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Satisfactory answers to Unit 1 and Unit 2:

Unit 1 A loving family

1. Family: Family is a relative living organization formed by marriage, consanguinity or adoption.

2. There are many situations in establishing family relationships.

3. Family structure is generally nuclear family and main family. There are also a few single-parent families and joint family.

4. The role of family: home is our emotional habitat, the backing of material life, the guarantee of safety and health, our entertainment world, natural school and the base camp for future development.

The most important thing in family relationship is the relationship with parents. The relationship between parents and children is mostly based on blood relationship. Our feelings for our parents are the most natural feelings that naturally arise.

6. Understand the good tradition of inheriting the family, learn the excellent quality of the family, and make up your mind to make your own contribution to the family.

7. Why should we love our families and parents?

Family is the cradle of our growth, our harbor and the first school; Parents are our closest relatives and our first teachers.

8. Parenting education of parents is the natural expression of family affection, the embodiment and development of traditional virtues, and the requirement of today's morality and law.

If parents fail to fulfill their obligations of raising children, or even abuse them, they will be punished by law.

9. China has a tradition of filial piety. Filial piety has always been praised and respected by people, and unfilial descendants are often condemned.

10. Filial piety means that children respect, serve and support their parents. The most important thing is to respect and love your parents.

1 1. Filial piety is the moral obligation and legal obligation of children to their parents. Adult children will not only be condemned by public opinion, but also be punished by law if they fail to fulfill their obligation to support and help their parents.

12. The ancients summarized filial piety to parents into three levels: respecting parents, enduring humiliation and being able to support parents.

13. Our filial piety to our parents is neither foolish filial piety nor blind obedience in ancient times, but respect and service to our parents on the basis of equality, which is a reward for their hard work and upbringing on the basis of contemporary morality and law.

If parents do immoral things, we should dare to criticize and stop them, which is good for parents and a sign of filial piety; If they violate the flood, their children should act in accordance with the law and cannot forgive or cover up their illegal behavior because of family relations.

14. The profound reason for the gap between the two generations: we are different from our parents in life experience, life experience and social status, and our familiarity with social norms is also different, which will inevitably lead to differences in life attitudes, values, hobbies and behaviors.

15. How to treat parents' strict requirements?

This is the wish of parents all over the world. The conflict between us and our parents is often based on our parents' high expectations and strict requirements. This kind of "strictness", which seems harsh to us, reflects the love of our parents. We should understand and be considerate of our parents' pains.

16. Reasons for rebellious psychology: We sometimes feel disgusted with our parents' ideas, discipline methods and strict requirements, and even have rebellious psychology.

The specific manifestation of rebellious psychology: I want to do this, I will do that. If you say this is good, I have to say that is good. If I believe this, I have to believe that.

When independence is hindered, when autonomy is ignored, when the expansion of personality is hindered, and when we are forced to accept a certain point of view, we are prone to rebellious psychology.

17. For rebellious psychology and behavior, we should make a concrete analysis and cannot say that it is wrong. Some rebellions are not unreasonable.

18. Equal communication with parents will help parents update their ideas, get out of the misunderstanding of family education, and help us make correct behavior choices.

19. In most cases, rebellious psychology leads to resistance to parents, and the result is to punish oneself or hurt parents.

In order not to hurt ourselves and the people closest to us, we should strive to overcome negative rebellious psychology and try to restrain ourselves when we are emotional.

20. How to treat the contradiction with parents? We can't deny and ignore the contradictions and conflicts with our parents. We should actively approach our parents, get close to them, try to resolve conflicts and walk hand in hand with them.

2 1. To solve the contradiction with your parents, you should learn to discuss with them.

First of all, calm down and discuss with your parents calmly; Through consultation, find out the differences and find a method acceptable to both sides; If we communicate well, we can get our parents' understanding and even change their minds, so that we can get what we want.

22. The basic essentials of communication with parents: mutual understanding is the premise, respect and understanding are the key, the effective way to understand parents is empathy, and the result of communication is to seek common ground while reserving differences.

23. Understand parents, and communication will have the initiative; Open your heart and communicate freely; Laugh often and communicate freely; Explain patiently and understand through communication; Empathy, effective communication is essential; Respect and understanding, normal communication is the most important; Seek common ground while reserving differences, and don't go to extremes in communication.

