Do men and women get along well? Skill? It is important to give others privacy.
With the arrival of the rental peak in September, a large number of college students who go back to Nanjing to study and those who come to Nanjing to apply for jobs will set off a wave of sharing. For the newly arrived renters, there is generally no mature interpersonal relationship in the local area, so it is very important to choose a good roommate. Some stories of people who have experienced it are extremely interesting at this time? Reference? Value.
Shi Yingchun, who works in a media company in Xinjiekou, has lived in Maigaoqiao International Trade Community for one and a half years. She told reporters that in the process of getting along with the other three roommates, everyone gave others the opportunity to keep their privacy, and they got along very happily for more than a year. ? Although we may not know which unit everyone else belongs to and what their family background is, we can still go out to buy food and cook happily on weekends. ?
Three women and one man share the experience under the same roof: it is important to give others privacy.
Looking for a house seems ok? Apply?
Recalling how to live in the present house, the miniature schnauzer said with a smile. Like applying for a job, I didn't receive the notice until a week later. ?
In 2004, Xiaoshi saw a rental information on the Internet, which was a set of three rooms and one living room for rent, 250 yuan/month. Three bedrooms and one living room are rented by a boy named Jin, about the same size as the miniature schnauzer. Now we all call him? Brother Jin? At that time, he lived alone in a big room, and the second bedroom was occupied by a girl who was a teacher. ? Xiaoshi told reporters that at that time? Brother Jin? I asked her seriously about her age, the nature of her work and whether she would often work overtime. Xiaoshi thinks the house is not bad. Brother Jin? Looks pretty gentle, too. She left a deposit of 100, but Brother Xiaojin said: You choose the house, I choose the person. Everyone should think carefully. Go back and wait for my news. ? A week later, there are many short stories? Tenant? Medium? Stand out? , have you received it? Brother Jin? what's up Check-in notice? .
Love cleanliness? Brother Jin?
After Xiaoshi stayed for half a year, Xiaojin picked up his sister. Later, Brother Xiaojin traveled a lot, and my room was not air-conditioned, so I adjusted it. I share the second bedroom with another girl. Brother Xiaojin lives in the small room I rented, and his sister lives in the big room. ? Xiaoshi said that because Xiaojin is a brother and sister and lives in a shared house, let? Shared rent? Okay? Ambiguous? Yes
? Brother Xiaojin is a clean boy. Every time he goes to the toilet, he will clean it up. As long as he is at home in summer, he will walk out of the room dressed up. The four of us have similar personalities and hobbies. We don't like clubbing and staying overnight. Our hobby is renting DVDs and watching them at home. When everyone is resting on Saturday, they take turns cleaning. When it's Brother Xiaojin's turn to clean up, our house will be cleaner. ?
? Don't care, don't gossip? Is the secret of getting along.
How to share public expenditure is a problem faced by tenants. If it is not handled properly, it is likely to lead to? Break? . ? Water, electricity and other expenses are calculated according to the original agreement. Both large rooms have air conditioning, TV and computer. When you first moved in, expensive appliances might have only one desk lamp. ?
Xiaoshi said that in the first six months, she might have to pay the electricity bill? Loss? A little, but think about it from another angle. When it's hot, go to other girls' rooms to blow air conditioners, watch TV and use computers. Moreover, in terms of water use, girls take a long bath and use a lot of water. Brother Xiaojin didn't care how to calculate the water fee. ? Not counting these details. Another girl and I can't cook. Brother Xiaojin and sister Xiaojin are both good cooks. They often improve our food on weekends. Why should we accept them? Processing? Cost? Everyone understands each other, and we can get along well without paying attention to some small details. ?
Xiao Shi also said that besides not caring about life, it is very important to keep a certain distance from roommates and give them some privacy. ? After all, cohabitation is not good, because it is too sticky. Everyone wants to have their own space. Unless you say it yourself when chatting, you don't usually? Gossip? Ask others carefully? How old are you this year? ? 、? Which unit do you work in? ? Do you have a date? ? Questions like this. Just like recently, we felt that Brother Xiaojin seemed to be in love, but everyone secretly shared his happiness and didn't ask. If he felt it inconvenient to tell us, that would be bad. ?
The experience of two families no longer sharing rooms door to door: don't share rooms with friends.
Miss Gao is a property consultant of a real estate company in Nanjing, and now she has her own house. She used to be a member of the group sharing a room. Her experience is: don't share a room with friends.
Miss Gao has been living with her brother since she graduated from college, so she doesn't have to worry about things at home. After getting married, I always felt uncomfortable living with my brother, so I went out to find a house to share. I just wanted to find two people to live in at first. Later, I learned that a good friend of my husband was also looking for a house. Considering that he had just joined the work at that time, and his financial capacity was limited, it would be more convenient to find a house with a good environment if he shared it, and the two families could take care of it together. So they share the rent together. ? There are three people in a friend's family, one is at work, and his wife usually takes care of the children at home; My family goes to work, and I am afraid that there will be conflicts between utilities, so I discussed the principle of sharing utilities equally before sharing them. ? Miss Gao told reporters that when she first lived, she felt quite good. They rented a two-bedroom apartment and went door to door. They usually go to work without locking the door. Since a friend's family had children, everyone likes to play with them. Occasionally, if one family doesn't cook, the other will ask them to come and eat together. But later, the children grew up little by little and became more and more naughty. ? Sometimes when we tease children, it may be a language problem, and children will be unhappy. Unconsciously, there are also some minor contradictions. It's just half a year's rent. In order not to affect the friendly relationship between them, we chose to live apart and rent separately. ?
Miss Gao said that they still maintain very good relations with friends and family. If they live together again in the past, there will definitely be contradictions, and friends may not be able to do it in the future. Because we are very familiar with each other, we encountered some minor problems when we shared a house. Because of face, no one will care. Over time, if we don't speak out the contradictions, the knot will get deeper and deeper. Once it breaks out, it will be out of control. ? I think it's best not to share a room with friends. After all, people you don't know can talk about some problems and let the contradictions be resolved as soon as possible. ?
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