If you love him, give him happiness. What kind of emotional counseling are there?

What if you can't control your feelings? Xiaoyan is a net friend of mine. In the circle of WeChat friends, I like the photos sent by Xiaoyan. They recorded her bit by bit: the newly learned beef stew with red wine was very successful for the first time; Not too busy, but the flowers and plants on the balcony are getting more and more lush; The children are still young, and all kinds of artistic graffiti and handmade works are amazing. I heard that genes inherited my father's arts and crafts skills; The housewife in the hospital bed knitted two scarves, golden orange, which made people feel warm. What are the emotional counseling?

I have no doubt that she is a gentle woman who can pick up all kinds of small beauties, small happiness and small surprises in ordinary daily life. Because I often pay attention to her photos and leave messages on the message board to express my admiration for her, she talked to me a lot in the dead of night.

Her lover came to a different place for work last year. She has to take care of the housework with her children alone, visit each other's parents on national holidays, and sometimes take a vacation to take them to see a doctor and get medicine. As a working woman, obviously she has many kinds of burdens, but she is very strong and never shouts tired. She is afraid that her lover will worry about their mother and son, so she takes all kinds of happy moments seriously. A clear picture is better than a promise in the message.

It turns out that it is not easy to show your humility in front of you if you really love someone deeply. In order to make her distant lover work stably, she swallowed fatigue and loneliness alone and showed them happiness, which was the expression of her love. What if you can't control your feelings? You don't have to think that a happy woman is bringing shame on herself. You can focus on the beautiful things and always stare at the bleeding wounds.

Needless to say, even Xiaoyan's lover knows how hard she works, so she will work overtime all night for a week, save the next summer vacation, and stay at home for a few hours, just to "see them with her own eyes." What are the emotional counseling?