Life is a trivial matter except death. Don't despair over trivial matters. Try to find a solution before the only major event.
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A person's personality is the sum of all social relations. And a person's social relations are constantly changing with time. At the age of 20, you will look at yourself at 15, and your face will be blurred; At the age of 25, when you look back at yourself at the age of 20, you think more about "Who is this person?" In this life, there are too many variables that affect our destiny. In many decision-making moments that affect the future direction of life, it is usually a fragmented moment that you don't realize in plain life.
"Character decides fate" is more like a one-sided and static analysis and judgment made by intercepting a cross section on the timeline of early life. It ignores the development of various causes in life, ignores people's subjective initiative to resist fate and self-awakening, and is a universal killer for various stakeholders to sell their anxiety. In this world, there are many "experience talks" that seem to be hindsight.