First, from the consumption level, staying in a hotel is affordable.
Compared with before, the national economy has developed and everyone's income level has improved. It doesn't cost much to stay in a hotel once, and most families can afford it. You can stay in a hotel and enjoy it once in a while.
Second, in terms of living habits, staying in a hotel is free.
Everyone has everyone's living habits, and even the living habits of each family member are different. If you live in a relative's house, your living habits are definitely different from those of the relatives' family. If you just sit down and chat and have a meal, you can accommodate each other's living habits.
If you live in a relative's house, your habits, including personal privacy, such as washing and dressing, sitting and sleeping, may not adapt to the new environment, and you will feel bound and unnatural. Maybe I'm worried about my personal habits such as watching TV, snoring, going to the toilet and making phone calls. It will bring inconvenience to relatives, and it is very uncomfortable to sleep when doing things, so some people can't sleep well. If you stay in a hotel, you don't have to worry about these living habits. After all, the hotel belongs to your own private space for the time being. Do whatever you want, just get used to it, and don't think too much about other people's feelings. It's free, without too many restrictions.
Third, it is convenient to stay in a hotel when disturbing others.
Living in a relative's house, although others don't bother, it is actually very annoying. It may not disturb some relatives, but it may disturb others, especially those who want to make room for you or share a room with you. For these disturbed people, they don't want you to live there, but out of courtesy and the enthusiasm of other family members, they are embarrassed to say so. Especially the next day, they have to greet you and take care of your breakfast. For those relatives who want to sleep late, that may be a problem.
In fact, staying in a hotel is not to trouble relatives. It is convenient for people and themselves, and beneficial to themselves and their loved ones. If the two sides have a good relationship, talk for a long time, even until midnight, but it is best to stay in a hotel. In this way, the next day, when you want to get up, you can get up and have breakfast when you want, which is free and you don't have to worry about causing trouble to your relatives. It is a win-win choice.
The above is my personal opinion. If there is anything wrong, please criticize and correct me.
I'd rather stay in a hotel than a relative's house. It's true. It makes sense. Living with relatives seems to save some money, but it's not. It's called the price of tofu dishes into meat. If you live with a relative, you must get it right, or you will be rejected. Look at his face. Staying in a hotel is different. Although it costs a little more money, it can be relaxed and free. If the hotel service is not good, you can also make comments. Therefore, I never live with my relatives on business trips.
I agree that people's living standards have improved now, and everyone has the money to stay in hotels conveniently and freely, which is also the direction of current social development. In the early years, the family was not rich and the relatives were very close. Now is the era of personal struggle! [Goodbye]
I totally agree with this view.
You don't need to stay with your relatives for business trip, training and study. When traveling, I don't live with my relatives, which is basically the case. If you live in other people's homes, disturbing their life order and causing them trouble, you will feel uneasy.
I'm also very restrained, and I'd rather stay in a hotel freely.
Some people say that "I would rather stay in a hotel than a relative's house". Do you agree with this sentence? Why?
In the city, few people live in relatives' homes, whether they are on business or traveling, because everyone knows that the pace of life in the city is relatively fast, and everyone has their own jobs and has no time to take care of distant guests.
You can't sacrifice the interests of others for saving money and convenience, so most people choose to stay in hotels, trying not to disturb their relatives and friends and not affect their normal lives.
If you need to meet and reunite, use their rest time to invite everyone to the hotel for dinner and chat.
I went to Beijing to watch the military parade without saying hello to my sister's house in Beijing. When I checked into the hotel of the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television, I informed my sister when the three of them had time to come over and invited them to have a potluck.
Families nowadays are more particular than each other. Many families only have one bathroom, and the toilet is still intelligent. Everyone lives together. Think about how inconvenient it is. You know people don't like you and don't hate you.
I have a friend. The old couple went to their daughter's house for a meal and went to the toilet. After they left, her daughter disinfected the bathroom. Who dares to enter such a picky family? ? Don't talk about relatives and friends, parents will never go to their daughter's house again, let alone outsiders.
"I'd rather stay in a hotel than a relative's house." I agree with both hands!
Absolutely agree!
Last May, my husband's fourth uncle celebrated his eightieth birthday. His cousin sent an invitation message in the family group, saying that the old father would celebrate his eightieth birthday and invited relatives and friends to celebrate his birthday. My cousins haven't seen each other for a long time, so we can take this opportunity to get together and catch up.
