How to do a good job in family communication 0 1 Starting from the details, gaining the trust of parents is the key to carrying out parent work.
Getting parents' trust in kindergartens and teachers is an important part of parents' work. With trust, there will be understanding. Only when there is understanding can there be cooperation. Therefore, to be a good parent, we should start from the details.
1. Home visit is the first step to establish close relationship with home.
It is very necessary to make home visits to freshmen, so that teachers can know their children's personality, interests, hobbies, living habits, family environment, parents' educational views, parenting attitudes and needs for kindergartens, so that children can work in a targeted manner after entering the park. In addition, home visits to children before entering the park, so that children can know the teacher before entering the park and establish initial feelings with the teacher, can alleviate the separation anxiety of children before entering the park and make them adapt to kindergarten life quickly. It can also let parents see the teacher's meticulous work attitude, feel the teacher's concern for the children and make the children feel good.
2. Making full use of the time to pick up and drop off children and communicating with parents flexibly is an important link to establish close relationship with family.
Although teachers have short contact with parents every day, they can also exchange information in a few words to let parents know about their children's situation in the park that day, and they must never treat their parents with just one sentence? That's good, right? To deal with it Every parent wants their children to get the attention of teachers, especially the children in small classes who have just entered the park. Eating, drinking and sleeping are issues that new parents are particularly concerned about. Even a word or two from the teacher will make parents feel that the teacher is paying attention to the children and feel satisfied. For example:? The gangsters ate two bowls of rice and shit in the kindergarten today. ? When Lingling took a nap, she listened to the story told by the teacher and fell asleep soon. ? After listening to the teacher's words, parents will feel the teacher's concern and attention to their children, and they will also feel the teacher's carefulness in work, so that parents will have trust in the teacher.
3. It is an effective way for parents to understand and trust teachers by carefully observing, making observation records and establishing children's growth files.
The child's growth file is based on the careful observation of the teacher. In children's growth files, teachers can record children's performance, behavior and interesting things in the park at any time. Teachers can learn more about children through something, or teachers can help children improve, overcome their own shortcomings and make progress through certain methods, and put forward some suggestions for parents' reference, so that parents can know their children's performance and development in the park through their growth files and gain their trust, support and cooperation, thus generating * * * voices in educating children. Parents were invited to read the children's growth files, from which they saw the plot of the teacher's patient and meticulous care for the children, recorded every little progress and emotional changes of the children, and made parents feel the sincerity and patience of the teachers, and then they had trust in the teachers.
Take good care of every child with practical actions and win the trust of parents.
I remember a time when Ma Chenyun didn't like eating. His mother took him to see a Chinese doctor, saying that he had a bad spleen and stomach and prescribed prescription drugs. Mother wants her to rest at home, take medicine on time and rest for a while, but the child doesn't want to. After understanding the situation, he proposed to take medicine to kindergarten, and the teacher fed him medicine. I should feed my child warm water on time and in order as required every day, and pay attention to not letting her eat fast food for three meals a day. Every day when I leave the garden, I tell my parents: I gave my child prescription drugs on time today. Don't worry. ? Every time after listening to my words, my parents will gratefully say thank you to me. Patience brings parents' reassurance, care brings parents' trust and love brings parents' understanding. Only when parents feel the love and care of kindergarten teachers for their children will they naturally feel trust. As long as parents trust their teachers, an emotional bridge will naturally be built between home and home, and there will be a basis for cooperation.
How to communicate with your family? Let parents indirectly participate in kindergarten education activities. Pay attention to the exploration and growth of parents and children.
Just like in a big class? Environmental protection? In the theme activities, in order to fully mobilize the enthusiasm of parents, we asked parents and children to consult environmental protection materials such as water pollution, air pollution, sandstorms, etc., and took children on-the-spot visits on holidays to explore: How did the water get dirty? What are the hazards of automobile exhaust? And so on, starting from children's life experience, help children understand and feel the close relationship between the natural environment and human life. Such activities not only allow children to try various learning methods, but also initially cultivate their awareness of environmental protection. Some parents are deeply touched and say:? These activities have also raised our adults' awareness of environmental protection. ?
2. Let parents directly participate in kindergarten education activities.
Invite parents into kindergartens, let them participate in children's study and life activities as educators, and give full play to the unique role of parents in all aspects. Our kindergarten is based on the attitude of cooperation and equality to stimulate the initiative and enthusiasm of parents to participate in activities. In this way, parents will change from the role of bystander and instructed in early childhood education to the role of cooperator and supporter in early childhood education. Children have also changed from passive acceptance to exploratory learning. Our teacher carries out his own subject teaching plan in his own way, and now he is the designer, organizer and implementer of selecting courses, balancing courses and optimizing courses with parents and children.
3. Parents' schools should combine expert consultation.
Parent school is an important position for family education to promote curriculum reform and development. In order to make the content of parents' school lectures targeted and instructive, we insist on? People-oriented? The guiding concept, pay attention to different types of parents for hierarchical guidance, such as? Parent-teacher conference? In family education, we should focus on guiding grandparents not to spoil their children and ask them to communicate with teachers and parents in time; For parents of children, we mainly carry out activities by means of lectures, activities and exchanges, with remarkable results.
4. Combination of written contact and telephone communication.
Our kindergarten has a contact manual, and children's development in kindergarten can be communicated through the contact manual. Some parents can't pick up and drop off their children in person, and they are busy at work, so they contact their parents by phone. If some children have obvious autism in personality or have big problems in behavior habits, they will contact their parents by phone and make an appointment for special exchanges and discussions to discuss countermeasures; When children make progress, teachers should call in time to encourage, consolidate and strengthen effective educational methods.