Eat for flowers and get married indefinitely.
Mr. Wang (male, the staff of the matchmaking agency): Now all the men in their 40 s in our matchmaking agency have been laid off, and the benefits of the unit are still not good. They only get four or five hundred a month, and some only get two hundred. They are lazy and unskilled, so their wives abandoned them. But they are handsome and willing to find rich women. There are more and more such men in recent years. In our place, after they know the rich woman, they usually live together when they feel better. The woman will feed them and give them drinks, but she will not give them 6.5438+0.8 million yuan and will not get married easily. Nowadays, rich women are smart enough to know that these people are after their money.
Cooperative: I want to develop myself through women's career.
Ms. Li (female, director of the matchmaking agency): When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. It is said that women are more greedy than men. However, in recent years, men's ideas have also changed. Once I came here to see Mr. Jin, and she told me frankly, "I want to find a successful woman and make a comeback together."
Teacher Jin is a good-looking teacher who has been divorced for three years. Bachelor degree, worked as a factory director in a state-owned enterprise. Because of my bad relationship with the director in charge, I left my original unit and started my own business in Hainan. Last year, I returned to Xi 'an and began to think about finding a partner who could help me in my career.
Teacher Jin said: "When the career is brilliant and the scenery is infinite, the women around you are like clouds. But now I am a useless hero, and I want to work harder in my career. A successful woman can build a platform for my career, so I am looking for a partner wife. I don't care that I am old. "
Speculative type: not doing business, coveting enjoyment.
Ms. Chu (female, teacher): I have a classmate, 42 years old, who has just divorced and is very artistic, but his paintings are always appreciated. He once said to me, "I long for marriage, attach great importance to my family and hope to live a happy and stable life." His economic foundation is not very strong. When I divorced, I gave the house to my ex-wife, lived in a single dormitory, and the process of interacting with the young lady was not very smooth. He secretly loves others and others despise him; People like him, but he despises that they have been married once. Now he thinks that money is very important to his family life. If two people have no money, it can only be money, not what people who have been poor together know.
There are not a few men with my classmates' mentality. Most of them are in their early forties, with good looks and interesting lives, but they have no strong points in their careers, soft personalities and almost no property. Once the marriage fails, it is easy to find a partner with a speculative attitude, hoping to find a comfortable new life. When looking for a partner, it doesn't matter how old the other person looks, mainly because the woman has money or not. It doesn't matter whether she is the head of the family after marriage. But it is difficult for such a man to find a suitable partner.
Dependence: eating soft food by grace.
Ms. Gao (female, employee of the matchmaking agency): At present, some middle-aged men come to the matchmaking agency to "get close to the rich woman". They are about 45-55 years old. They are used to living in luxury. They look elegant and talk well, but they have nothing in their careers. They lived with the "rich woman" for a long time. There is a teacher Wang, who is very handsome and goes to a beauty salon once a week for skin care. For a romantic woman, he can accompany her through a street under the street lamp at night; For a real woman, he can give her all kinds of sweet gifts, a lot of sweet words repeated n times, and even comb her hair and wash her feet. Some single middle-aged women with empty feelings and rich family property are also willing to choose such "sexual partners".
There was once a 47-year-old female boss who started two profitable companies in Xi 'an. She met a 50-year-old man at a networking event organized by a matchmaking agency. The other man is 1.78 meters tall, a typical basketball player, capable and healthy. They fell in love at first sight and lived together a month after they met. The man's financial source depends entirely on the woman's supply. For a long time, the woman was eager to marry the man, and even declared that "as long as you marry me, all the money is yours." However, the man is unwilling to give up his dissolute life and extort the woman's property in terms of buying a house and decoration. The woman almost had a nervous breakdown when she found out.
The power to climb money has existed since ancient times.
He Laoshi (male, newspaperman): Money that clings to power has existed since ancient times. Wu Zetian had Toy Boy, while the ancient emperor had other ladies and 3,000 rare beauties in his court. However, in the traditional male-dominated society, under the condition that the society does not provide opportunities for women to study, find employment, do business and be an official, and under the fetters of the concept that "a woman without talent is virtue and bears children for her husband", the main value of a woman is to have children and beauty. Women have always been passive in sexual relations and marriage choices. It is often said that women get rich because they lack social resources such as money and power, so they do not hesitate to exchange their youth and beauty for money. Now that men have money with women, it shows that society has progressed and women have more and more social resources. In the relationship between men and women, women are young and beautiful, and there is a new resource, money. Although many young women look down on such men, objectively speaking, this phenomenon shows that the status of women in today's society has indeed improved.