In fact, if you know about type nine personality, you will know that there are nine types of people, and each type has three subtypes: self-protection, one-on-one and social type. It can be seen that two thirds of people are unsociable, and he is only one of these two thirds. . . In fact, as long as people are not mentally retarded, their natural expressive ability is similar. . . What is different is different personality or some internal interference.
The differences in personality are as follows: Type Nine has three centers: sensory center, auditory pathway center and intuitive center. Sensory center has strong emotional expression ability and direct speech, while auditory pathway has slow expression but strong logical thinking. People in intuitive center have strong feelings and adaptability to things and environment. Internal interference includes: initiative, confidence, passion, etc. . .
From your statement, we can see that he is an introverted, inferior, unhealthy normal person influenced by the past! Your affirmation, appreciation and love for him are all very good, but I feel that this is not in line with your inner feelings. It's just that you pretend to be like this. Of course, this is a worthy act of kindness, but it would be better if you really do it in your heart, because when I feel this way, your child must feel the same way!
Secondly, the influence of all external forces is small, because you use a set of standards to ask him, but those are not what he wants or he doesn't find value in them, so he needs to do some inner exploration to find out what influenced him in the past, how his life can be different and how he can break through his obstacles.
Therefore, the first discovery is action. He may not even know the root cause now. It must be useful for you to give him some methods, but this force will take a long time!
Through a series of professional training, the coach's leadership and situational nine personality of Shenzhen Balanced Wisdom Management College can support him to find himself, break through himself and practice himself. Nine-type personality can also let him know what kind of personality he is, what advantages he has and how to give full play to his advantages! Instead of comparing your own shortcomings with the strengths of others. For example, some No.5, especially the self-protection No.5, are not very gregarious, but their logical thinking is super strong, and the analysis of problems at many critical moments is often very unique and can be a blockbuster. However, if you are gregarious as long as he is extroverted, he doesn't know much about his personality, not that he doesn't want to, but that he will encounter many difficulties, because No.5 likes to start from events, cares about the "value" brought by everything, and can't start from emotions. . . . Therefore, when you only change your behavior, you often ignore your inner strengths and feelings. You can communicate directly with Pingheng Wisdom Management College and discuss each other in depth!