1, the inner power gradually broke out, and the role changed from a bystander to a participant, actively choosing and taking responsibility.
I had a sense before the game started. I remember that I was exposed to financial business games before I studied, and I organized this game every time. I feel that my sense of security is seriously inadequate. I always choose to be a bystander, because I think I can't afford to lose, I think I will lose, and I feel I am lacking. But through the continuous learning from 20 15 to now, I found that my mentality has changed a lot and my inner ability is gradually improving. I think I can be responsible for my choice, and I have the ability to experience the gains brought by the game as a participant. I think I am qualified for this kind of training. So I am not just a bystander, I am a participant. The most important thing is that I am willing to pay for my choice. Remember to get together with classmates and play mahjong together during the Chinese New Year. Whenever I win money, I am happy, but once I lose, no matter how much money I lose, I am very uneasy, timid and unhappy. I think this is a lack in my heart. When I was playing this game yesterday, I just started to take out 600 yuan, because I think my lucky numbers are 1 and 6. For me who quit my job to specialize in family education, this 600 yuan is really not a small sum, because there is no investment at present, and only when I go out to study often can I spend money. So, if I take out 600 yuan to participate in this game. I am willing to pay the price for this result.
? 2. I am easily influenced by others and spend impulsively.
? When Mr. Zhang Xiang said on the stage, who else would like to make some adjustments to enjoy more participation qualifications, I chose to invest in 400 yuan again. I am willing to spend 1000 yuan to participate in the game experience. I think 600 yuan may not touch me very much, but a few thousand yuan will definitely touch me much more than 600 yuan. Since I paid 600 yuan, I can also pay 400 yuan more, so that I can get in touch with myself more and have a more comprehensive experience. I am willing to pay more money. At the same time, we can also realize that we are often influenced by others and spend impulsively.
? 3. Care about relationships, fear of conflicts, and the mentality of rescuers.
During the activity experience, when I found that my friend was ready to quit the game because of insufficient funds, I immediately stood up and was willing to take out my own money to fill her gap. I'm too concerned about other people's feelings, afraid of losing, afraid of emotional breakdown, especially when I hear her confront Zhang Xiang's mother, I will try my best to be calm and dare not resist authority. I'd rather pay her to stay and get more experiences.
4. Abide by the bottom line, occasionally want to violate the rules, and rely on judgment.
In the process of experience, another good perception is that when the amount of money transferred to me is greater than the principal of my investment 1000 yuan. I feel very excited and willing to abide by the rules of the game. However, when I found that the amount transferred to me was less than my investment amount, I began to observe. I think someone must have violated the rules of the game. Who is it? Why don't you find him? Because if everyone abides by the rules of the game, there will be no 400 yuan. Because, a few times, every teacher took out the capital of 500 yuan, and everyone wanted to be above 500 yuan, otherwise someone would be short of capital and need to quit the game. Therefore, no one must give all his capital to the people on the right.
When the teacher said that he would give all his time to the people closest to him, he hesitated and didn't want to give it all. He wanted to give himself some time alone, but he didn't want to break the rules of the game, so he reluctantly gave it.
? 5. I didn't do my best when I experienced it.
? When I used judgment to observe who broke the rules, I found that I didn't do my best at all.
6. I don't want to take risks.
? Finally, I realized that the money flowing to me at that time was 400 yuan. If the game stays here, even if I shared earlier that I am willing to pay for the result, when I really face the result, I will still be unhappy, complain, feel unfair and unwilling to really take risks. When the teacher said to find a partner to exchange her money, I found that I found that she had 900 yuan in her hand. If I exchange with her, my loss is only 100 yuan, and I can bear the result.
Second, the dynamic meditation in the morning, what is your harvest?
? 1, that is, both rigid and flexible, both on me. What a wonderful thing! I'm intact.
Thanks to my body, she is really smart. Her body froze there during the dynamic meditation experience. At first, she felt that her freezing action was ordinary, as if she had no feeling. Her arms drooped and her feet naturally stood upright. However, when I turned my focus back to myself, I found that my back was straight, my arms were close to my sides and my legs were far apart. You can see that my upper body looks stiff, my upper body and brain are stiff, but my lower limbs are open, which means that they are flexible and open at the same time.
2. The left body is sensitive and the right body is stiff.
I also noticed that my left foot and leg were very tired. The hair, neck, back and left chest on the left sweat much more than on the right, indicating that the body on the left is more flexible. Relatively speaking, I use my right brain (perceptual level) more, and my rational thinking is relatively weak. When I realized this, I shifted my focus slightly to my right leg. Within a few minutes, I found that my right body began to sweat.
3, just want to obey the rules, want to challenge a moderate breakthrough, and seek a little excitement.
In the process of meditation, I found that I wanted to obey the rules completely, but at the same time I was secretly trying to allow myself to violate the rules moderately. During the whole process, the teacher asked me to experience with my eyes closed. I quietly opened my eyes twice and looked at the surrounding environment, and found that what I felt was often not true. When I close my eyes, I feel like a lonely person. When I opened my eyes a little, I found a large group of people supporting me.
4. Rehearse successful scenes
In the final dance environment, I freely stretched myself and delivered myself completely. I saw myself standing on the stage, surrounded by countless crowded pictures, and they cheered happily with me. Unexpectedly, in the afternoon, when Zhang Xiang's mother was doing a major case about success, she was selected as the case owner. She completely experienced all obstacles and stumbling blocks on the road to success and embraced the goal three years later. Is this a sign from the subconscious mind? I don't understand the message she gave me. Dear subconscious, thank you, thank you for reminding me. I got it. I'll take care of it. Thank you. I love you.
Third, about the obstacles to success?
Obstacles: the goal is unclear and the implementation is not focused.