24. Ways to communicate with parents: appreciate parents and enhance family ties through appreciation; Listen carefully and learn from listening; Help parents and touch their loved ones with actions; Don't care too much about your parents in family communication.

Unit 1 Practice

First, multiple choice questions

1. A family consisting of two generations of parents and unmarried children is (b)

A main family B nuclear family C single parent family D joint family

2. The current family structure is generally (a)

① Main families ② Single parent families ③ Nuclear families ④ joint family A, 13B, 23C, 34D, 1②.

There is such a public service advertisement: in the picture, the mother washes her grandmother's feet. When the child saw it, he also trembled to bring a basin of water to wash his mother's feet. This advertisement explains (1)

Parents are the first teachers of the children. Children are very filial to their mother. Mother is very filial to her grandmother. Children are not filial to their grandmother. This is not right.

Yixiu's parents abandoned her because she was a girl, and Yixiu took her parents to court. The court ruled that a divorced parent must bear the obligation of support until she is able to live independently. This example tells us (c)

A raising children is a natural expression of parents' affection, and B raising children is a moral constraint.

Today's law requires parents to support their children. It is the right of parents to support their children.

Xia Xiaobo's father is facing the dilemma of being laid off due to the recession of the unit, and his family's economic situation is also relatively tight. What attitude should he take to be filial to his father at this time? Blame my father for his incompetence, comfort him and give him spiritual encouragement, help the family do some work within their power, don't make extra demands on the family, often share some interesting things with their families at school, and try to make them feel better (b)

A①②③ B②③④ C①③④ D①②④

6. The National Day is coming, and my classmates asked me to ride a bike to the suburbs with them. This not only exercises the body, but also broadens the horizon, but I wonder if my parents agree. The correct one of the following options is (c)

Make up your mind to go whether your parents agree or not.

B told his parents that it was arranged by the school, for fear that they would disagree.

C explain the significance, route and necessary safety measures of this trip to parents, and then go with their consent.

D Don't tell your parents at all. Tell them when you get back.

As students, what we have the ability to do is (b) honor our parents.

① Study hard and be self-motivated; ② Do as much housework as possible; ③ Understand and care about parents; 4 serving and supporting parents.

A①②④ B①②③ C①③④ D②③④

8. We often resent our parents' ideas, methods of discipline and strict requirements. If I have to do this, I will do that. This kind of psychology is what we often say (b)

A decadent psychology b rebellious psychology c dependent psychology d independent consciousness

9. Xiaoming went to junior high school. He felt that he should have his own independent space in family life, so he hung a "Do Not Disturb" sign on his room door. He did it.

(1) is the embodiment of unfilial to parents; 2 there is nothing wrong with it; ③ Lack of good communication strategies with parents is not conducive to family harmony.

A①④ B①② C①②③ D①③④

10. When there is conflict with parents, we should (b)

① Respect and understand parents; ② Analyze the causes of conflict; ③ Communicate with parents in time; Stick to what you see and never give in.

A①②③④ B①②③ C②③④ D①③④

1 1. The following belong to the establishment of family relations (a)

Xiao Li and Xiao Wang got married. Xiao Zhang's son was born. Lao Liu adopted an orphan through the Civil Affairs Bureau. Xiao Jia and Xiao Lu divorced.

A①②③ B①②④ C②③④ D①③④

12. Xiaohong is 18 years old this year. He lives with his parents, and his family of three is very happy. Xiao Hong's family structure belongs to (A)

A nuclear family b main family c single parent family d joint family

13. Parents who fail to support their minor children will not only be punished by _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ (d).

A conscience condemns moral responsibility B morality condemns economic responsibility C children condemn legal responsibility D morality condemns legal responsibility.

14. Parents nurture and educate their children. Do you think (b)

① It is the natural expression of affection; ② It is the embodiment and development of traditional virtues; (3) moral requirements; ④ It is required by law.

A②③④ B①②③④ C③④ D①③④

15. Which of the following statements (c) about communication with parents do you agree with?

A You should respect your parents and do whatever they say. B If you disagree with your parents, don't say it, just deal with it.

C respect each other, treat each other as equals and get along honestly. D parents are old-fashioned and communication is useless.

16. The following have a correct understanding of rebellious psychology and behavior (ACD)

A Because of the generation gap, we often resent our parents' ideas, discipline methods and strict requirements.

B rebellious psychology and rebellious behavior are all wrong.

