And some older women often have their own principles. Some women are really single by their own strength. They all have one thing in common, that is, they long for love and the person who breaks their heart. They don't want to make do with marriage and they don't want to be appointed. Some even think that if married life is not as good as single life, not getting married is the right choice.
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My best friend Qian Qian asked me out for a long chat. Although Qian Qian is 38 years old, she is still unmarried. Although I am three years younger than her, I have the same outlook on life as her. If I don't get married, I will definitely live a better life than I do now. Qian Qian told me that marriage is on the road to another life, and this road will be better than the original one. If it is more difficult than before, there is no need to go on. Might as well go the same way.
Actually, Qian Qian didn't want to get married before, because she didn't want to get married. As far as Qian Qian is concerned, she has a good life alone. The reason why she wants to get married is because her parents are pushing her very hard. After all, she is 38 years old, and if she doesn't find someone to marry, she will soon be 40 years old, so Qian Qian's parents insisted that she try a blind date, so Qian Qian listened to her parents and went on a blind date.
Just because Qian Qian went on a blind date doesn't mean she broke her principles. Qian Qian still sticks to his ideas. If she is better off after marriage than she is now, she will choose to get married and join hands with that man and son to grow old together.
In fact, before she went on a blind date, she heard the introducer say that this man is particularly good, has a good job and looks passable. On the whole, he is still a very good person. When Qian Qian went to the scene, she found that the introducer was just putting in a good word for the man. Qian Qian felt that although he was really an introducer, he was too different from what the introducer said.
In fact, Qian Qian's financial capacity is still quite strong. After all, she has worked hard outside for so many years, and she has a car, a house and a deposit, but she has never been particularly low-key, so she never mentioned her situation when dating a man. She just chatted with the man about her life and work.
However, the whole conversation between the two people made Qian Qian feel particularly disappointed, because the man gave her the impression that she was very low-end, and their three views were completely inconsistent. That man's concept is particularly conservative, his emotional intelligence is particularly low, and he has no ability, let alone his family background.
Qian Qian felt that if he disguised himself, he could still see the traces, but after talking with him for half an hour, Qian Qian felt that his situation was obviously the same as that in his circle of friends. He is an ordinary poor man with no ambition and no trace of housework.
For Qian Qian, marrying such a man is definitely not as good as living alone now, especially after marrying her, a man offered to rent a house. Qian Qian felt that her married life must be very sad. She not only has to work hard to make money outside, but also serves men at home. So this person is not what Qian Qian wants at all.
Because this man didn't meet the requirements of Qian Qian, Qian Qian showed his attitude to him on the spot. Qian Qian directly said, "I'm sorry, I don't think we are suitable. I wish you can find your other half. "
However, when the man heard Qian Qian's words, he stopped Qian Qian from leaving and said to Qian Qian, "Hey, don't pick it again. An older woman like you is 38 years old and almost 40 years old. She is only worthy of marrying a poor man like us. "
Qian Qian was particularly unhappy when he heard it on the spot. This is the first time she has lost her temper in public. Qian Qian yelled at him: "I just don't think the two of us are suitable, and I didn't expect to have any negative comments on you, but now you say this sentence, which makes me very angry. Let me tell you straight away. It is really ridiculous for me to get married and rent a house. "
"In fact, it is interesting that you are right, not me. Although I am about your age, I am older than you. In every way, I have an advantage over an older woman like you. You know, the older a woman is, the more valuable a man is. An older woman like you only deserves to marry a poor man like me. If you persist in your opinion, you will regret it sooner or later.
At that time, the man kept pulling Qian Qian and wouldn't let her go. At that time, Qian Qian didn't want to say anything to him, but said to him, "I can't afford to provoke people like you, can't I afford to hide?" If you don't let me go, I'll call the police directly. "
The man heard Qian Qian shouting at him, and everyone around him was watching them, so the man was willing to let her go. After returning, Qian Qian directly hacked all the contact information of the man and deleted WeChat. Qian Qian doesn't want such a person to stay in her circle of friends, and she doesn't allow herself to be frightened by this stupid man's alarmism.
For Qian Qian, whether she has a good life depends on herself, but what others say is not. After such a blind date in Qian Qian, she lost her desire for marriage. Qian Qian suddenly felt that she didn't need to take the road of marriage. She thinks that instead of wasting time on blind date with the wrong person, she might as well enjoy a happy time and wait for her unexpected meeting.
In fact, I knew from the beginning that an inappropriate marriage should be abandoned as soon as possible. Although some older women are conceited, compared with men, this man's lack of self-knowledge shows that his emotional intelligence is particularly low. Instead of marrying such a man for life, it is better not to choose this road from the beginning and continue on your own single road.
Older single women like Qian Qian have enough strength to live a good life. Such women are actually the most admired, and they don't want to have a successful marriage. It's about living in the present and living the life you want. If marriage sees future unhappiness from the beginning, then there is no need to start such a marriage.