How should I answer my daughter's sexual questions?

There is a girl in my family who grew up before she was four years old. My wife said that she likes to lift the quilt at night and catch a cold easily, so she has been sleeping with us. When I was five years old, our family moved to a new house of more than 90 square meters, and my daughter and I finally lived in separate rooms. But before going to bed at night, I always like to come to our room to play the coquetry and refuse to leave for a long time; Sometimes when she sleeps until midnight when it thunders or dreams, she will come to sleep with us in the name of "fear". On one occasion, my wife and I were about to make out when Yue Yue suddenly pushed the door and was killed. Facing the sudden danger, we are embarrassed! Afterwards, the wife said uneasily, "This is a big fool, all because you didn't close the door!" " I don't care: "Don't make a fuss, she is so small, what does she know?" Unexpectedly, one night after that, Yue Yue had to sleep in our bed again. I let her sleep in her room, and she protested: "Dad is so old that he still needs his mother to take care of him. Shame! " Then he said to huali, "just let me sleep here for one night." I just don't watch what you do. I don't know anything when I fall asleep. " What she said really upset my wife and me: did she really pry into our privacy? To this end, my wife greeted me again: as the month grows up day by day, we should be more vigilant about "that aspect" and never let our daughter be "polluted" by vision or consciousness. I don't want to be born with a doll. The clever moon has keen observation and strong curiosity for men and women, which makes us hard to prevent. We have guests at home at the weekend, playing at the mahjong table. Yue Yue was very unhappy, because no one played with her, so she came to spoil the game. If you don't let her fan the flames, she will make a peace agreement: you must tell me what I know. We said, okay, what's wrong? When I tilted my head and thought, the question came out: "Where did I come from?" I quickly replied: "It was born in my mother's stomach. Dad has told Yue Yue several times, right? " Yue Yue is basically satisfied with this answer. Then he asked, "Well ... everyone has a father and a mother. The doll was born from the mother's stomach. What did the evil father do? " ? The wife replied, "Dad put the seeds in his mother's stomach, and when the seeds grew up in her stomach, a little doll was born." After that, I patted Yue Yue on the head: "All right, Yue Yue will go by himself. Mom and dad will play mahjong with their uncles and aunts. " Yue Yue nodded and asked, "Last question, how did the seeds come in?" After drinking, I embarrassed everyone. I want to laugh, but I dare not. In fact, no one can answer this rather difficult question. Suddenly I remembered a famous saying of Ning: A fool's question can't be answered by ten wise people. Dad's Beard During the Spring Festival, his wife invited Xiao Liu, a high school classmate, to be a guest at home. Yue Yue and the beautiful and gentle Xiao Liu became very familiar for a while. At noon, everyone ate and talked. Suddenly, they asked, and Yue Yue asked, "Aunt Liu, why did you pull your father's mouth with your beard? Why don't my mother, me and you grow up? " Xiao Liu smiled and said, "That's because your father is a man and we are all women." "Oh, women don't grow up?" Pondering over the moon is another sentence. "So ... why doesn't dad just grow a beard on his mouth?" This question makes us a little puzzled. I eat a bite of rice every month to reassure adults: "A few nights ago, I woke up and asked about my health, and my father was taking a bath. I seem to see a lot of beards on dad's' sparrow'! " It was really shocking, and the adult department here was very embarrassed at that time. The wife immediately patted Zhang Yueyue: "You little girl, what a fart!" "Yue Yue cried and argued," I didn't fart, so I didn't fart! "Dad's sparrow has a lot of beards. If you don't believe me, let Aunt Liu have a look ... "She made a fool of herself and made me, my wife and Xiao Liu blush. So developed that even the songs taught in kindergarten are full of love. Children's precocious puberty is inevitable, and their thirst for knowledge about sex is very strong. If parents are always secretive in this respect, it seems that it will not work. We should face the reality and seriously consider how to carry out targeted early education for