Netizen "Cai Ying": A beautiful girl and a flowery life have passed away! I hope you are still beautiful in heaven ... Have a nice trip!
Netizen "kkkk-kkkk": The young man looks good on the plane. Why did he commit such a heinous crime? We should analyze the psychology of committing crimes from a deeper level.
Netizen "Mr. Lao Ye": Doing many evils and hurting two families.
Netizen "loveEwan": Too cruel and abnormal! Nowadays, many children have no sense of right and wrong and no moral bottom line. Is it a problem of education or a problem of growing up environment?
Netizen "boy yang 1": This is all because the domestic health knowledge class is not good. I remember when I was a child, the health textbook talked about the knowledge of men and women, and the teacher would say that everyone should learn by themselves in this class.
Netizen "hivi" concluded that boys are the most prone to accidents in adolescence, and girls are the most vulnerable to bullying in adolescence.
Speaking of "whose fault is it?", netizen "cakis007" said: I think society, families and schools all have unshirkable responsibilities in this matter. And "a beggar in the middle bridge" said: in fact, only schools and parents should bear the main responsibility for such a thing! Because they don't tell their children clearly what is right and what is wrong! They only care about their children's grades!
Netizen "Fengxiang Qianqi" said: In addition to shock, it is more about thinking about education. "If the child doesn't teach, the father will make a mistake." Parents have a great responsibility to educate their children in this way. In our society, watching TV is either drama or murder. There is lust and violence everywhere. Without a good living environment, how can we grow healthy seedlings?
The netizen "principal" summed up his experience in educating children from this case. He said: I told my children that falling in love in college is also stupid. Because 20-24 years old is the most energetic time in a person's life, I spend almost all my time in the city library ... so it is very necessary to set up an arduous task for my child that he can complete.
Experts and scholars in different fields express their opinions. Some sex education experts believe that sex education is accompanied by a person's life. However, the traditional sexual concept and culture of China people are very secretive, and the society, schools and parents try their best to "avoid talking about it", which leads to the lack of "clear" attitude towards sex-related issues among teenagers, and the sex education they receive only avoids talking about it. In the information age, the convenient and borderless Internet gives children unlimited possibilities to explore "sex" by themselves. Society, schools and parents should do a good job in sex education for the next generation, and no one can shirk their responsibilities.
Sociologists believe that this case is not only the tragedy of two families, but also the tragedy of the whole society. In an increasingly complex society, we must realize that society is the "mother" of teenagers' growth. When teenagers have problems, the whole society is duty-bound: parents, schools, internet cafes, internet, video product operators, book operators and so on. We must be considerate and meticulous to create a good growth environment for the growth of teenagers.
Psychologists believe that the main cause of crime is psychological imbalance, so it is urgent to strengthen the mental health education of primary and secondary school students. Parents should spend as much time as possible with their children, exchange ideas with them, understand their inner world, and strengthen appropriate restraint and management. Schools should establish psychological counseling rooms or websites to give guidance and explanations to students' puzzles and difficult problems. Parents, society and schools should pay close attention to * * *, don't treat "sex" as a tiger, let students increase some sexual knowledge and establish normal friendship between classmates.