cold salad in a foreign land. I think this is a step. When you come to the bridge, it is the most important thing to find a job that does not require academic qualifications and solve your own food, clothing, housing and transportation. Then you can learn experience and technology at work, gradually clarify your goals and develop towards your ideals. I don't know what you think!
Traditional interpersonal relationships are always telling you how to keep your distance from others, warning you never to develop office friendship, teaching you how to work step by step, how to play tricks in the dark, and how to defeat the enemy in the office-in private, you should not look arrogant. Can you calm down and think about it, are you really separated from him, from them, and from your colleagues who spend a third of their time with them every day?
With the development of modern society to 2 1 century, interpersonal relationship has also shown a new trend. Perhaps the most popular phrase in recent years is "teamwork". It is not only "teamwork", but also "team consciousness". In the past, the traditional departmentalism, which was fortified everywhere and fragmented, fell behind overnight. Interpersonal communication in the new century is to communicate with each other, communicate at any time, cooperate deeply, and put team interests first. It puts forward a new challenge to the self-enclosed people-enhancing their interpersonal skills, jumping out of their own small circles and integrating into the collective, which has become an unavoidable reality for many people.
Avoiding office politics and refusing to participate in company activities will only make people feel that you are withdrawn. Ignoring corporate culture is a big weakness in expanding business; Indifference is the taboo of team leaders. Modern enterprise operation puts forward a brand-new rule when evaluating employees: a loyal and excellent employee is not necessarily outstanding, but the ability to communicate, coordinate and cooperate with others is an important index to evaluate his comprehensive strength.
Outside the office, skillfully weave a personal network.
In modern society, although competition is everywhere, nine times out of ten colleagues are all for the same goal, not to mention a win-win situation. The simplest thing is that the efficiency of the department can't go up, and no one can expect to have promotion opportunities. Many times, it is more meaningful to help each other in the same boat than to fight in the same room. It is the essence of "teamwork" in the new century to integrate oneself rather than choose to go out. Many people admit that it is very important to establish interpersonal network in their own industry, because it can not only open the door for themselves and create business opportunities, but at the same time, people often ignore another actually more important and more basic construction-establishing good interpersonal relationships within the enterprise will help ensure the peace of the "backyard".
If you want to get close to a colleague and get to know this group, perhaps the best way is to participate in various activities organized by the company, such as dinners, outings, camping and so on. There, people will take off their tight shells and tell their sufferings and joys in a relatively relaxed state. You will hear real complaints and sincere compliments, including objective evaluation, and you will also find out who is close to whom and who is far away from whom. Don't sell yourself short. You are a good person who peeps into other people's secrets. As long as you have the right attitude and the basic ability to distinguish right from wrong, you will find out who can be your friend and who will stop at colleagues.
When people are busy in the office, people's thoughts and activities are mostly strictly confined to the scope of work. When people walk out of the office building and enter a brand-new environment, they will find that I am not the only one who needs to relax. Many things will reach our ears, even if it has nothing to do with us, as long as there is an opportunity, we will listen carefully with great interest. Chatting with colleagues can help you jump out of the usual one acre and three points, and let you have a more comprehensive understanding of the company.
If you are observant and analytical, you will find that every plan or change of the company will not come quietly. Chatting among colleagues probably provides you with an "early warning function" invisibly, from which you can discover new plans, new projects and even the recent emotions of senior leaders.
Associating with colleagues can expand your reputation and improve your popularity. "Focus on participation" is definitely not an excuse for losers. With the growth of social experience, you will find that many things in China are absolutely different. Whether you like it or not, you can always get some information by participating in it. If you are good at communication, the opportunity of promotion and salary increase will not be silently skipped because of your silence. Even if you fail, at least you know who you lost and why.
Many people think that as long as you work hard, everything will come naturally. In fact, your achievements are likely to be buried. Only by actively looking for Bole's swift horse can you create opportunities for yourself to achieve great things. Some people hate chatting with colleagues and spending their rest time with others. They think it's too utilitarian and calculating. In fact, as long as you are not malicious to others, this is an extremely responsible attitude towards yourself.
Everyone can't get rid of the attributes of social people, and every enterprise is a group. Communicating with people is only a means to help your career succeed. Its basic premise is to require individuals to have excellent business ability and be able to complete their own work by piling up.
Suggestions on the practice of interpersonal communication in the office
If you want to win respect in the office and build a successful interpersonal network, the following suggestions can not be ignored:
Join some organizations: let people know who you are, what your specialty is, and what resource advantages you have. Actively participate in various meetings to expand their visibility.
Second, seek leadership positions: strive for leadership positions, let yourself master some new skills, maintain vigorous vitality, get in touch with some influential people, and show professionalism.
Third, set interpersonal goals: list five or six people you want to contact and look for opportunities to introduce yourself to them. Don't expect too much from anyone you meet. Pay attention to maintaining your personal network, often make phone calls, send emails and even share articles with the same interests.
Fourth, make good use of every meeting: meetings are not routine. If two or three friends can keep in touch after each meeting, the meeting will be fruitful. If you walk around the meeting and collect a bunch of business cards, no one will be impressed afterwards, and I'm afraid there will be no other gains except a sense of failure.
5. Strengthen memory ability: If it is polite to introduce yourself to others repeatedly, it is impolite to ask others what their last name is. In order not to let others think that you are absent-minded, you'd better use some methods to strengthen your memory, such as attaching a short description on the back of your business card, indicating which company, what position, when and where you met him, what impressed you the most, and so on.
Sixth, provide enough time for interpersonal communication: interpersonal communication is a time-consuming and laborious project. If you receive a call from a friend, it is best to reply within 24 hours; Although you can keep saying that the meeting will be held in 10 minutes, as long as you are professional and sincere, you can make more friends as soon as possible.