C rebellious psychology leads to rebellious behavior towards parents, and the result is not only to punish oneself, but also to hurt parents.

D for rebellious psychology and rebellious behavior to specific analysis, dialectical understanding.

17. Communication is a matter for both parties. In order to communicate effectively with parents, children should (b)

Be close to your parents, be close to your parents, try to cross the generation gap by yourself, wait for your parents to communicate with you and join hands with them.

A①③④ B①②④ C②③④ D①②③④

18. For the reason of rebellious psychology, the correct understanding is (D)

Parents cannot respect their children's sense of independence. B children's views are one-sided and extreme, and they can't understand their parents' concerns.

There is a war between adolescence and menopause, which can't explain anything. D Both parents and children have responsibilities and lack equal communication.

19. rebellious psychology and behavior are (d)

A is wrong, B is right, C is unclear, D needs specific analysis, and cannot be generalized.

20. Xiao Bing plays computer games after finishing his homework at home. When my mother came back from work, she saw Xiao Bing playing games and said angrily, "Just play games and review your lessons." At this time, Xiao Bing should (BD).

A ignore mom and continue to play games.

B When mom is emotionally stable, tell her that she has finished her homework, so that she can understand her behavior.

C had a big fight with his mother.

D understands mom and assures her that she will control the time of playing games in the future.

2 1. can be called the cradle of our growth, and (c) should be the first choice for our harbor, the first school.

A society b school c family d collective

22. The following situations belong to the establishment of family relations (B)

Xiao Li and Xiao Wang got married. Xiaohong's mother asked her to recognize an aunt in their unit as a "dopted mother"

Xiao Zhang's son was born. Lao Liu adopted an orphan to the welfare home through the Civil Affairs Bureau.

A①②③④ B①③④ C②③④ D①②③

23. Our country's law stipulates that adult children have (D)

A requires parents' support, B lives with parents, C provides support to parents, and D supports and helps parents.

24. Parents nurture and educate their children. Do you think (b)

① It is the natural expression of affection; ② It is the embodiment and development of traditional virtues; (3) moral requirements; ④ It is required by law.

A②③④ B①②③④ C③④ D①③④

25. Xiaoming is an only child and lives in a happy family of three. His parents go to work and Xiaoming goes to school. Xiaoming's family belongs to (A)

A nuclear family b main family c single parent family d joint family

26. Our communication with parents is actually a process of distinguishing right from wrong and seeking the best result. This kind of communication (b)

A listens to parents, b seeks common ground while reserving differences, c competes, and d obeys himself.

Our feelings for our parents are the most natural feelings naturally, because (c).

Parents must give us financial assistance. B parents must give us opportunities to study and study.

C life is given by parents, and this relationship cannot be chosen or changed. Parents control our future and destiny.

Second, the judgment question

1. Parents love their children selflessly, so we should meet everything we need unconditionally. ( × )

Family is not only the residence of the body, but also the sustenance of the soul. ( √ )

It is a legal and moral requirement for parents to raise minor children. They should assume family responsibilities and should not return. (× )

The family environment has a great influence on our healthy growth. (√ )

Supporting parents is not only a moral requirement for children, but also a legal obligation. (√ )

6. Rebellious psychology is caused by the enhancement of independent consciousness, so the stronger the rebellious psychology, the more mature it means. (× )

7. The most important thing to honor parents is to support them. (× )

After Liu's parents divorced, the court ordered his mother to support him, and he had no right to ask his father to support him. (× )

9. Filial piety comes at a price. ( √ )

10. Lingling said: "As long as you praise your parents, whether you are sincere or not, this is an effective way to strengthen family ties." ( × )

1 1. In order not to hurt yourself and the dearest person, we must try our best to overcome negative rebellious psychology. (√ )

12. A beautiful family has no contradictions and conflicts.

13. Parents break the law, children should forgive and don't expose it. ( × )

14. The effective way to get to know your parents is to communicate with them more and get to know each other. ( √ )

15. Filial piety should be reflected in the handling of small things in daily life. ( √ )

16. It's normal to have conflicts with parents. We can let them develop naturally. ( × )

17. To solve the parent-child conflict, parents need to know themselves. Similarly, they need to understand their parents. (√ )

Third, material problems.

