Neighbor elder sister is over 50 years old. She often says that she is old. Even if she has a dream, she can't realize it. I don't agree with her.
Fifty years old, life has just begun, because the first half of my life has been given to my career, husband and children. Most women in their fifties are approaching retirement age, and their children have grown up. At this point, they have got rid of the troubles of work and family chores, and the rest of the time will be their own free time. It's time to run your own hobbies and concentrate on what you like.
Some people say that if a person's life is compared to a day, then it is just after noon after 50 years old, that is, half a day has passed, and there is still half a day left in life. Some people say that only 60-year-olds are old and young, so 50-year-olds are still middle-aged and can still work hard for their dreams without losing energy. As long as we have the courage to pursue dreams, dare to pursue dreams and be diligent in interpreting dreams, we will always be young.
In people's impression, everyone is retired, so it's time to enjoy the rest of the time, such as walking, playing mahjong or shopping, looking after grandchildren, or traveling around the world. Of course, this is also a way of life. However, scientific research shows that if the elderly have a goal in life, they will live longer and have lower risk of heart disease and Alzheimer's disease than ordinary people. Many long-lived elderly people have been insisting on their hobbies, such as Zhou Youguang, the "father of Chinese Pinyin", and11still insist on reading newspapers and writing; Jiang Yang, a famous writer, still insisted on writing and publishing books at the age of 105. Grandma Moses, a world-famous custom painter, began to learn painting at the age of 76. Her works have been exhibited in museums all over the world and received rave reviews. Her "Life Never Begins Too Late" said: "In our long and short life, find what we really love to do and stick to it, so that this little support will bring us subtle joy." There are some very old people. For them, age is just a number, and people over 100 can still set a world record.
Elder sister was a unit leader before she retired. After retirement, her life lost its focus, doing nothing all day, and losing the direction and motivation of life. Every day besides eating, sleeping and walking, she just basks in the sun downstairs and is in a daze. Her time is meaningless except killing people. She just has no dreams in her heart. Even if there is, she feels old and unnecessary. This caused her life to become chaotic and boring.
Psychologists suggest that if the elderly want to live a long and healthy life, they should first break their superstition about age, admit that they are not old enough, dare to pursue their dreams, and learn skills when they live to 80 years old to make their old age colorful and icing on the cake. Moderate work can not only eliminate people's loneliness, but also bring people enrichment and joy, activate body cells, increase nutrition, prevent and treat diseases, and maintain childlike innocence. China Gerontology Research: Dreams and goals can delay aging. Living with a purpose will make old people look young. Old people who have dreams in life will feel full, and giving themselves some pressure moderately will make people's mentality more positive, promote immune function, reduce emptiness and loneliness, relieve emotions and reduce the probability of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases. So no matter how old you are, as long as you have a dream in your heart and study hard for it, no matter what the result is, you will always feel healthy and young.
I used to watch TV and go shopping all day when I was free, or go for a walk in the park and play mahjong. Although my life is very happy, I always feel that something is missing and I am bored. Since I met and picked up my dream, I have lived a full and happy life, and I don't complain and regret like I used to. Now my heart is full of positive energy, and I seem to find my own position and realize my own value. If you have a dream in your heart, you should pursue it. No matter what the result is, you only care about the process, enjoy the process of persisting in doing one thing, and have a clear conscience no matter what the result is. Otherwise, come quietly in a hundred years, and go quietly. Isn't it a waste of time to come into this world? Life is only wonderful, not brilliant.
There is an old lady next door who went to learn a driver's license at the age of 58 At first, her classmates laughed at her and said it was useless to learn to drive at her age. The old lady said, "I don't learn to drive, but I am still 58 years old and will be older in the future." I learn to drive and it is convenient to go out. " The students were speechless and admired her youthful spirit. If you like something and stick to it, God will be happy to help you open the door to success, even if you are 90 years old.
People have two ages, one is the actual age and the other is the psychological age. Some people are actually not old, but psychologically precocious; And some people, although old, always have a young heart psychologically. They are positive, willing to accept new things, dare to innovate and keep learning, and they will always feel young.
Life never starts too late. No matter how old you are, as long as you are healthy, you can still pursue your dreams.