Inferiority is a complex negative consciousness. People think that they are not as ashamed, shy, timid and even disheartened as others, which is a common psychological problem for the disabled. Due to heredity or accidents, they have some physical and mental defects or lost their functions, lost their ability to take care of themselves, and thought that they would be looked down upon and feel inferior, so they became withdrawn, timid, unconfident, unwilling to talk and communicate with others, depressed and lost confidence in life and life. Many disabled people are sensitive, suspicious, closed and lonely, unwilling to face the reality, afraid of setbacks and have a strong sense of inferiority. Limited by their own physical defects, their lives are extremely inconvenient. Therefore, in order to develop the cause of the disabled, to succeed and to improve the production and living conditions, we must eliminate the inferiority complex.
The reasons for the inferiority of disabled people can be roughly summarized as follows:
First, lack of successful experience. Disabled people will lag behind others in some ways because of their own physical defects. When they see the happiness of others after success, they will fall deeper into the pain of failure. The accumulation of many failures has also made them lose courage and confidence and think that they are not as good as others.
Second, the family's wrong attitude towards the disabled. Many disabled people's inferiority complex has a lot to do with their families. Some parents lack confidence in disabled children, family members, disabled siblings or spouses and regard them as a burden. They think their shortcomings are annoying and lack a fair evaluation of the disabled.
Third, social indifference and discrimination. This phenomenon is easy to happen around disabled children, and children who have had this experience are generally afraid to associate with others. For adults with disabilities, social indifference and discrimination are the biggest reasons for their inferiority complex. On the employment of the disabled, many enterprises and institutions do not look down on the disabled in essence, but close the door to the disabled in terms of employing people; In education, schools suitable for the disabled are not popular, which makes many disabled people lose their right to education, and even many universities and technical secondary schools do not recruit disabled students. If disabled people can't improve their cultural and scientific quality, they will be even less able to compete with normal people, thus deepening their inferiority complex.
2. Self-esteem sensitivity
Because of their disabilities, disabled people often pay special attention to the attitudes of people around them, and others' attitudes and comments on them make them particularly sensitive. They care about being called "lame", "blind", "deaf" and "dumb". If someone does something that hurts the self-esteem of disabled people, it is often difficult for them to restrain themselves. They will get angry and take self-defense measures to retaliate.
Step 3 feel sorry for yourself
Disabled people sometimes feel sorry for themselves and hope that others and society will sympathize with him, care for him and help him.
Step 4 be sympathetic
Mainly manifested in the special deep sympathy for disabled people like themselves, because they have the same disabilities and defects, and everyone has the same language and can communicate with each other. They can care and love each other through communication, and their sympathy arises spontaneously.