1, Xiaojun was born in a poor family in the countryside. His parents scrimped and saved, and brought him up with great pains. Xiaojun studied hard and achieved excellent results. After graduating from primary school, his parents raised funds to send him to a key middle school in the county. In the mid-term exam of the first semester, Xiaojun won the first place in the whole grade. The school held a parent-teacher conference as usual. Xiaojun felt that his parents were not decent enough and didn't want them to attend. Afraid of losing face, he said to the teacher: My parents are on a business trip and can't come to the meeting.

(1) Did Xiaojun do it right? What do you want to say to Xiaojun?

Reference answer: Xiaojun's approach is wrong. Parents give us life and nurture us to grow up. We should always remember this kindness. We should respect and love our parents. There are no perfect families and parents in the world. One's family may not be rich, but those who are willing will not be too poor. Our parents may be ordinary, but people are equal. Their ordinary work and low status do not affect their tall image in our hearts, let alone the reasons for our inferiority. (reasonable)

2. Xiao Bing's parents divorced, and the court ruled that Xiao Bing lived with his mother. Because Xiao Bing's mother was fired, and Xiao Bing's father set up a new family and refused to pay the corresponding alimony, Xiao Bing and his mother had a very difficult life.

(1) Do you think Xiao Bing's father did the right thing? Why?

Reference answer: No, raising children is a moral and legal requirement of parents. Parents who fail to fulfill their obligations will be punished by law.

(2) What can Batman do in this situation?

Reference Answer: Xiao Bing can sue his biological father to the court and protect his legitimate rights and interests through legal means.

In a northern city, 75-year-old Aunt Zhang came to the Women's Federation to complain about her five unfilial children. It turned out that Aunt Zhang was widowed in middle age and raised three children and two women alone. Needless to say, life is hard. Originally, I expected my children to get better after working, but I left her one by one after getting married. I'm helpless, so I have to make a living by collecting junk. However, as she gets older, there are more and more problems. 75-year-old aunt Zhang Can made ends meet and asked her children for alimony, but they all avoided her.

Try to answer the following questions:

(1) What two basic social behavior norms did Aunt Zhang's children violate?

Reference answer: morality and law

(2) What should Aunt Zhang do?

Reference answer: you can ask for help from relevant departments, such as offices and women's federations; If there are problems that can't be solved, you can go to court to sue.

(3) How do you think parents should be treated?

Reference answer: As children, they should fulfill their obligations-to honor their parents' nurturing kindness. To honor our parents, we should think of them, understand them, care for them, love them, help them, study hard, make progress every day, and assume the obligation to support them when we grow up.

Having studied piano for five years, Xiao Fang hates piano and violin. She is especially disgusted that her parents often remind her to "don't forget to practice the piano", and even tired of hearing her parents remind her to "get up quickly", "rest early" and "practice the piano quickly", not to mention her parents asking about her academic performance. Sometimes, she hates her parents from the heart. In short, Xiao Fang hates everything her parents say.

(1) What psychological phenomenon do you think Xiao Fang's performance belongs to?

Reference answer: Xiao Fang's performance is a rebellious psychological phenomenon.

(2) Please tell Xiao Fang what harm will it bring to her if she doesn't make efforts to adjust?

Reference answer: if you don't try to adjust, you will punish yourself, either your own fault or your parents' fault. Hurt parents, either with their own mistakes or with their parents' mistakes. /cause a gap between parents and children.

Tucki is a "daredevil", who often breaks things, dirties clothes and breaks flowerpots, causing criticism from his parents. However, the parent-child relationship in his family was not alienated by Mao Mao's fault and parents' criticism. Tucki is very happy with his parents. When asked about Tucki's tricks, he said, "I will admit my mistakes, listen to criticism, help my parents and praise them. Can my parents not like me? "

(1) Why is the parent-child relationship between Tucki and his parents so close?

Tucki will admit his mistakes, listen to criticism, help his parents and praise them.

(2) Tucki people, what methods do you know to communicate with your parents?

Reference answer: A. Be grateful to your parents. Listen carefully. C. help parents. D, don't care too much about your parents.

6. "My mother can tell me one thing seven or eight times." "My mother nags two words every day,' study hard' in the morning and' do homework after dinner' in the evening."

(1) In the face of the contradiction with parents, how should I discuss with my parents to solve it?

Reference answer: To solve the contradiction with your parents, you should learn to discuss with your parents. First of all, calm down and discuss with your parents calmly; Through consultation, find out the differences and find a method acceptable to both sides; If we communicate well, we can get our parents' understanding and even change their minds, so that we can get what we want.

