First of all, you are not really in a bad mood, you are just looking for a sense of existence. I want to see how many people will care about you and comfort you. However, you overestimate human nature and your position in the eyes of others. Everyone is very busy, and no one will pay attention to a person who is full of negative energy and moans without illness.
Secondly, a person is really in a bad mood, and he won't go to a circle of friends to complain. At most, he just wants to find a good friend to chat and sit down. More is a person quietly shut at home, don't want to influence others.
Finally, there are many people in the circle of friends, including relatives, friends, colleagues, partners and unimportant people. People who care about you will call you the first time, and people who don't care about you will think you are hypocritical. If you send it frequently, it will hack you for a long time, which is normal.
In the adult world, nobody is easy. Each has its own helplessness, and each has its own sadness. Many times, I can only make my own eaves and close the door to heal slowly. Don't overestimate human nature, let alone yourself. Your unhappiness has nothing to do with others, and no one has the obligation to care about and comfort you. Share more happiness with friends and slowly digest the bitter water by yourself. Good luck!
For example, if you walk on an endless urban road, people will come and go, and people who want to pay attention to you may not see you. People who see you may not know you, people who know you may not say hello to you, and people who say hello to you may not see you. The same is true in such a large flow of information world.
Friends circle is a strange circle.
When you have something happy to announce in a circle of friends, no one responds;
When in a bad mood, it is revealed in a circle of friends, and no one responds;
You print photos and works, and no one responds;
Asking for help in a circle of friends still hasn't responded.
What is the reason?
Start with yourself: whether you are enthusiastic and active in your circle of friends and whether you are kind to other people's information. Generally speaking, if you don't reciprocate, he won't reciprocate.
Look at the circle of friends: a circle can be an enthusiastic servant, and those who often appear and speak are elites in the circle, supporting the existence and activity of the circle.
And most people: just look and don't talk; No profit, no words; I don't want to talk, sometimes I don't even bother to stretch my fingers. And get used to it and feel at ease.
However, when you meet a red envelope in the group or need to reach out to help, you will suddenly emerge from the deep water, one bubble after another, and then dive to the bottom.
I'm in a bad mood, and another reason why no one returns my message is that my circle of friends is too messy and complicated. You join, I join, but actually there are no friends in the circle of friends.
Since there are no friends in the circle, you are talking to yourself when you shout at the circle. Who will ignore you?
Therefore, don't enter the circle of friends, go in and be friends, be enthusiastic and active, and interact enthusiastically.
Otherwise, it is better to set up a circle at home, divide the land into a prison, be aware of the changes in temperature and enjoy yourself.
Because others think you are sending negative energy, others may not like to watch it. People who are not familiar with you comfort you because your good or bad has nothing to do with others. People who know you are afraid to comfort you instead of comforting you. What should you do if you ask someone for help? Just keep silent!
If you complain about your bad mood every day for a long time, others will become accustomed to it and become indifferent. If you are in a bad mood in the future, just go out for a walk by yourself. Don't tell anyone, because others may be in a bad mood, so they can't comfort you You should do your own things on your own, including curing your bad mood.
Because I have complained for a while, and I often express my depressed mood in my circle of friends. At first, my relatives and friends asked what was wrong, and they all came to comfort me and persuade me. But after a long time, when I found myself complaining, others pretended not to see it.
Once, a close friend said to me, let's go out to play because she was in a bad mood. We talked a lot that day, but I still remember what she said, that is, it is not suitable to bring her negative energy to others. Since then, apart from flowers and plants, I have never sent any emotional questions in my circle of friends.
Glad to answer your question! You sent a message in a bad mood in a circle of friends. You think all your close friends don't respond, including your close partner, and they don't come to comfort you. But to ask and comfort friends who you think are normal. I think there are three aspects to this problem.
1. Maybe you think your close friend is busy and didn't see the message you sent in the circle of friends, so you didn't comfort you. And you think that friends with ordinary relationships may not be busy at work, surf the Internet every day, and see the information you sent in the circle of friends, so I asked and comforted you.
Everyone has something to do. You think close friends may be very active, busy with work or housework, unable to get away, have no time to surf the internet, and have not seen the messages you sent in your circle of friends. You think it's normal for ordinary friends to go online every day, see your messages in the circle of friends, ask you and comfort you.
2. Maybe your cognition is limited. Many people know the philosophy of "a friend in need is a friend indeed". I don't know if you know this. "A friend in need is a friend indeed" is the standard for making and knowing friends.
A friend in need is a friend indeed. Now you are poor and in a bad mood. A friend who can ask you and comfort you is the friend who really reassures you, and the friend you should make. And those friends you think are very good or close to are warm to you when you are in the scenery, and avoid you when you are down and out in a bad mood. Such friends should not be made.
