Huang Xiaoming is on fire again. He participated in the variety show "Chinese Restaurant" on many topics and combed his quotations and styles hundreds of years ago.
There are two key words in the label on Huang Xiaoming-overbearing and greasy. Since Master Huang is 42 years old and middle-aged, middle-aged greasy is a hat on Master Huang's head.
Since the birth of Feng Tang's famous work How to avoid becoming a greasy middle-aged wretched man, it is not men but women who are most afraid of middle-aged greasy men.
Women are worried that their other half will enter the middle-aged greasy period, so they prescribe the right medicine to transform the other half. In fact, to tell the truth, middle-aged greasy men are the cutest and more reliable than middle-aged literary men.
So, today, let's not talk about Master Huang in the entertainment circle. Let's talk about it today From the perspective of middle-aged married women, a middle-aged greasy man like Huang Xiaoming is the best life partner, okay? !
Some time ago, our college classmates got together, and nearly puzzling college students couldn't help but make a secular comparison.
For female students, whether there are wrinkles on their faces and whether they are out of shape are secondary, and comparing with their husbands and children is the most critical motivation.
The husbands of female students are either rich but busy middle-aged men or economical men who are good at taking care of their families.
Everyone can't help feeling that "life is such a trivial thing. Every day, we are faced with the details of who will buy food, who will cook and who will wash the dishes. "
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But there is a special boy among college students. Just call him Hua.
Ahua was introverted when she went to college. According to what was said at that time, he was a literati, who wrote poems and paintings all day and occasionally played music.
When Hua went to college, several girls liked him, but they all dropped out in the end because the girls thought he was too out of touch.
When Iowa was 25, she met a girl. The girl fell in love with a boy with a Chinese accent, and lived with Hua despite her family's opposition.
Iowa and the girl have been in the stage of boyfriend and girlfriend, and have lived together for ten years without proposing marriage. Finally, because the family was in a hurry, the girl threatened to break up, so I got married.
Now, Iowa and that girl have been married for several years, and they have children, about three or four years old.
When we met Hua at the party, we really felt that he was not from the same world as us secular women.
Ahua is still writing poetry and painting, earning a meager salary in a company, and his wife also comes to the party. In the words of other students, Ahua's wife looks a little old.
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I learned from the chat that Iowa hasn't bought a house for so many years, and now she rents a house with her parents.
Because of the high rent, I only rented a house of more than 50 square meters, and I have no plans to buy a house for the time being.
Ahua is still relatively introverted. He didn't have much communication with male students of the same age, but chose to accompany his wife and chat with female students.
In the process of chatting, I still can't hear any fireworks traces about life from Iowa's mouth, but it is still a romantic expression of an affair.
I don't know why, all the girls in the class don't want to have too much conversation with Iowa.
After the party, Xiao Ling, a good friend, asked several female students what they thought of Ahua. Everyone responded, "It's so literary. It's really hard for his wife. "
If the literary man was still a beautiful existence in the minds of many girls when he was in his twenties, then now he is almost forty years old and meets a middle-aged literary man who is out of touch with the world. Everyone chooses to stay away from him.
Because for middle-aged married women, what everyone is most concerned about is not who can draw and write poems, but whether the children can eat expensive imported milk powder, whether they can go to a bilingual art kindergarten with foreign teachers, whether the living expenses at home are enough, and how many years the mortgage will last.
Therefore, for middle-aged married women, Huang Xiaoming, a middle-aged greasy man, is not deformed, has a high face value and is rich, and firmly believes that he really feels so cute!
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When people reach middle age, many things they didn't understand when they were young, and many words they didn't understand when they were young, will gradually understand with the destruction of life.
In fact, life is alive, but life is trivial.
For us middle-aged people who are married and have children, we are always thinking about which supermarket will have a discount on weekends, whether there are free movie tickets on Tuesday and so on.
Everything that is grounded is secular in the eyes of literary men and is not worth mentioning.
When people reach middle age, they should be realistic and reliable.
If a middle-aged woman with a family and children doesn't do housework, play cards or follow TV series all day, it is estimated that such a girl will be sprayed to death by the people who eat melons.
However, a middle-aged man with a family and children, who doesn't do housework all day without children, draws some paintings as difficult as stick figures and writes some poems that others can't understand or understand, shouldn't he be questioned?
So after seeing a more lethal middle-aged literary man, I instantly felt that Huang Xiaoming was even cuter.