The separation of father-in-law, brothers and sisters is also caused by the past times. My elder sister-in-law fled to Shaanxi, my second aunt went to Anhui, my third uncle went to Zhumadian, and my second uncle's eldest son followed his third uncle to Zhumadian and became a son-in-law. Six brothers and sisters live in four places. Aunt and second aunt occasionally went back to their parents' home when they were alive. Later, when I was old, I didn't go back to my parents' house. Later, my father-in-law died, and several cousins went there and never came back. By that time last year, we had not seen each other for six years. That year, my husband formed a family group, and all the relatives of his father-in-law's family were included in the group. From then on, it is convenient to chat in the group.
On his uncle's birthday, people got together very well, and everyone who should come came. The two aunts are far away, and there is a representative at home, a big cousin and a second cousin.
The birthday party that day was particularly lively, and cousins who had not seen each other for several years met with great enthusiasm.
Henan people are famous for their hospitality and love to drink, not to mention relatives from afar. That's even more enthusiastic. You can't help but stop drinking when the wine glass can reach the guests' mouths. My husband didn't drink before. He belongs to the kind of person who gets drunk when he touches wine. That day, because he was happy, he began to feel dizzy and could not find the east, west, north and south. He is dizzy and quite clear-headed. He began to invite two cousins to our house. He said, "These two cousins haven't come back for a long time. Tomorrow I will drive, take them to Kaifeng for a long time, stay in my house for two days and visit Zhengzhou. After all, I will drive them to Shaolin Temple to see how we have known each other for many years. Let's talk about it. " Oh, my God! What I said was sincere and moved my big cousin to tears. I can't say anything when I'm in a hurry I can only look at my husband's mouth and let him talk nonsense. I have to go along with my husband from time to time and invite them to my house if I don't want to. In fact, my heart is going to explode.
At the sincere invitation of her husband, the two cousins went to Kaifeng's sister-in-law's house with us and her sister-in-law the next day, and spent the night at my house after playing for a day.
It was very late when I got home. I do have a room at home. My son didn't come home at school at ordinary times. Beds and quilts are ready-made. After I made their beds, I said hello to them and went to bed.
I have a question. Whether a stranger comes to my house or I go to a strange place, I can't sleep and concentrate. I've been listening to 12 in the living room, and it's really sleepy to listen to them chatting. I sent a message to my husband, saying that it's almost time for them to go to bed.
Sleeping is not difficult. Fell asleep and didn't know anything. Going to the toilet is a big problem. Awkward.
I get up early and have the habit of squatting in the toilet. The next morning, I squatted in the toilet and heard someone twist the door handle of the bathroom, and then I left. I didn't dare to squat any longer, so I hurried out. My second cousin then went into the bathroom.
Many people have too much trouble cooking. After washing, I cooked porridge and went to the door to buy a bag of steamed bread and some fried dough sticks. There are ready-made dishes at home and two cold dishes are mixed. This meal is available, and my husband took them out after dinner.
At noon, I sent a message to my husband, saying, "Why not let them stay in a hotel outside?" It doesn't seem too expensive. It is really inconvenient to stay at home. It's troublesome to go to the toilet. Come back after dinner at night. I don't know how to cook Buying food is not cheap. It is too stingy to do too much. "
My husband replied, "That won't do. If you don't let guests live outside, people will say that you don't like them. Obviously, you don't want them to stay here longer. Besides, if you are at home, how can you eat out? It's good to eat and talk at home. Just buy some cooked food and fry two or three hot dishes. No trouble. Big cousin loves to drink.
They stayed at home for three days and nights and then left. Those three days and nights were not easy. One year is not an exaggeration to describe it.
I quite agree with this sentence.
I traveled to Xi some time ago. I have a cousin in Xi 'an who offered to let me stay at her house. I refused and went out to find a business hotel to stay.
Can you live? Of course, there is a vacant room in her three-bedroom apartment, so she can live without "crowding", but why live there?
First, after all, not all the closest relatives are guests. Cohabitation will inevitably make both sides stiff. Cousin also has to worry about whether I have enough quilts at night, what I need to eat the next day, what I need to eat at night, and what activities I arrange at night will actually bring a lot of inconvenience to each other's lives.
Secondly, people could have had some dinner, sat on the sofa and watched TV to coax their children, took a shower and slept when they were sleepy, got up whenever they wanted when they didn't go to work in the morning, and didn't eat breakfast if they wanted to. And if there is one more me, everything may change.
Another reason is that my cousin is a relative, but her husband, when he sees me at most, calls me brother. I should. I don't even know how to say hello when I meet him for the first time, because I don't quite know his name. I'm staying at my cousin's house for one night. My cousin doesn't care. Her husband can't care.
