I sincerely apologize for my improper response to my fans.
Once, Wilber Pan attended a fan meeting. In the communication session, a fan stood up recklessly and said, "Pan Shuai, I think you sang well, but you danced a little unsightly!" Wilber Pan asked crossly, "really? I think my dance is ok, and my singing is really unbearable. " His "sharp response" put the fans there, causing them to break up in a boring atmosphere. Afterwards, Ji Yiliang, the agent, advised him: "The more people who tell your shortcomings in person, the more likely they are to become your true friends." Wilber Pan suddenly realized that with the help of Ji Yiliang, he found the contact information of his fans, sincerely apologized to each other, and listened carefully to each other's criticism. Later, Wilber Pan said this many times in public: "I hope others can be honest with me, so that we can know each other's real thoughts. It doesn't matter if I sing badly or dance badly. As long as it's not malicious criticism, I'd like to listen to other people's opinions and their views on Wilber Pan. This will make me more aware of who are my real good friends. "
A "superstar" can put down his posture, insist on finding fans to say sorry, and listen to each other's criticism, which makes people admire. Confucius said: it is beneficial for friends to be frank, forgive and learn more. When others point out your shortcomings bluntly, it shows that they have regarded you as a trustworthy friend. For such a good friend, we must sincerely recognize his kind words and deeds and work together to establish a stable and beautiful friendship. Don't be tit for tat and miss such a rare friend.
Make a sincere struggle against your partner's unintentional aphasia.
When Wilber Pan took part in the filmiNG of the idol drama Bad Laughter, he thought acting was just a piece of cake and didn't want a scene to be "ng" many times. On one occasion, he and Rainie Yang filmed face to face. When speaking lines, he always referred to "turtle, pig head" as "kid, pig", which made Rainie Yang complain bitterly. Finally, Rainie Yang couldn't stand it anymore and suddenly shouted at him, "Wilber Pan, why are you so stupid?"? I don't know how you used to be a host. " As soon as the words fell to the ground, Rainie Yang immediately regretted what he had inadvertently said. But what I didn't expect was that Wilber Pan smiled casually and said to everyone, "Rainie Yang is right. If I were you, I would give you a beating! " Wilber Pan's naughty words made Rainie Yang relaxed a lot at once, but she was still vaguely worried that this sentence would make Wilber Pan feel uncomfortable. However, after the TV series was broadcast, Wilber Pan repeatedly said in public: "Rainie Yang helped me a lot in the filming process. Under her guidance, I never acted and gradually entered this industry. I am very grateful to her. " Hear Wilber Pan say so, Rainie Yang felt his original concerns, is the heart of a mean person.
It is embarrassing to be scolded and questioned by others, even if it is unintentional. However, as a "victim", Wilber Pan can think of a "perpetrator" and make up for him without embarrassing him, which has to convince people of his kind personality charm. "Others cast painful eyes, but I smiled back." With such an open gentleman's virtue, your road to communication will surely become wider and wider.
Give a sincere explanation to others' strong criticism of assistants.
It seems that becoming a star means being above others and being different, but the record company was most worried about Wilber Pan: he could not find the "dignity" of a star. Many people in the industry often say that Wilber Pan is a very easygoing person, which has the deepest feelings for his assistant Ji Yanan.
On one occasion, Ji Yanan accompanied Wilber Pan to a TV station to record a program. In the post-holiday catalogue, I saw Wilber Pan coming down from the front desk and heading straight to his rest place. He packed his things in a hurry, came out with his bag, and stood by the car waiting for assistant Ji Yanan to go back together. His unusual behavior stunned others because no one had ever seen an artist waiting for an assistant. At this time, someone walked up to Ji Yanan, who was slowly packing things, and sarcastically said, "Pan Shuaike is waiting for you outside!" " "After hearing this, JiYaNan can't help blushing slightly, hurriedly packed up and went out. In the car, she told Wilber Pan what had just happened. Wilber Pan smiled and comforted her and said, "Nothing, I will explain it to you next time." Sure enough, in the following interview, Wilber Pan said to everyone, "What I can do by myself, I don't want to bother others, even my assistant. Please don't blame Ji Yanan, she is a good assistant. " This sentence greatly touched Ji Yanan and the people next to him.
The highest charm of communication lies in the sincerity of two hearts, not the beating of one heart to the other. When Ji Yanan, his assistant, was accused of incompetence, Wilber Pan didn't strut and accuse the other side, but took the initiative to explain that it was because he didn't ask his assistant to do so. "Being kind to others is being kind to yourself." Wilber Pan's simple communication charm is worth learning from his friends.
Wilber Pan, who has been in the entertainment circle for more than ten years, can be strict with himself and treat others sincerely: true and sincere to fans, partners and assistants, which is really commendable. It is also with the support of these figures that Wilber Pan will go further and further and develop better and better.