(2) What are the basic essentials of communication with parents?

Reference answer: the basic essentials of communication with parents: mutual understanding is the premise, respect and understanding are the key, the effective way to understand parents is empathy, and the result of communication is to seek common ground while reserving differences.

(3) What are the ways we communicate with our parents?

Reference answer: the way to communicate with parents: appreciate parents and enhance family ties through appreciation; Listen carefully and learn from listening; Help parents and touch their loved ones with actions; Don't care too much about your parents in family communication.

(4) What are the benefits of our equal communication with our parents?

Reference answer: Equal communication with parents will help parents update their ideas, get out of the misunderstanding of family education, and help us make correct behavior choices. (reasonable, just right)

7. Xiaomi is very lively at school and loves to make friends, but he is very silent at home. He and his parents speak less and less. Not only did he not listen to his parents' opinions, but he was very disgusted with their discipline. His parents asked him to do this, but he only did that. Now his psychology is getting stronger and stronger.

(1) Please tell me what kind of psychological performance this is?

Reference answer: rebellious psychology

(2) Please answer the bad results caused by this psychology.

Reference answer: In most cases, rebellious psychology leads to rebellion against parents, and the result is to punish yourself-either your own fault or your parents' fault. Such a result is also a kind of harm to parents-either by their own mistakes or by their own mistakes.

(3) What should Xiaomi do? Please give him advice!

Reference answer: In order not to hurt ourselves and the people closest to us, we should strive to overcome negative rebellious psychology and try to restrain ourselves when we are emotional.

(4) How do you think it is appropriate to analyze and treat rebellious psychology?

Reference answer: for rebellious psychology and rebellious behavior, we should analyze them in detail, and we can't say that they are all wrong. Some rebellions are not unreasonable. /We should make a dialectical analysis of rebellious psychology. (reasonable, just right)

It is our bounden duty to be filial to our parents and respect our elders, so we should obey our parents unconditionally. Do you think this statement is correct? Please briefly analyze and explain.

Reference answer: No. Our filial piety to parents is not foolish filial piety and blind obedience, but respect and service to parents on the basis of equality, and it is a reward for parents' hard work and upbringing on the basis of contemporary morality and law. If parents do immoral things, we should also dare to criticize and stop them, which is good for parents and a manifestation of filial piety; If they break the law, their children should also act in accordance with the law, and they can't forgive or cover up their illegal behavior because of family relations.

Xiaoxue's parents don't like that she is a girl. Since Xiaoxue was born, she has been fostered in her grandmother's house, rarely asking questions and not bearing alimony. As Xiaoxue grew up day by day, grandma's life became more and more difficult. When Xiaoxue grows up and is sensible, she asks her parents for alimony, but their parents always prevaricate. So Xiaoxue went to the court for help. Finally, the court ruled that her parents should compensate Xiaoxue's grandmother for raising her for several years, and then she would pay maintenance (including education expenses) regularly until Xiaoxue could live independently.

Please answer: Did Xiaoxue do it right? State your reasons.

Reference answer: Xiaoxue's approach is correct. It is a way to safeguard one's legitimate rights and interests according to law. Parents have the obligation to raise and educate their minor children, which is a legal and moral requirement. Xiaoxue's parents refused to fulfill this obligation and violated the law. Therefore, it is feasible for Xiaoxue to solve the problem through legal channels and safeguard his legitimate rights and interests. (reasonable)

10. The families in Xiao Wei are relatively poor. His parents put a lot of effort into his growth and were strict with him. It is stipulated that Xiao Wei must get up at 5: 30 every morning to study, and can't sleep before 10: 30 at night. When his mother urged him to get up and study this morning, he was very grumpy and added a lot of words to his mother, saying, "I have nothing to do when I am full, and I have too much energy." I'm so old, I don't need you to take care of anything I learn in the future ... "

(1) What should we do when we have conflicts with our parents?

Reference answer: when we have conflicts with our parents, we should first calm down and discuss with our parents calmly; Through consultation, find out the differences and find a method acceptable to both sides; If we communicate well, we can get our parents' understanding and even change their minds, so that we can get what we want.

(2) Empathy: If you were the mother in the material, how would you feel when your son said those words to you? Why?

