Do women have to let men buy houses before they get married?

Text/Zhang chatted with a mixed friend in the society the other day and said that his girlfriend, who had been talking for a long time, had been reluctant to marry him because she didn't buy a house. So I also talked about this topic with some friends who are studying in graduate school. A female friend said that marriage is mainly about feelings, and things like houses are dispensable, so you can rent a house. Another female friend's point of view is that if you get married, you must have your own house, otherwise how can you get married? But a male friend of mine said it depends. No matter how loud the slogan of a woman is, she won't get married without her own house, but when she loves each other deeply, she just doesn't have a house. A friend said that if you get married after 80s, you will die in the house, so I began to think about this problem. Women must buy a house when they get married. Is this a real question or a fake question? Don't talk about these views by the standard of value judgment for the time being, because in this pluralistic society, as long as it doesn't violate the law, it is allowed. There are indeed many such women around me. They may have higher education, beautiful faces and devil bodies. When they have the advantage, they will despise everything and want men to fall at her feet. If they want a house and a car, they'd better have a millionaire's father. There are also some such women with good family background, good self-cultivation and various advantages. With such conditions, according to our secular standards, her requirements should be higher, but the results are often unexpected. Love is enough. According to my previous thoughts, I will look down on the former in my heart, and of course the former will look down on me. Calm down and think about it, everyone has their own interests. As for choosing rich people, that's their choice. Most of their choices have nothing to do with feelings. They just want someone to lean on. It's not that the current version is like this. They must find someone rich enough to marry. As for finding someone who loves himself, of course it is better, but the probability is not high. As the saying goes, everyone has his own interests. It may be your body, it may be a woman, or it may be a man's money and status. Why not? We are satisfied with each other, but remember: there is one more thing in the world of adults than children, and that is the right to choose. Everyone has the right to choose and the right to accept the consequences of choice, whether sweet or bitter. When you choose to get something, you also choose to lose it. You can't have it both ways. If each of us has a clear head, we are lucky to think of these things, but there are too many people looking for marriage in this world, but they just don't know and never think about what they really want, and what is the most important thing for them. Such groups often have the same characteristics: greed, wanting everything and not wanting to lose anything. In the end, they will resist the temptation and enter a circle. What will happen? Only God knows! In this society, true love is really rare, much harder than that in pink diamond. If you don't meet, you will doubt whether there is true love, so you will settle for the second best. But should we have a definition of true love in our hearts? what is love ? Personally, there is no middle ground between love and non-love, love is love, and non-love is non-love. Only when facing the reality, love will become very vague and will attach many conditions. Do you have a steady job? Do you have a house? If the answer is yes! The other person's answer may be I really love you! If your answer is no! The other person's answer may be forget it, I don't love you, we are not suitable! Just like a woman meets a man, she is not excited, but he is handsome enough and rich enough, so a woman may be with him. But please don't talk about their love, feelings can still be barely talked about. Love is sacred. For them, there is no love element in it. But if classified, it is also a kind of love, so let's call it love with necessary conditions. I once asked the students on the podium how much temptation your's love can withstand. I'll give you100000. Are you willing to break up with your current boyfriend (girlfriend)? Where is 500,000 yuan, and where is1000,000 yuan? What about 5 million? What about 10 million? I often hear people talk about the sacredness of love, saying that it is impossible to betray under any conditions. What I want to say is that there is no betrayal, because the benefits of betrayal cannot be far greater than your cost. Maybe this is too utilitarian, but now society is like this, and everyone is utilitarian. Back to the topic at the beginning, do women have to let men buy houses before they get married? The answer is already obvious. When you have nothing to do, think more and think clearly, and you will have more calmness and wisdom and less hesitation and trouble.