How to save an ex-boyfriend? It's normal for couples to break up. In daily life, many women want to save each other after breaking up. Saving people is very skillful. Let's share how to save our ex-boyfriend and find out together.
How to save your ex-boyfriend 1 First, keep a moderate distance.
No matter how much you loved each other in the past, you have broken up now, and those in the past are just memories. Now that we have broken up, we should keep a moderate distance from him. You can't ask questions about him as before, which will only annoy him. Don't hold his arm affectionately when you meet him, and don't talk a lot enthusiastically. This kind of behavior will make boys feel pressure and even feel that you have no self-esteem. It's obvious that both of them broke up, and you still cling to him, as if all those rude words were for nothing. "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are often fearless." The nicer you are to this boy, the less he takes you seriously. You are neither supercilious nor arrogant to him, which is attractive to him.
Second, enhance their feminine charm.
Both men and women like attractive women, so you might as well spend your time on improving your' feminine charm' instead of being unhappy. Feminine charm is usually manifested as internal and external, the most important of which is internal, but your external determines whether boys are willing to understand your internal. Therefore, as a girl, it is very necessary to keep the clothes clean and tidy, and it would be better if you could put on some light makeup. Internally, you need to read and study. As the old saying goes, "You are full of poems and books."
Third, it appeared in his low tide.
I believe everyone in life has this experience: when you are always kind to others, others say nothing, but once you do something wrong, that person immediately begins to complain, and some are still bitter. In fact, when we save our boyfriends, we can also do the opposite. I usually do my own thing. When he encounters setbacks, you will become a bosom sister and appear immediately. When boys are strong and fragile, they will be depressed and sad when they encounter difficulties. This is a good chance for you to recover. If you are caring and attentive to him at this time, he will surely be moved back to your warm embrace.
How to save an ex-boyfriend 2 how to save an ex-boyfriend
1. The reason why he left you to save his boyfriend.
Many women rely on their boyfriends to like themselves, use their female advantages to squeeze each other desperately, constantly play small temper, and constantly "act", and finally force their boyfriends to break up, and there are many reasons for men to leave you, such as meeting girls who are more beautiful than you; Influenced by family members or relatives, can't stand princess disease or queen disease; Women's big topics and small works are all out of thin air; Women do not understand men's support and praise; Men don't like being bound and love freedom. In fact, in the final analysis, he is not satisfied with you.
Second, save the boyfriend's state of mind.
First of all, you must believe that your recovery will be successful. The other person certainly doesn't want to rekindle this love before you do anything. The other person will be very cold and even handle the relationship with certainty and miss you. Tell myself that I have no way out, I don't want to miss this marriage, and my recovery will be successful.
Second, get rid of negative thinking and prove everything with actions. At present, the other person will certainly have a hundred or a thousand reasons to tell you why you are not suitable and why he doesn't want to get back together, but please remember that that just because he doesn't want to get back together with you now doesn't mean you are unhappy together. So, please prove everything with your actions. You are two of your kind, but difficult times test you.
Third, face up to the contradiction of your love. If you are a time worshipper, think that time will change everything. But you should know that time will not completely erase the contradiction between you. In fact, two people have conflicts in the process of running-in, and the friction is big, so they naturally embark on the road of breaking up.
Third, save the ex-boyfriend's speaking skills.
1, do not mention the past. The past was a mixed blessing for you. If the past more or less reminds the other person of what happened during that time, then those unpleasantness will come to mind unconsciously.
Don't interrupt each other's topic. When chatting is going on, people are often controlled by subjective consciousness and want to express their views. At this time, you should keep silent properly and listen to the other party first.
Don't ask simple questions, if people can answer them themselves, then there is nothing to talk about. Instead, ask some topics that the other person is interested in, keep positive and enthusiastic during the chat, show your optimistic and happy side, and don't let the other person think that you are too boring.
Fourth, the way to save her boyfriend
1, refusing to pester and beat. If it is also a recovery method, it can be said that it is the least efficient recovery method. This is a bad way to destroy the relationship. There have been endless cases of stalking and beating, and there are often few successful cases. Since it turns out that this is an inefficient and useless method, why do you choose stalking and beating? It is your wise choice to refuse to make a sticky piece of gum and avoid reckless action and stalking.
2. Know yourself. Making mistakes is the only way for everyone, but after making mistakes, the problem will be big. People who are often too stubborn have less chance to recover in their emotional life. Because these people are too subjective, have low ability to detect emotional contradictions, and are stubborn. To save love, we must refuse stubbornness and let the dawn of change shine on ourselves.
3. Reduce contradictions. You have to "oppose" the object, which will not help solve the problem, but will increase the contradiction between the two sides and worsen the development of things. What you need to do is to reduce contradictions. What you need is that you agree with each other. Too many excuses will only make the other person more disappointed in you and more determined to leave you.
4. Put it into action. Many people say that the world is invincible, but there is nothing they can do in practice. The other party is not a child without thinking ability. What kind of person are you? She has explored very clearly in the process of getting along. Too many verbal promises will only make her hate you more.