Reference answer: ellipsis (this topic is called open question, which mainly emphasizes students' own emotional experience, and can tell their feelings and feelings in combination with materials)

(3) What are the ways we communicate with our parents?

Reference answer: the way to communicate with parents: appreciate parents and enhance family ties through appreciation; Listen carefully and learn from listening; Help parents and touch their loved ones with actions; Don't care too much about your parents in family communication.

Second unit

1. Good interpersonal relationship is the result of mutual choice.

Popular people all have the same characteristics: sincerity, friendliness, kindness, responsibility, unselfishness, humor, cheerfulness, trust in others and so on.

3. Being sincere, friendly, kind and responsible will make us have lasting attraction, strong communication consciousness and communication ability in the interaction with our peers, and also make ourselves a person that everyone likes and trusts in the group.

4. The true meaning of friends: Friends bring us warmth, support and strength, and let us feel the beauty of life. On the journey of life, friends accompany us, and friendship illuminates our lives.

5. Ways to make friends:

(1) Making friends is an equal and mutually beneficial process, and giving and sharing must be two-way, so as to achieve a win-win situation or even win-win.

(2) Appreciate others, praise others, tolerate others, respect differences and strengthen communication, so that we can find more interesting friends and gain more lasting friendship. (How to make more friends)

(3) True friendship should be frank and firm in the face of principles, and the so-called friendship cannot be maintained at the expense of principles.

6. Make friends, not bad friends. We should be careful to make friends. Grasp it wisely and carefully.

7. The positive role of communication between boys and girls: the communication between boys and girls can enhance our understanding of the opposite sex, learn from each other's strengths, improve our personality and promote the healthy development of body and mind; Can expand the scope of communication and exercise communication ability; You can learn how to adapt to the social requirements of different sexes, improve your gender awareness, let boys grow into men, and let girls grow into good girls.

8. How do boys and girls communicate normally? How to gain the respect and friendship of students of the opposite sex: the communication between male and female students should not only respect each other, but also respect themselves; We should not only open ourselves, but also master proper limit; We should not only be enthusiastic, but also pay attention to the way, occasion, time and frequency of communication. As long as you treat others sincerely and communicate honestly with the opposite sex students, you will certainly gain the respect and friendship of the opposite sex students.

8. It is normal, natural and beautiful for us to have a good impression on the opposite sex during adolescence.

9. The affection between boys and girls needs to be treated cautiously and rationally.

10. Ways and means of protection in heterosexual communication: (External protection) Social laws and ethics, school discipline and codes, good social customs and healthy cultural environment provide us with external protection. (Self-protection) Enhance the awareness of self-protection and master the methods of self-protection and our self-discipline.

1 1. In daily life, girls should protect themselves like this: keep steady and don't lose vigilance; Calm down and don't panic; Even if you are alone with the boy you like, you should be good at protecting yourself. A true friend will never make unreasonable demands. )

12. The teacher-student relationship not only affects our learning quality, but also affects our physical and mental development.

13. It is our moral quality to respect teachers when getting along with them; Being good at communicating with teachers is an important ability we need to learn.

14. Teachers are disseminators of human civilization. A teacher's job is not only to impart knowledge, but also to set an example.

15. We should establish such a relationship between teachers and students: love students and respect teachers, and harmony is more important.

The role of good teacher-student relationship in our growth: knowing, trusting, loving and respecting teachers, we can be soul mates with teachers, learn happily and make faster progress.

16. The new teacher-student relationship is based on democracy and equality. In this teacher-student relationship, teachers and students are equal in personality, respect each other, learn from each other and learn from each other.

17. The idea of teachers and friends inspires us: teachers are our friends, and our communication with teachers is also reflected in entertainment, life and exchange of ideas. We are the same body as the teacher.

18. Active communication is the premise of all communication. Communication produces understanding, and understanding produces trust.

19. Effective ways to actively communicate with teachers: (1) Look at problems from the perspective of teachers; (2) Treat teachers' praise and criticism correctly.

(3) forgive the teacher's mistakes (4) pay attention to the etiquette of communication: be polite to the teacher; Pay attention to the occasion; Don't lose your temper

20. Both success and frustration are the wealth of life.

2 1. Praise is like a gas station, make persistent efforts; Criticism is like an epidemic prevention station or an emergency room. Correct what you want to do, and encourage what you don't want to do.

22. Point out the teacher's mistakes in an appropriate way-the "appropriate way" is not to hurt the teacher.