children. " So, a few days later, at an appropriate time, his wife said to Yue Yue, "What you said that day made people shy and grow up slowly. Don't say such embarrassing words again. Asked why every month, his wife said, "Because when people grow up, men and women have different secrets. You shouldn't tell aunt Liu if you peek at dad's secret. " The month seems to understand nodded. Mom's sanitary napkin, but soon the problem came again. One day every month, I dig out some colorful paper bags in my wife's drawer and give them to my wife who is busy in the kitchen. She asked, "Mom, what is this? When his wife saw it, she exclaimed, "Oh, dear! You naughty boy, how did you dig this thing out? Just give it to me. " With that, he went to grab the paper bag in Yue Yue's hand. Looking at her mother's fuss, her curiosity is increasing every month, and her mouth pouts: "I won't give it to you." "You tell me what it is, and I will give it to you." The wife wants to go forward and grab it hard. Every month when the house turns around, her mouth is still very tough: "If you don't give it to you, you won't get it!" " Seeing this, I quickly intervened as a "family peacekeeping force" and said to my wife, "If I ask you every month, you can tell her. No big deal. " The wife told the truth: "This is a sanitary napkin. When she was motivated every month, she immediately asked, "What are sanitary napkins for? "The wife thought it was very troublesome to explain, so she said smoothly," Don't worry about this, you'll know when you grow up. "Come on, give me back the sanitary napkin." Yue Yue's eyes bulged. She hid the sanitary napkin behind her back and said, "It will take me many years to grow up. I need to know now. " "My wife sighed, like a suspect who was interrogated without a gap, and said helplessly," Sanitary napkins are put in girls' underwear to prevent bacteria from getting into their buttocks. "I quickly added," but you need a big girl, and a little girl doesn't need it. " Yue Yue's thirst for knowledge was finally satisfied and the sanitary napkin was returned to her mother. I said to my wife, "Yue Yue is not a reckless child, but just curious. "Don't you think this will be good?" The wife disagreed: "So many things are curious, should we satisfy her right to know?" Be careful that she won't stop with us. " This really makes his wife right. At noon the next day, my wife and I went home after shopping. When I entered the house, I found that I was pouting every month when I walked. As soon as we came back, she hurried to the back room. I asked my wife, "Have you seen Yue Yue anywhere? How to walk a little? " When his wife went to the back room for a monthly check-up, she suddenly felt ridiculous. The little girl is making a fool of herself again: she took a sanitary towel from her mother and put it in her underwear! My wife wanted to take it out for her, but she refused, jumping around and shouting, "I want a mat, I want a mat." I want my ass to be healthy, I want to grow into a big girl at once, and then become a super girl ... "Facing Yue Yue's stubbornness, I winked at my wife and let her go her own way for a while until she made a fool of herself. I said to my wife, "I find that the more you don't let her know what your child is curious about, the more she wants to know." If you tell her frankly, she won't be curious. "The wife sighed:" Alas, many girls in my generation are 17 years old and don't know when. "She is very kind and wants to know everything before she is seven years old." I said, "I'll know sooner or later anyway. Since she has this' thirst for knowledge', we might as well conduct early education according to the situation. " So, in the evening, I chatted with Yue Yue and told her that when girls grow up, they will menstruate and bleed for a few days. In order to avoid blood stains on pants and prevent bacterial infection, sanitary napkins should be used. But when sanitary napkins are used, the little girl is useless, and the kindergarten aunt may be joking when she knows. Finally, I especially told Yue Yue that although girls grew up with sanitary napkins, whether girls grow fast or slow has nothing to do with using sanitary napkins. Yue Yue grinned at this, and her face turned red, which made her look embarrassed. She attached it to my ear and said, "Dad, I don't want to tell the kindergarten teacher about me." After a while, she quietly threw the sanitary napkin into the trash can. This is Yue Yue, my lovely little daughter that day.