The blind date boyfriend disappeared the day before the wedding photo was taken. What happened? How to identify high-end matchmaking scams?

Ms. Fang paid an introduction fee of 200,000 yuan on the matchmaking platform and met Mr. Gao. After a year of formal contact, the two decided to get married. The day before the wedding photo was taken, Mr. Gao suddenly lost contact. After contacting each other many times, Ms. Fang found that she could find each other. There is no other way except the telephone number. She gradually realized that she had been cheated by the other party. For this kind of scam, you need to know more about each other in the process of communication. If you want to get married, you must contact more relatives and friends, learn more, and reduce the possibility of being cheated.

First, marriage fraud. Ms. Fang, who lives in Beijing, is consulting in a matchmaking company and wants to find a suitable man. The consultant introduced her to a consultant named Ma and introduced them to each other. Ma said that he knows many high-quality marriageable men, but she needs Ms. Fang to pay a matchmaking service fee of 200,000 yuan to arrange for Ms. Fang to meet the man. Subsequently, Ms. Fang paid 6.5438+10,000 yuan first, and under the arrangement of Ma, she met the man with high surname introduced by her.

Second, a scam that lasts for one year. After they met, Mr. Gao claimed to be a graduate of a famous university, with a very stable career and rich assets, and owned real estate in Beijing and Hangzhou. Ms. Fang gradually lowered her guard, believed the other person's lies, paid the other half of the service fee, and officially began to associate with Mr. Gao. The two have always maintained a good relationship, and Mr. Gao's thoughtfulness has gradually convinced Ms. Fang that the other party is the most suitable marriage partner. After a year of formal contact, the two put their marriage on the agenda and began to prepare for wedding photos. The day before filming, Mr. Gao completely lost contact. After many unsuccessful contacts, Ms. Fang realized that she was cheated and then called the police. Mr. Gao was taken away by the police for investigation and charged with fraud.

Third, get to know each other well and protect yourself before getting married. As can be seen from this case, the other party laid the groundwork for a whole year in order to cheat money, and did not disappear immediately after receiving the matchmaking service fee, that is, she was afraid that Ms. Fang would call the police at that time. They chose to control and deceive this woman with their feelings. During the period, Mr. Gao repeatedly mentioned that he would take Ms. Fang to see her parents, but for various reasons, he failed to do so. It can be seen that before getting married formally, we must fully understand each other's background and family, know their parents and friends, know each other's family environment and friends, and understand each other's personality and character from the side. Don't trust each other's sweet words easily, everything is seen as believed.