Listen to your husband, divorce is no problem. Everything depends on you. What do you mean?

According to the information you provided, your husband said that divorce is ok, and everything is up to you. Maybe he is not sure about your divorce intention, or his own ideas are vague, so he can't make a decision. He may want you to make a decision on this issue and be willing to respect your choice.

However, this attitude may also make you feel uneasy and confused. If you want a divorce, you can try to communicate frankly with him and express your thoughts and feelings. If you are not sure or don't want a divorce, you can also tell him and discuss how to solve the problem.

Anyway, I suggest you consult a professional marriage counselor before making any decision. They can help you clear your mind and give valuable advice.