Wisdom makes marriage happier.

1. Learn to listen to each other's conversations. When talking about their spouses, most interviewees enthusiastically said that he (she) is a very good person and listens to me carefully. He (she) did it not out of politeness, but out of genuine interest. 2. Be careful. Happiness is as fragile as glass. Therefore, your daily behavior should be like this-as if you have just made a decision to give your future to him or her. You should let him or her know how happy your love makes you. 3. Skin Contact Pietro Pinto said: "If there is no warmth for one day, the marriage relationship will be shortened by two days." Couples don't have to hug each other often. However, the touch of love is a placebo for the soul. 4. Show your feelings. For marriage, feelings are the water that flowers need. Without feelings, the relationship between husband and wife will break down. But both husband and wife should also learn to express their feelings, and encourage each other to do the same thing, that is, show their feelings. To be patient, we must deepen and develop our relationship. But trust can't be created overnight, so be patient. Many couples make this mistake in the first few years, that is, they expect too much from each other too quickly. Be clear: you have plenty of time to get to know and understand each other, but it takes time. 6. Be sincere. If the other person does not agree with you, then you should talk to him or her and tell the truth. Maybe you don't have to talk to each other right away, let alone argue, but you can fall in love twice and talk to each other calmly and talk about everything. Otherwise, how can the other person know what you like and dislike? 7. Forgive each other's shortcomings and weaknesses. You should allow the other person to have some shortcomings and weaknesses, and you should smile and forgive the other person's shortcomings and weaknesses. Anyone who insists on doing this will have a ticket to happiness. 8. You should learn to compliment each other. You should do this every day. You should say something personal to the other person, talk about his/her appearance, his/her smile, talk about his/her life and so on. If you reciprocate, he (she) will reciprocate. 9. lighten each other's burden. When everyone is unhappy, husband and wife can enlighten each other and make two hearts closely connected. 10. Never fall asleep in an argument. You should abide by the principle of sleeping and say some sweet words full of love before going to bed. 1 1. Willing to give each other free space and always asking each other what they are doing, nothing hurts marriage more than this. Don't do this! Everyone has the right to do what he is very willing to do. 12. Never take care of each other. The other party has grown up. You can persuade each other by persuasion, but leave it alone. The other party even has the right to make mistakes. 13. Protect each other. It doesn't matter what the couple say in private, but in public, in principle, you two are a whole. If one of you is attacked, the other person should help him or her. Summing up happiness is like glass, shining with colorful rainbow in the sun. That's the taste of happiness. That fantastic aesthetic feeling makes people intoxicated and infatuated with that taste. Love is like drug addiction. If you want happiness to become a habit, you can't give up and remember it for life. Only in this way can you grow old together. Wisdom makes marriage happier. 1. Marriage is your own. Don't compare with other people who have experienced the sweetness of love. Lovers in love are in love. After romance, when they move from love to marriage, they may face more and become necessities of life. Half of life is mountains, rivers, lakes and seas, and half is short at home. Couples spend a short time with their parents, and it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and quarrels, and sometimes there will be frustration and complaints. They even compare their partners with others and think that other people's partners are excellent. In the long run, the relationship between husband and wife will become more and more fragile. Marriage is your own, you can work hard together for a lifetime, and you can only be each other's partner. No matter how good others are, they are others' lives, not their own. And those marriages that you envy, after you have really experienced them, you may find that they are not as beautiful as you think. After many years of wandering after ending a marriage, many people finally find that it seems that they often miss the people who feel happy in the end, the marriage they don't like, the people who care about themselves the most, and the partners they once didn't like, but everything has changed, and they want to go back, but they can't. Second, don't say cruel words when you are impulsive. The most comforting words in this world are the words that people care about, the most hurtful words, and the words that are blurted out, especially when the husband and wife are angry, which may cause irreparable harm to each other. Too many couples, because they didn't control their temper well, said something that hurt each other in anger, and even decided to divorce on impulse. After I calmed down, I began to regret it, but I couldn't let go of the injury for a while. I finally chose to end my marriage. Even though I still love each other, I have become a stranger in a strange way. It's a pity and sad. So don't be impulsive in marriage, be calm when things happen, and don't let yourself spend the rest of your life in regret because of a temporary impulse. Third, understand each other and cherish each other. After ten years of practice, you can sleep for a hundred years with one pillow. Being able to choose each other's TOEFL because of love and go to the palace of marriage is the most rare fate in life. Marriage begins with love and ends with responsibility. In this life, the most important thing is to understand and cherish each other. Only in this way can we really be together for life. Husband and wife should understand each other at all times, don't complain, and don't criticize each other too much. You know it's not easy for me. I understand your difficulty. If you promise to be gentle, I will accompany you forever. Life is long, even if there are occasional difficulties in marriage, as long as two people's hearts are together, everything will get better gradually, and love will never disappear, but sometimes it will be gradually ignored and forgotten. As long as you feel it with your heart, all the excitement and feelings will be felt in your heart, never give up and never dissipate. Cherish this hard-won feeling, always remember the first touch and beauty, even if life is not easy, as long as we understand each other and cherish each other, then the road of life will not be too difficult. Win a heart and join hands to get old, and the heart you get is the cherished care and the sincerity to accompany you all your life. Running a marriage is an emotion and a kind of wisdom. The classic book Happy Marriage: The Way for Men and Women to Live Together for a Long Time by John Goldman, a marriage pope, a master of interpersonal relationships and a famous psychologist, reveals the methods and wisdom of living together for a long time in marriage. If you are interested, you may wish to have a look. I believe there will be gains.