In Shanghai, not only avocados have a chain of discrimination, but also nannies.
Shanghai people call nannies or hourly workers "aunties", which is a heartfelt name. You know, in this international metropolis, an aunt may have seen more of the world than you have.
Many people will always come into contact with all kinds of nannies in their lives, and among them, there will always be some who can reshape your three views and teach you to be a man.
When I first learned that "my aunt has seen more of the world than me", before my son was born, I welcomed my first mentor, Aunt Wang, with a chubby belly.
Aunt Wang's last employer lived in the famous Renheng Riverside Garden in Lujiazui, Pudong, which laid a relatively high starting point for Aunt Wang.
On the first day of coming to my house, I was busy with a day's work. At 7 o'clock in the evening, she leaned against the window, looked at thousands of lights and sighed: "Your community can't do it."
I can't shake my round belly, and menstruation's voice comes to my ear:
"You see, what time is it? It's past 7 o'clock in the evening. Why are so many children running and shouting outside in the community? At this time, shouldn't children be practicing piano, calligraphy and calligraphy? "
I was shocked at that time. This aunt is really hardcore!
Originally, my aunt said that our community was not good. I thought she was obsessed with material things and attached to wealth ... But in menstruation's eyes, what she saw was not the surface of vanity, but the real spiritual core!
She hates that there is no piano in our community at night.
A nanny who has seen the world has formed a chain of discrimination in family education-
The baby is taken care of by the nanny.
In Shanghai, the nanny who has seen the world the most is an expert in educational practice. She must have taken her children to cram school, English corner, practiced piano and saxophone, played basketball under the basketball stand, and swung at the baseball field!
Such a nanny, in the years she has been in contact with, has also been edified into an outstanding talent who is proficient in everything except language, can understand music, can draw pictures, is not afraid of shame when going abroad, and can also speak for nannies in China!
When you find that the nanny in a certain community is not asking "how much does your boss pay", but asking "how many classes does your boss's child attend", then the quality of this community will certainly not be too bad, the educational level of the residents is similar, and the money is no different.
It's a pity that Aunt Wang came to my house just for a transition. I didn't learn more philosophy of life from her. Through her own efforts, she got an advanced certificate and a high-end offer from Biyun Community.
In her words: the requirements are not too high-know some English, can cook western food, and don't get stage fright when picking up children from international schools.
Before leaving, Aunt Wang made a "Nordic steak" and told my husband, "Don't dip anything when eating, foreigners eat the original flavor!" I was so scared that my husband's hand with black pepper shook and spilled too much, and my aunt almost turned her face.
This is another family catering discrimination chain of Magic City Nanny-
Eat takeout all day
Aunt to longly say with her husband:
"You have to work hard and try to change rooms early in the future. This community, no, no, let me tell you. The old people in our former community organize chorus, waltz and learn computer graphics every day. Look at the old people in your community, besides dancing square dance and playing mahjong, tut tut tut ... "
This reflects the discrimination chain of the community cultural atmosphere of the magic city nanny-
Mahjong community
After aunt's summary, our community seems to be the bottom of the discrimination chain!
After listening to my aunt's advice ... later ... we really changed a community.
So you see, the nanny's power is unlimited.
An excellent nanny, she doesn't want to earn much money in your home, but wants to breathe a sigh of relief!
Her dream is to go to the next home and proudly say, "My last home was in xx community, which was great. Your community, no,no. "
When our family bought a car before, we gritted our teeth and bought one, which cost tens of thousands of dollars. If for nothing else, menstruation didn't feel inferior at all when she got off the car with her child in her arms.
Isn't this a virtuous circle? We people in the great magic capital are constantly pursuing progress, and we are constantly making progress, and some aunts are silently urging and encouraging us.
After the first baptism of life, we also became better ourselves (living in a better community) ... When we hired a nanny for the second time, we obviously had a little confidence.
A few days later, menstruation complained to us that we couldn't make friends in the club and the social circle was too narrow.
"In the past, in our community, many people were full-time mothers. They attach great importance to parent-child relationship. Parents and children go out every day, so our aunt has time to get together. Aunt Li is drinking tea there today, and Aunt Zhang is chatting there tomorrow. Tea parties are held every day! "
I looked at my aunt's lonely back and was speechless.
The magic city nanny has also formed a chain of discrimination against the nature of the hostess's work-
Those who work more and earn less.
? This aunt knew this year's old mother's century-old scam, evaded taking care of the children and refused to resign, which made me feel embarrassed.
Finally, I insisted on not resigning, and menstruation resigned.
When my son was a child, we took him for vaccination. My aunt dressed up beautifully and wore a beautiful silk dress. She said, "I can't embarrass my boss!" "
My mother, she didn't know, came with a small torn shirt and a canvas bag. She followed a famous nanny in dismay, fearing that people would ask "who is the grandmother of the child". My mother's mood at that time was: I was afraid that you wouldn't ask, but I was afraid that you would ask indiscriminately.
At home, my mother ignored my father (although it doesn't make sense logically), but, hehe, woman.
Later, I summed it up: the comprehensive strength of a family is not strong, mainly reflected in the nanny.
There is a nanny in our community. Every afternoon at a fixed time, when she walks the baby, she stuffs two hand-painted books in her bag, and other nannies walk the baby. She sat down while walking, took out a picture book, read two or three pages with the children, and then walked on.
She said, "My last employer was a university professor!"
The magic city nanny also has a chain discrimination against the professional nature of the owner-
Work at home
The owners' meeting was held in the community two days ago. Owners are in the conference room, meeting in rags, and nannies are playing at the door with their children. Looking around, everyone is exquisite and charming, pearl necklaces and gold rings. During the intermission, a nanny came in to explain the policy to the owner. She said, "I've seen this many times. I went to the last owners' rights protection meeting and finally won! "
Her mantra is: "read more laws, read more laws!" " "
One day I saw a group of people walking dogs at a party in the community, and I said, "Oh, so cute, wow, this one is so handsome, hey, that one is so cute!" "
An aunt came up with four dogs in her hand! That's right, two in one hand. My aunt glared at me. "This is a beagle." For the first time, she said, "That's a fight, that's the border herder, that one over there, Coco, the biggest one, Golden Retriever, the one running by, Labrador."
"Wow, aunt, you are really something. Are these four dogs all yours? "
"Well, I'm his nanny."
I only felt that the aunt's gas field was 2.8 meters at that moment, and she was shocked at that time.
A large family, even the nanny who walks the dog knows better than me.
It is said that the nanny of Magic Capital has chain discrimination against the main business-
hourly worker
Form a closed loop.
Listening to neighbors, aunts recently summed up a chain of discrimination against children-
With primary school students