3. Maybe you are in a bad mood, and the information sent in your circle of friends is a bit vulgar, and you tend to seek emotional stimulation or vent. You think that good friends can't comfort you at will in order to maintain the relationship between husband and wife and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. And you think your average friend is either married or looking for the other half in love, so I ask you and comfort you.
I hope my answer can help you, and I hope your mood will get better as soon as possible!
Friends circle is a place to spread positive energy, not a place to put negative energy outside! If you put your bad mood in your circle of friends, you put negative energy outside. Nobody likes it. There are also some people whose work and life are not satisfactory. I think it's all hacked first and then deleted. Such people are very annoying! Everyone hates people with negative energy! Of course, it is not good to be too ostentatious in the circle of friends, and it is easy to make people envy and hate, just like I travel a lot, and now I rarely send friends!
Because everyone likes optimistic and sunny friends.
The circle of friends is an information platform, which can exchange and transmit information, enrich people's lives and enhance their feelings.
Sending your own things in a circle of friends, basking in happiness, basking in happiness, and basking in tears, is not something everyone in the circle can see. Some people visit their circle of friends only once every three to five days. Everyone is busy with his life, his livelihood, his job and more important things. There are very few people who really wander around the circle of friends every day. These network elites may be just a few people in your circle.
Why don't you reply to messages sent by others in your circle of friends? I guess there are only a few reasons.
First, each has his own life and problems. If you have unhappy things, others will have them, which is not surprising, so I don't want to say more. Talking too much is tears.
Second, there are not many people wandering around in the circle of friends, just a few people. They may not be your close friends. They know you're in a bad mood, but they don't want to say anything. They may not know what to say before you like to listen, because they don't know why you are in a bad mood.
Third, people have self-knowledge. Your weight and position in other people's minds determine how much others value you. You think others are important, but others may not keep you in mind.
Fourth, birds of a feather flock together. Enthusiastic people, his circle will be more enthusiastic people, indifferent people, his circle will be more indifferent people. What kind of person are you usually? It is worth reflecting.
Let me talk about my humble opinion. About this, you are in a bad mood and others in your circle of friends ignore you. I think it's normal, because you send a circle of friends, just hoping that someone will comfort you and care about you, and no one will respond. Obviously! In addition, because everyone is running for life every day and is exhausted, once they have time, they may want to watch entertainment programs that can relax themselves, and your bad mood will only make them feel heavy, so it is not bad to turn a blind eye. So I suggest not to send such a circle of friends again. Why not adjust yourself? For example, choose a light music that suits you, slowly adjust your mentality and relax yourself in soothing music; You can also exercise, which will decompress your mood after sweating; You can also keep a diary, speak your mind, cheer yourself up and suffer. These are all effective ways to adjust your mentality. Many times, don't pin your hopes on others, maybe the more disappointed you are.
There is a good saying: don't take yourself too seriously, because you may not be that important in others' hearts.
Many times, we think too much about ourselves and feel as if the whole world can't live without me, but it may not be.
Besides the current circle of friends, in fact, I basically don't even look at it, and I don't know what the other party sent, and there are not many sincere friends. Everyone wore masks and walked all the way. In the circle of friends, it used to be praise, but now it is bargaining. I don't care about them at all. Adults don't want to make money, they want that disgusting person who cries all day. Your home is so messy that you have no time to comfort you. Besides, how many people really comfort you?
Because others think you are sending negative energy, others may not like to watch it. People who are not familiar with you comfort you because your good or bad has nothing to do with others. People who know you are afraid to comfort you instead of comforting you. What should you do if you ask someone for help? Just keep silent!
If you complain about your bad mood every day for a long time, others will become accustomed to it and become indifferent. If you are in a bad mood in the future, just go out for a walk by yourself. Don't tell anyone, because others may be in a bad mood, so they can't comfort you You should do your own things on your own, including curing your bad mood.
Because I have complained for a while, and I often express my depressed mood in my circle of friends. At first, my relatives and friends asked me what was wrong, and they all came to comfort me and persuade me, but after a long time, when I found out that I was complaining, others pretended not to see it.
You usually don't pay much attention to your circle of friends, and you don't comfort others when they are sad or sad. Now you are in a bad mood. Isn't it funny to expect attention?
Everyone is busy with their own affairs, and I don't find you in a bad mood. (Like me, I don't usually look at my circle of friends. I don't know about many interesting friends. )
These are my thoughts, and I hope I can help you.
I tell the truth, so don't blame me for making suggestions at the most unpleasant time. You sent a message in a bad mood, and neither your close friend nor your husband replied to you. That's because they all know it's useless to respond to you, and you still love. Friends with ordinary relationships come to ask for comfort because they don't know you well enough to understand how an adult can send such a message. When they know, even if you send the message that you want to jump off a building a hundred times, no one will pay attention to you again.