For those who are corrupted by their husbands, top-down actions also act on the latter from the beginning. Therefore, the father is unkind, the son is unfilial, the younger brother is unfriendly, the younger brother is disrespectful, the husband is unjust, and the woman is unhappy. If the father is kind, the son is rebellious, the brother is proud, the husband is righteous, and the woman is buried, then the people in heaven are killed by punishment and not moved by discipline.
Anger will be too obvious if it is wasted at home; If the punishment is improper, the people will be at a loss.
Confucius said, "Don't be extravagant, be frugal; As solid as gold, it is better not to have grandchildren. " He also said: "If you have the beauty of Zhou Gong's talent, you will be arrogant and stingy, and you will also be aware of other shortcomings. "However, you can be frugal and don't be stingy. If you are frugal, you can keep the contract as a gift. A stingy person is poor and impatient. Today, giving is extravagant and frugality is stingy. It would be nice if you could give without extravagance and be frugal and generous.
Food is the sky for the people and food is the sky for the people. Sang Ma takes clothes and vegetables as livestock, which are produced in the garden; Chickens and dolphins are born round. So buildings and equipment, firewood and fat candles are not cultivated things. They can keep their jobs and make a living behind closed doors, but there is no salt well at home. Now, the custom in northern China can bow down and save money to support food and clothing. Jiangnan is extravagant, but not enough.
Liang Zhijia, a scholar in the book, was so strict that his wives and concubines became assassins after getting drunk and killed them.
Celebrities in the world are generous; As for eating and drinking, the number of servants is reduced, the wife is generous, the guests are humiliated, and the township party is invaded: this is also a huge family.
Fang Wenlie, assistant minister of the official department of Qi State, was never angry. After the rain, he was deprived of food, sent his maid and rice, and escaped for three or four days before being recaptured. Xu Fang said, "Where are you from?" "I didn't hit my head. I tried to send someone home, and the handmaiden rummaged around the house for a little salary. Hearing this, I was silent.
Pei Yezi's relatives and friends who are hungry and unable to help themselves are all adopted; The family is poor, and in the event of floods and droughts, two stone meters are porridge, so we can only do it all over again, and we are always greedy. I have a leader who is insatiable and has 800 children, 1000 vows; Every morning and evening, everyone eats and drinks according to the standard of 15 yuan. In case of a guest trip, the two are even more difficult. With his fortune, a house in Ma Xie is full of clothes, and the rest of the treasure is beyond words. There are people in Nanyang who make a living from Aobao, and their nature is extremely frugal. From winter to the future, their son-in-law praised it, so they set up a copper ou wine and counted it. My husband hates his single rate, so get it done at once. Master startled, looking forward to life, and so on; Instead, I blamed my daughter and said, "A certain man can drink a lot, so you are always poor." After his death, scholars fought for money, and the eldest brother killed his younger brother.
A wife's eating in China is the food, wine and clothes of the ceremony. The state cannot make a pre-government, and the family cannot make a dry law; If you have wisdom, know the past and present, and help a gentleman properly, there will be no morning bell, which will lead to disaster.
Jiangdong women, who have no friends, have never met in the wedding room, or for more than ten years, but have given their heritage by faith, which makes them very attentive. It is a custom for women to hold doors, argue about the merits of lawsuits, make them humorous, take cars to fill the streets, and then continue to visit Fu Ying Temple, asking officials to represent their children and intercede for their husbands. Is this the legacy of constancy and generations? The south is poor, everything is exterior decoration, and cars and clothes must be expensive and tidy; My family and wife can't help being hungry and cold. Hebei people are mostly from the interior, and then continue to go to happy ever after, so we can't waste it, we can only make up for it. The gift of advocating peace is still you.
Women in Hebei are better at weaving than those in Jiangdong, making beautiful Luo Qi.
Taigong said, "There are too many adopted daughters, so I have to charge you a fee." Chen Fan said, "You can't steal five women's doors." Women are very tired, but also very deep. However, they were born to steam the people, and their ancestors were handed down by their bodies. So what? The world does not abandon women, and thieves do the same thing. Should we do this and hope that happiness is in the sky? I have a close family, and my family forgives prostitutes, so I will send them to stay upright. If I feel uneasy, I will peep at the window and rely on my family. If I had a daughter, I would go. Mother cried with a trumpet, an unbearable smell.
It is a woman's nature to spoil and abuse her son-in-law. If you abuse your wife, your sister will behave badly. However, if a woman stays, she will offend her family, and her mother will do the same. As the saying goes, "Have dinner with your aunt." This is also a fact. Her family always has shortcomings, don't be warned!
Marriage is right, and Hou Cheng has the final say. Married to modern times, there are women who sell money, women who buy silk, and parents who take care of money, so their responsibilities are less. There is no difference in the market. Or arrogant in the door, or arrogant in the room, greedy for fame and profit, but ashamed of it.
Borrowed books and records must be kept well. There are defects first, and then make up for them. This is also one of the best scholars. Jiang Lu in Jiyang, who didn't finish his studies, must be neatly rolled up and re-rolled, so as not to lose, and people take pains to ask lies. Or there are a few cases of chaos, mostly polluted by children, young girls and concubines, and damaged by wind, rain, insects and rats. Its old paper has the meaning of the Five Classics, has the name of a wise man, and dares not use it.
My wizard's prayers are beyond words; Zhang Shu didn't pray for anything, as you can see. Don't pay for madness.