What does it mean to make a mistake? What's the matter with you? Why you make mistakes.
The theme aims at equal sharing between husband and wife.
During the marriage, the property is shared by both husband and wife.
But as for mistakes, there is no * * * equal share, and there is no such legal provision.
Since they are husband and wife, they are adults. No matter whether it is a man or a woman, no matter who makes a mistake, they should bear it themselves, and have nothing to do with others.
How to avoid making mistakes? Every adult should learn, know and abide by the law.
An adult should strengthen cultural study and moral and legal study in peacetime. Get in touch with people with positive energy. As the saying goes, those who are near Zhu Zhechi are black. Birds of a feather flock together.
Only by contacting people with a sense of justice can we gradually cultivate our good moral quality.
Between husband and wife, if one party makes a mistake, it will not bring trouble to others, which is commonly known as doing things alone. It is not right to want the other half to share the mistakes.
In this regard, the main body should strengthen the study of laws and regulations, not "legal ignorance."
In the recent hit TV series "Anjia", the parties had a heated debate on whether to help Naoto Kan buy a house. The family problem behind this argument: whether a person's mistakes should be shared by both husband and wife is thought-provoking.
Fang believes that real estate agents only help customers buy houses, and other people's family affairs cannot be involved. She is willing to help Naoto Kan buy a house for San Xiao. She believes that the matter of Naoto Kan buying a house for Xiaosan should be shared by Naoto Kan and his wife.
However, Xu Wenchang was very angry about it. He believes that Naoto Kan made a mistake and this matter should be borne by him alone. People who don't know how to cherish their wives have to pay the price.
In life, there are too many things that husbands cheat. Then if we delve into the reasons behind it, we can find that emotional problems are often the same reason for two people. If we want to advance hand in hand, mutual tolerance and understanding are essential. For the problem that one spouse makes mistakes, this problem can be big or small. If it is not a question of touching the bottom line, if it can be forgiven, we must continue. But if you touch the bottom line, you must stop the loss in time. Life is not easy, don't take interests too seriously, especially in marriage. Most problems may not be caused by mistresses, but by interests. Only by always putting the love of the house first can the marriage last.
A happy marriage is always related to personality;
In fact, whether married to love or married properly,
Everyone needs character first and responsibility first.
Two people are responsible for each other's home, children and marriage.
* * * Work hard and pay for this family, and you will be happy to grow old together.
Their marriage didn't come to the end. In the final analysis, it is because they are not honest about money.
San Mao said: "Love will not last long if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating and counting money."
Talking about money is respect for your partner and this marriage. Husband and wife have business and quantity, * * * decides the family expenses, and treats each other honestly, so that they can go hand in hand to each other.
Family style determines a child's character and destiny.
People who love our own country and nation also start from loving their homes!
As people often say, loving children begins with loving your wife!
Good family style not only affects children's character, but also determines their fate!
All good things come from love, and a good family atmosphere also comes from love!
Husband and wife are the closest partners and should live together for life. People have been in contact with people for a long time, and there will always be cracks in their hearts. The same is true between couples. If you live together for a long time, it will also produce contradictions and breed problems. No one speaks or acts in the right way, but people make mistakes. If you make a mistake, don't be afraid, just face it correctly.
Of course, mistakes are big or small, deep or shallow, serious or not, illegal or not.
One of the spouses made a small mistake, so there is no need to hold on to it. We should understand each other, tolerate each other and put ourselves in others' shoes, because everyone makes mistakes.
If a husband and wife make a big mistake, it is a violation of the law. Don't blame them blindly, but recognize right and wrong, fear and respect the law. Don't blaspheme the law, don't do stupid things.
Small things and mistakes can be ignored, there is no need to delve into them, and there is no need to play 50 boards each.
If you make a big mistake or even commit a crime, you don't have to eat the same pot. Whoever is in charge is responsible, and whoever breaks the law is responsible. As the other spouse, don't sprinkle salt on the wound, comfort him (her), encourage him (her) to look at it correctly, make a good reform and try to start a new life.
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I want to make sure what kind of "mistake" I made first. Only in this way can we prescribe the right medicine!
Then, let's discuss this problem in detail.
If one of the husband and wife breaks the law, it is no longer the time for one person to break the law and destroy nine families. If one of the spouses violates the laws and regulations of the country, I think there are laws that can handle this matter well.
If you make a mistake at work. I think, first, there are the company's handling methods and rules and regulations. Second, the party that made the mistake should also actively correct and make up for it. A lover can help you make amends together, but the person in charge is not someone who has not made a mistake.
1. Because of cheating.
As Zhang Chengcheng said in the play An Jia, "I just made a mistake that men all over the world will make." Because of Zhang Chengcheng's "impulsive mistake", the family was torn apart, and the original fake divorce became a real divorce. The victim, Aunt Xu, has become the person who bears the consequences in this marriage. In the end, I became poor and rich, with no house, no savings and no daughter-in-law.
Later, he gradually realized that his father had already settled outside and had a third party. His mother endured humiliation for him and was very unhappy, so she got severe depression. On my birthday, my mother begged my father to come back for my birthday, but my father refused.
Finally, his mother jumped from the top floor in despair and committed suicide. Through this story, we also feel that good people are not rewarded. In this marriage, it was his mother who was injured and his father betrayed his family. His mother did nothing wrong, but in the end she paid the price of her life. This innocent man has become the one who has to bear the consequences in this marriage.
If there are really problems in marriage, such as women being too overbearing, or women and society have been seriously short-lived, or men are indifferent to their families and have no ambitions, I think both husband and wife will have certain responsibilities!
However, these contradictions cannot be a grandiose excuse for the other party to cheat. No matter how discordant the marriage is, both parties to the marriage have certain responsibilities. If you really want to find another lover, then you should finish your last marriage before you can start a new one. Emotional weakness is understandable, but irresponsibility is the biggest mistake!
2. If one party repents, the relationship between husband and wife still exists, which can help the other party to return to the family.
Many people lose their minds because of pain and anger after learning that their spouses are cheating. Some people lost control in pain, some people began to make a scene, and some people began to take revenge crazily. In fact, these are the most stupid methods. They are often noisy, noisy and threatening, but the result is water under the bridge. I believe everyone is very uncomfortable after these things happen, but we must control our emotions and calm down first.
Let's look at the cheating party. If it is really a temporary mistake and the relationship between husband and wife still exists, I think we should try our best to save it. Try to reflect on yourself first, and don't mention each other's mistakes over and over again.
3. If it is a dispute caused by a husband and wife borrowing money.
This sentence will go a little further, so it depends on whether the loan is for family use and whether the other party knows it. If this is the case, it is recommended to consult a lawyer on the specific situation and find an effective way.
"When one person makes a mistake, it always takes two people to share equally." This sentence is right or wrong. I think it should be decided according to the specific actual situation, not generalized.
I hope my answer can give you some inspiration and wish you a happy family! thank you
It depends on what the problem is. The problem of quarreling at ordinary times is a matter for two people and should be borne by them. In principle, if one party makes a mistake, only one party can bear it. If one party owes the debt, two people will share it. However, if one party borrows money behind the other's back, both the wife and the husband have the right not to take responsibility.
If one spouse doesn't know and has no necessary living expenses, the fault party shall bear all of them. Don't ask me how I know. Legal newspapers must read every issue for ten years.
There used to be a saying that home is a harbor, a gathering place for love, not a place for reasoning. It needs the maintenance of two people, so naturally you don't have to answer your questions. I hope people will live for a long time and have a good scenery thousands of miles away.
It is common sense that one person does things and one person does them.
Small mistakes can be shared, big mistakes can't be shared!