You don't have to cook, you don't have to wash clothes, you can even make trouble without reason, but once you choose to cheat, it will be an indelible wound in a man's heart. Men are basically zero tolerance and care about cheating on women.
When I came home on National Day, I heard friends and relatives talk about the daughter-in-law of a distant relative who was kicked out of the house by her husband because she was unfaithful to a male client.
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The daughter-in-law of a distant relative, Xiao Ran, is a foreign daughter-in-law. At that time, she and her husband fell in love freely and married in a foreign land not far from Wan Li.
The son of a relative is Xiao Qiang. They were both young when they fell in love. I got married and had children in my twenties, and soon the children became a pair.
Xiao Qiang is ordinary and short. It is such a condition that he "cheated" such a beautiful girl with his golden words.
All the relatives and neighbors are laughing at him. "This boy is really capable of finding such a beautiful daughter-in-law."
Everyone doesn't say anything, but they are all envious. They all think that he is not good enough for his wife. It should be difficult to find a wife under his conditions.
A few years before they got married, they were still in love, their children's in-laws were taking care of them, and Xiao Qiang was very kind to his wife. Like children, they care about their own lives and never worry about their children.
It is said that "marriage is the grave of love, and even the best feelings can hardly stand the test of time."
Slowly, Xiao Qiang no longer liked Xiao Ran as before, and life began to be so dull.
If Xiao Ran can stand loneliness, this marriage may be like the older generation, and two people can join hands to grow old together.
That year, when Xiao Ran went out to do sales, things changed.
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Before, they worked together in other places and didn't make much money. In the past two years, relatives gave them a couple and bought a commercial house by mortgage in the city.
With the increasing pressure to repay the loan, Xiao Qiang decided to go out and learn a technology and learn to drive an excavator. It is said that it is very profitable.
In order to take care of two primary school children, Xiao Ran chose to find an easy job at home.
Soon she found a job in real estate sales. The basic salary is not high, but the commission is good. If she does well, it's much better than doing assembly line work.
Slowly, because of her work, Xiao Ran came into contact with many rich people, which also made her calm heart impetuous.
Xiao Ran has good conditions, fair skin and slim figure, so many male clients often contact her privately and ask her out to play.
At first, Xiao Ran refused on the grounds of helping children with their homework. Later, I thought that when I first arrived at the company, I couldn't stand still.
In this way, she began to learn from other female colleagues and often went out to eat and sing with clients.
Sometimes I stay late with my clients, and my in-laws worry about her, so I call her and ask her to go back early.
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At first, the family thought she was working and socializing, and didn't think anywhere else.
It was not until Xiao Ran went out for many days that her in-laws were in a hurry to ask at her work unit.
Xiao Ran lied to his family about going on a business trip. It turned out that he was traveling with a 40-year-old male client.
Many acquaintances around me also said that Xiao Ran had a good relationship with his male clients for a long time, but his family didn't know it yet.
Because nothing has happened yet, and everyone is not good at gossiping behind their backs, we dare to tell our relatives that something has happened now.
A 40-year-old male client is a small boss with some money in his hand, but he has a wife and children at home, all of whom are in high school.
About half a month later, Xiao Ran came back, and Xiao Qiang hit her hard for the first time.
Relatives said that as long as Xiao Ran corrected her mistake, they would still accept her for the sake of their two children.
She also cried and said, "I was possessed by a ghost for a while, and I won't make such a mistake again."
She is reluctant to have two children. The children of her male clients are so old that it is impossible to marry her just for fun.
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Xiao Qiang insisted on divorce and was severely reprimanded by his relatives. They all advised him that he already had two children, even if it was not good, it was her own mother. It would be nice to find a stepmother.
I can't beat my family. Although I didn't get divorced at that time, Xiao Qiang didn't want to sleep in the same room with Xiao Ran anymore.
He sleeps alone on the sofa. When Xiao Ran talks to him, he ignores her.
Later, to put it simply, as long as Xiao Ran took care of the children at home, he would go out to work and not go home.
For this matter, relatives and couples can be anxious. Although the daughter-in-law did something wrong, they didn't want their son to remarry and marry someone else for the sake of their grandchildren.
After a long time, she couldn't stand her husband's indifference, so Xiao Ran chose to let go.
Xiao Ran left the house in tears. Before leaving, she told her in-laws to take care of their two children. She will come back to see them when she is free.
"I know I have no right to ask Xiao Qiang to be kind to me and accept me now. I made a mistake myself. I understand his feelings and blame me for being confused. I just can't bear to have two children. "
"I regret it now, but what I did wrong can't change this fact. I also hope that he can find better people in the future. "
In my impression, my relatives and daughters-in-law are all cheerful, lively and sensible girls, and everyone can't help but sigh. What a wonderful family, it just broke down.
In life, both men and women will face temptations of one kind or another. If they can't hold it for a while and make a mistake, they can only choose to bear the consequences.
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