Ask yourself what you need: never think that no one wants to help you. As long as you speak, you will find how enthusiastic people are. No matter what your request is, you'd better express it concisely. If you want others to help you find a job, you'd better say, "Zhang, I'm looking for a job. Is there such a vacancy in your purchasing department? " If you say, "Do you have a job? I want to find a job, so others can't help you solve it at all.
"Eight Notices" of Office Friendship
Everyone has his own preferences and interests. There is no need to follow other people's advice, and there is no need to overemphasize or underestimate yourself. Integrating into a large group can inadvertently increase your knowledge and make you gain unexpected gains. Don't think that the world lacks friends, and don't think that there is no friendship on the battlefield. Actually, as long as you are sincere, you will find more sincere faces.
There is no doubt that the office will always be the place where reason prevails. In the office, the safest relationship is business partnership, that is, colleague relationship. So some people say that the office is the place where friendship dies. In fact, the reality is not so absolute. Under the same roof, no matter how conservative and indifferent the office environment is, colleagues can always learn the details of each other's lives: it may be a phone call, an occasional complaint, or an upset that is inadvertently revealed ... but who doesn't want to live a more "colorful" life in this one-third of life? Therefore, establish appropriate friendship with like-minded colleagues, lend a helping hand when the other party needs it, and send warm wishes at the right time and place ... you will make a fortune by raising your hand.
This "office friendship mastery method" reminds you to grasp the subtleties of office friendship.
First, pay attention to separating friendship from work as much as possible.
Second, be careful when giving your friends trust.
If you feel that friendship puts you and your friends in an awkward position, you'd better find an opportunity to talk openly and in detail, and if necessary, pay attention to getting rid of the potential crisis.
Be careful not to spread rumors in the office, especially because friendship can get some gossip.
Fifth, pay attention to the company's various regulations on friendship. Many companies limit the friendship between employees to avoid causing trouble to small groups or gangs in the enterprise. There are also some companies that clearly define the friendship between employees and customers to avoid unnecessary troubles.
6. Pay attention to avoid too personal office problems, especially within eight hours.
7. Be careful not to try to use any kind of friendship as a lever for business operation.
Eight, get along in the office, we must pay attention to the use of body language, pay attention to the use of sound, pay attention to the wording not too intimate. Avoid showing off your friendship with people in the company.
What if a person is penniless abroad? Thank you, you can surf the Internet and work! Find * * * Luo, and you will be saved to the end.
What do you think about the Shandong brothers' holiday in a foreign country during the Dragon Boat Festival?
I am a lonely stranger in a strange land, and I miss my family more often during the holidays.
When I think of my brothers' bodies climbing high, I will feel a little regret for not being able to reach me. But this is the Double Ninth Festival, and the artistic conception is similar.
Spend the New Year alone in a foreign land. How to alleviate the feeling of homesickness? Call home, talk to your family first and tell them how much you miss them. Or spend the New Year with the same friends, so more people can go shopping together and miss each other. Come on! Happy New Year!
Alone in a foreign land.
Poet: A Hai in Spring City
Dense workshops are sometimes a little sentimental,
Occasionally came a cold sigh from the office girl.
Is this Foxconn or Kungang?
I'm used to being scolded,
Honestly, I'm really tired and a little desperate.
Suddenly want to escape to another place,
Walking in the cold street at midnight,
Full of enthusiasm, no one talks about it,
Only melancholy tears moistened the eyes,
My loneliness is like moonlight outside the window.
All dreams have been forgotten,
Sometimes I naively hope that,
I can be like the wind,
When you are unhappy, you are arrogant and wander around at will.
Fly freely when you are happy,
I can go where I want,
But this is just my wishful thinking,
I still have to eat after waking up every day.
Reality doesn't allow us to be careless,
When people are in a foreign land, they always have to put up with cold eyes.
My loneliness in a foreign land is still like moonlight,
People's future in a foreign country is as cold as snow.
Freedom is as out of reach as a traffic light,
We can't find the romance of Uncle Xu Zhimo,
Can only continue the tragic of Haizi's brother,
Spell, spell and draw a line.
What song should a person give her when she is lonely and helpless in a foreign country? I don't want to leave you alone on May Day.
This song is simple, but persistent. It is moved by sadness and inspires young people.
The lyrics are as follows
What did you say?/Sorry? I know you're not here, but I still have to ask.
Air can't replace your voice.
Habits are like stubborn scars that never heal.
When I miss you, I tear my soul apart.
Put the photos away so that you can store them and develop another one.
The sweater is also for you, with an extra layer.
But when you are alone, your temperature is comforting.
How to keep an extra copy for yourself?
I don't want you to float and sink in the sea of people alone.
I don't want you to walk through the storm alone.
I don't want you to suffer the cruelty of this world alone.
I don't want tears to accompany you forever.
After you left, the remains of love were like empty cities.
Leave your cup, gloves and laughter.
In the end, you just took away your fragility and simplicity.
And the one I can't let go of.
Maybe in the future, you will find someone who knows you better and loves you more.
In the next journey, you will be happier and richer.
I don't want you to float and sink in the sea of people alone.
I don't want you to walk through the storm alone.
I don't want you to suffer the cruelty of this world alone.
I don't want tears to accompany you forever.
What did you say?/Sorry? I know you're not here, but I still have to ask.
Just because I am used to your satisfied eyes.
This is just my last hope.
I just want you to be happy.
Just ask fate to take you to a brand-new journey.
Run to the end of happiness in the world
Don't run forward without looking back.
Please forget that I am still lonely.