In the face of baby education, communication between two generations is very important. When you encounter educational differences, you must first calm yourself down. Think more from the standpoint of the ancestors, seize the opportunity and pay attention to your tone. At the beginning of communication, young parents should try to express their gratitude and concern for the elderly first, and then slowly cut to the chase. Try to present more facts about experts and doctors, which will get twice the result with half the effort. In terms of educational standards, the concepts of the two generations should complement each other, learn from each other's strengths and find a balance point, which is more conducive to children's education.
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2. The husband should be the "supervisor"
The most difficult question in the world is, "Your mother and I fell into the water at the same time, and neither of us can swim. Who are you going to save? "
Therefore, when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in conflict, there is basically no essential difference between the husband caught in the middle and the roast chicken in the oven.
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In short, there are boiling fires on both sides. What should scientific people do?
First of all, the husband must be a "clear" person and have enough right to speak. In principle, husbands should support their wives' opinions more, and at the same time, when problems arise, husbands should consult their mothers more. Even if there is anything wrong, the mother-in-law will naturally be more tolerant of her husband. After all, mothers always forgive their children, and if your husband is online, he should be able to properly handle the communication problems with his mother-in-law.
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Only the husband can be more considerate of his daughter-in-law and communicate with her mother-in-law calmly, and the women at home will certainly feel this understanding, and the natural family atmosphere will be eased if they are in a good mood. After all, if a wife loves her husband and her mother-in-law loves her children, they will meet halfway and their relationship will be eased.