Also, you will be shy when you live alone. When do I go to bed at night? What should I do if I want to play games after dinner? How about taking a bath? I like being at home with bare arms. What should I do? What should I do if I snore during sleep? What about using other people's sheets and bedding? I like getting up early in the morning. What if they don't get up? What if going to the bathroom happens to conflict?
The most important thing is that I don't care about staying in a business hotel for more than one day 100. Why should I put myself in a possible embarrassment? I can rent a hotel, order takeout, make noodles or make a string, squat for half a day, take a carefree hot bath, and lie in bed watching TV with bare arms until I wake up naturally. I suddenly woke up in the middle of the night and found that the TV light was not turned off, and then went back to sleep. I can snore whenever I like, get up in the morning and go out to eat fried dough sticks and drink a bowl of tofu brain, and then plan my new day's itinerary. How comfortable.
I used to be a person who liked to stay with others. Although I don't like staying in other people's homes, I especially like letting others stay in my home. In fact, this is a problem that needs to be corrected. Forcing people to stay will actually embarrass them. The best way is politeness. If the other party wants to stay, they can stay. If the other party doesn't want to, you can book a hotel directly online or call the other party. Just because of one thing, I left the phone number of the apartment in front of our community at home.
I have a very good American friend, close to 10 years of friendship. Once I invited him to my house to play. It was too late and it was raining. I wanted to leave him here. Americans seem to have never been modest and polite in China, so they immediately agreed. I made him a bed and put him to sleep.
As we all know, Europeans and Americans have a strong smell, but I used to smell it only when I was in contact with these people, and they were all covered up with perfume. Never thought, I only slept for one night, and the smell, sheets, pillows, quilts and a pillow, whether dry or washed, were of little use. I didn't want to wash any more, so I threw it away. Since then, I have changed the habit of sometimes forcing others to stay, after all.
I quite agree with the sentence "I would rather stay in a hotel than a relative's house", because living in a relative's house is not free and inconvenient for each other, and each of them lacks their own space.
After staying for a few nights and leaving, relatives have to wash and change quilts and sheets, which brings a lot of unnecessary trouble to relatives.
After staying in the hotel, it can greatly reduce the troubles of relatives, and it is free and convenient to come and go, which is good for both sides and good for both sides.
I totally agree.
Especially when traveling, going to relatives' homes has its own living habits. If you go by yourself, others will arrange to check in, so you have to prepare a bed and change into clean bedding. I have to prepare food. It's too much trouble to clean up after I leave. Myself, it's always possible to go to a relative's house empty-handed, right? Gifts, children's red envelopes must always be given!
My idea is to pay a courtesy visit to my relatives' city and invite everyone to have dinner together. During the dinner, you can consult the scenic spots and routes you want to play, then stay in the hotel and arrange your own travel itinerary. This not only connects the feelings between relatives, but also does not bring trouble to others.
I quite agree with this sentence! Because I have been doing this for decades. Unless staying in a hotel is too late that day, or there is no hotel around, another is that relatives have important things to stay at home.
If you stay with relatives, it will only be one or two nights at most. In today's society, the pace of life is too fast, people are busy, and home is a "relaxing" harbor for the family. If you live in a relative's house for a long time, it will affect the life of the relative's house and increase the burden of the relative's house, which is inconvenient for yourself and others.
Tell a true story. 1978 I was still studying in the provincial capital. Because I will graduate in the second year, I am curious about Shanghai, a metropolis, and I plan to go to Shanghai by boat before the winter vacation.
I have a very good friend, surnamed Chen, an educated youth in Shanghai, who was sent to our hometown. After three or four years, I have been with him. I am not a brother, but a relative. At this time, he happened to be visiting relatives in Shanghai. I didn't know the news that I was going to Shanghai from there, so I kindly invited him to his house to play.
None of us were rich at that time, not to mention I was a student. Before I went to his house, I brought 5 Jin of dried peanuts and exchanged them for 10 Jin food stamps at the farmer's market as a gift. I can't go empty-handed. I remember being at his house at noon that day. Their house was very lively. My aunt cooked me a good dish, which made me feel very sorry. After dinner, my friend asked me to stay at his house for a few days, and he took me to Shanghai to play.
After dinner, I left my friend's house on the pretext of finding someone, and called him from a public phone booth to say goodbye, but my friend insisted on staying.
At that time, the housing area in Shanghai was very small. I was afraid that living on others would affect my life, so I politely declined my friend's friendship. I stayed alone in Shanghai for two days and then went home (staying in a very cheap hotel). Because of this, my friend also had a misunderstanding with me, thinking that I left because of poor hospitality or contempt for his family.
Decades have passed. Really, I've been like this all my life. I have nothing to hate. I'm not easily annoying. A leopard cannot change his spots ... all my friends are laughing!