Why is it best to add the woman's name to the wedding room bought by the man?

In 1980s, China began to implement the family planning policy, which runs counter to the traditional concept of having more children and more happiness. In addition, the traditional concept of raising children to prevent old age has led to a huge gender gap in China after 30 years. China's 30 million single men face the difficulty of getting a wife, which completely shattered the hidden rules of marriage that have been circulating in China for thousands of years. On the issue of marriage, women in the new era have finally occupied the dominant position.

As a result, naturally, women's requirements for marriage began to increase, especially in real estate. Compared with the sky-high bride price, "whether the wedding room is named" has become a standard for women to measure the sincerity of men's marriage proposal. This can't help but make the majority of men feel wronged. House prices are high now. Most people empty their wallets for three generations just to get a wedding room or a down payment. It's unfair to add the woman's name to marriage.

However, in the view of marriage psychologists, this is not the case for three reasons, and most men are convinced of it.

In the family division of labor, the woman pays more.

Some time ago, the BBC released a data, and the results showed that China is the country with the highest probability of women working, which means that women in China are the most hardworking group. Because in most countries, women are no longer responsible for making money to support their families after marriage, but unlike women in China, they not only have to do housework and raise children, but also shoulder the responsibility of making money to support their families.

No way, most men in China grew up in a family environment with different division of labor between men and women. Although they have no parents' ability to support the whole family, this does not prevent them from taking part in child-rearing and housework. It can be seen that marriage has less benefits, more pain and less happiness for women. Therefore, it is natural for the man to make appropriate compensation in real estate or bride price.

The woman has no property and no sense of security.

Previously, marriage psychologists had initiated a proposition that parents should have a flat bowl of water, and their children should be equal in property division, not just buying a house for their sons. As a result, this matter was brought back by men with the phrase "women can divide their property". But from a legal point of view, this statement will not work.

The new marriage law stipulates that the property before marriage belongs to the purchaser, and the wedding room purchased by the man, if anonymous, has nothing to do with the woman.

In other words, the property has been given to my brother's woman. If the man refuses to add his name after marriage, it means she has nothing. Therefore, men who love their wives will take the initiative to add names in order to give women a sense of security.

It is uncomfortable to rely on others and has no sense of belonging.

No one likes living in the backyard, even if this person is his own husband. If a man refuses to add the woman's name to his wedding room, then in the eyes of the woman, the house has nothing to do with him, and naturally he is too lazy to care. The quality of life of a family can be imagined.

To put it bluntly, women only add names for the so-called sense of belonging. With a sense of belonging, she can better shoulder the obligation of being a hostess. I hope men can understand this.