Yulin area in Shaanxi Province is not as famous as Yan 'an and xi 'an, but it is also known by many people. People in Yulin area have been working hard over the years, building their hometown and creating their own beautiful life. Now Yulin people live a well-off life. The customs in Yulin area are very distinctive, so what are the wedding customs in Yulin?
One: Although it is a new society now, Yulin people are mostly introduced by matchmakers. The matchmakers here are rarely professional matchmakers, but more relatives and friends, so there are fewer unfortunate marriages. When the man goes to the woman's house to propose marriage, the matchmaker should tell the woman the real situation of the man, and the woman should entrust relatives and friends to inquire about the specific situation of the man, and then inform the matchmaker to inform the man of the result.
Two: engagement. If both men and women agree, the next step is engagement. Generally, the man gives the woman four colors for engagement, including tobacco and wine patties, as well as jewelry, cloth, food, clothes and bride price. If the woman says, she should give the man shoes, hats or clothes.
Three: Marriage, marriage and wedding are all greeted by 1-2 people, including several men, but pay attention to the singular. At the same time, we should also bring cakes, big steamed buns, clothes and accessories of the bride's sedan chair, sedan chair or donkey and suona drum band to the bride's house to meet. The bride's family should prepare a banquet to entertain relatives and friends, and then the woman will invite 3-5 women and 7-8 men from her relatives to form a farewell party and take the bride to her husband's house with dowry. The bride should wear a red scarf when sitting in a sedan chair or donkey. Before entering the bridal chamber, the bride should give each other a meeting gift, which can be bracelets, rings, earrings, underwear, Chinese-style chest covering and so on.
Of course, the above introduction to Yulin's marriage customs is not very comprehensive. You can also learn more from local elders. If there is no elder to ask, you can also consult a professional dating network.