If you are defeated, you will lose your family. I met a benefactor because I helped Liu.
Meaning: There is nothing precious about the collapse of a building. Let's not talk about relatives when the family is ruined. Just because I helped grandma Liu, I finally got the help of this noble person.
Qiaojie, the only daughter of Wang Xifeng, is one of the twelve women in A Dream of Red Mansions. She was the daughter of a luxury government, but she was sold to a brothel because of the decline of her family and the injury of her uncle. Thanks to Wang Xifeng's little kindness to Granny Liu, Granny Liu became a great benefactor to help her out of her misery. In the forty-first chapter of this book, Qiaojie and Banel exchanged grapefruit and bergamot, which indicates the future of Qiaojie and Banel.
Grandma Liu's grandson, Banel, is a farmer's child and will also be engaged in agricultural production in the future. Before the verdict, "an abandoned shop, where a beautiful woman was spinning" also implied that Qiaojie's final outcome was to marry Banel and be a hardworking peasant woman.
Appreciate:
"If you are defeated, you can't talk about your family." It is a lament for the coldness of the upper class and the indifference of the world. It's granny Liu, a poor old woman, who is always thinking of flooding in return, making people feel the good side of human nature.
References:
Baidu Encyclopedia-Judgment