Caption: You run around like a headless fly.
Not accepting yourself: failure
Relationship: with parents, husband, son, platform leader, service support staff, three presidents, and my own body.
Acknowledge, accept, submit and be responsible.
The secret of effective interaction: 1, I see you; 2. I see your needs; I am willing to meet your needs.
4. What do you think of the future? What are your career goals and three-year vision?
My mission and core values: joy creates value and enjoys a rich life with pursuers.
My future career goal: to be a life mentor who can speak 500 words by the end of 2022.
V. About Project Investment and Investors
Principles to be grasped
1, project inviter
1) confidence and belief; 2) Love and influence (unity of body and mind, transparency inside and outside); 3)*** same value; 4) Balance between giving and returning; 5) Be true to yourself; 6) Altruism
2. Investors
Enthusiasm, energy (concentration), love, equal value, altruism, meeting each other's needs, professionalism, honesty and feasibility (practicality)
? You need to adjust and improve yourself: enthusiasm alone is not enough. You need to consider each other's needs and satisfy each other.
Six, including grace.
1, grateful to my mother for giving me life;
2. Be grateful for the kindness of parents;
3. Be grateful for the kindness of parents' education;
4. Appreciate the kindness of Zhang Xiang's mother;
5. Appreciate the support of teaching assistants;
6. Thank the students for their help;
7. Appreciate the dean's support;
8. Appreciate the kindness of the earth;
9. Be grateful for the tolerance of heaven and earth;
10, grateful for the sunshine;
1 1, grateful for the nourishment of the air;
12, grateful for Yan 'an's support;
13, grateful for the grace of flowers and trees;
14, grateful for the nourishment of tap water;
15, thanks to the selfless dedication of Sun:
16, thanking her husband for his kindness;
17, grateful to my son for his support;
18, grateful for the warm service of the hotel;
19, grateful to my mother for her tolerance;
20. Appreciate the goodwill of the hotel in service;
2 1, grateful for the company of brothers and sisters;
22. Appreciate her husband's tolerance;
23. Be grateful for the grace of money awakening;
24. Be grateful to your mother for her words and deeds;
25. Appreciate the mother's approval;
26. Appreciate mother's generosity;
27. Be grateful for your self-discipline;
28. Appreciate your persistence;
29. Be grateful for your self-discipline;
30. Appreciate your physical support;
3 1, grateful subconscious reminder;
32. Grateful umbrellas help you keep out the sun and rain;
33. Grateful husband, who has been paying for his family for 20 years;
34. Appreciate her husband's tolerance;
35. A grateful husband takes care of his son;
36. I am grateful to my husband for reminding me to pay the electricity bill;
37. Grateful power supply system brings us light;
38. Be grateful that the sun shines on the earth;
39. Thanksgiving sunshine nourishes everything;
40. I am grateful to my son for letting me grow up;
4 1, grateful for the thoughtful service of the hotel;
42. Thanksgiving shoes give me support;
43. Grateful clothes make you more beautiful;
44. I thank my mother for giving me a sense of security;
45. I am grateful to my mother for taking care of my grandmother for many years;
46. Appreciate your mother's generosity;
47. Be grateful for the mother's filial piety;
48. Thanksgiving mother's responsibility;
49. Appreciate the mother's tolerance;
50. Thanks to Yonghong for leading into Wu Na's classroom, he Cheng Juai;
5 1, thank you for reading and learning to bring you wisdom;
52. Thanks to Teacher Li for establishing a learning platform;
53. Thanksgiving Hotel has full breakfast service;
54. Grateful teacher WeChat praise;
55. Thanks to Teacher Ma Longfei for opening my sensory system.
56. Thanksgiving bed lets me have a good rest and recover my strength;
57. Grateful air conditioning gives me coolness;
58. Be grateful to farmers for planting crops;
59. The fruit of gratitude nourishes oneself;
60. Be grateful for your hard work;
6 1, thanks for reminding me;
62. Thanks to the Internet for providing me with quick services;
63. Grateful charger gives me strength;
64. Thanksgiving mobile phone is convenient for me to connect;
65. Thanksgiving TV brings the world to reality;
66. Grateful rain brings coolness to the world;
67. Grateful trees bring shade;
68. Grateful Dandan chose himself as a supporter;
69. Appreciate Yonghong's support;
70. The case of gratitude made me begin to accept my fate;
7 1, thanks to teacher Zhang for his patient and meticulous guidance;
72. Appreciate the trust of friends;
73. Thanksgiving books give us strength;
74. Thank the landlord for lending me the clothes rack;
75. I thank the hotel owner for the promotion;
76. Appreciate the praise given by fellow practitioners;
77. Grateful learning brings you wisdom;
78. Thanksgiving desk triggers your own thoughts;
79. Appreciate your parents' understanding and love;
80. Be grateful to your former colleagues for accompanying you;
8 1, grateful for world peace * * *;
82. I thank my father for giving me strength;
83. I thank my father for his excellent qualities.
84. Grateful feet give yourself strength;
85. Grateful eyes satisfy yourself for a while;
86. Give yourself hot water with a grateful kettle;
87. Appreciate the trust given by Tang Qiu;
88. I am grateful to Yan' an for truly reflecting my own problems;
89. I am grateful to my son for teaching me consideration and respect;
90. Grateful Dandan chose to be his representative;
9 1, gratitude method makes society orderly;
92. Appreciate the support of friends;
93. Appreciate the comfort provided by the train;
94. Thank taxi drivers for their services;
95. Be grateful that you are always aware of it;
96. Appreciate her husband's silent support;
97. Appreciate the teacher's teaching;
98. Be grateful for the prosperity of the motherland;
99. Be grateful for world peace and friendship;
100, thank you for your spiritual wealth. ...