What minefields are there to save love?

I think when many people are facing a breakup, their first reaction is to rush to save each other. They couldn't control their emotions and called each other. They don't think about what the other party wants, but they just use their own way to save it. I thought I could feel each other, but I didn't know that this was the most disgusting thing for each other. When I am saving my love, I must not step on these three minefields, otherwise even my friends can't do it.

1 Can't accept the fact of breaking up.

Many people can't control their emotions after breaking up and try to save each other. Do you think you can rely on each other as before, and you can impress each other by repeating your sweet memories? That was not the case. You can't do this at this time. The more so, the more it will make the other party disgusted and even escape. Why? This is the rebellious psychology in people's subconscious. The more you subjectively recognize the problem, the more you will only make the other party feel disgusted when they disagree.

And the fact that you avoid breaking up will only make the other person feel stressed. Let time slowly dilute each other's bad impression of you, and you can also take the opportunity to improve yourself.

Keep making promises to each other and write down "empty promises".

In order to get back together with each other in a short time, many friends will make more promises to each other, such as "I promise it won't happen again, please believe me once", "I really know I was wrong, and I will be nice to you in the future", trying to lie to you that I'm not human, and "I will listen to you in the future" and so on. But are all the vows here really useful? It's no use, because she knows you too well to change.

You may be able to touch others with these words. If a vow can successfully save love, it is impossible to have today. So, seize this time to improve yourself and change yourself.

Let the whole world know about the breakup.

Some friends will take a particularly extreme way to tell everyone about the breakup, and then infinitely exaggerate their kindness to each other and say what happened to others? It's mutual business for two people to break up. If you do this, the other person will feel that it is right to break up with you. Some people even pay attention to each other's families to get back together. However, love is a matter for two people. Don't involve anyone, everything will be solved by yourself.

The above is just a personal opinion.