Many people are full of longing for marriage, but once they walk in, they find that it is not what they imagined. In marriage, one person becomes two people, and after having children, one person can no longer follow his own mood. I have to go to work, do housework, take care of children, take care of the elderly, and occasionally have conflicts with my other half, which will make me feel very tired.
Married life is really complicated. In fact, compared with physical fatigue, the most tiring thing is mental fatigue. Physical fatigue is often adjusted to normal after a period of rest, but mental fatigue is not so easy to recover. Many people have broken their hearts for their marriage life, but they still can't get care. Nobody says hello to you. This is the most tiring time.
Most people in marriage around you will complain that their marriage is very tired. But there are also many people who are happily married. Sometimes happiness is just between your thoughts. If you regard the triviality in marriage as a pleasure in life and the husband who takes care of the children as a kind of dedication and love. Take the wife's nagging as the language of love. At this time, if you look back at marriage, everything seems to have changed.
So the fatigue of marriage is often your own subjective feeling. Just like some people hate work and feel too tired, some people work hard and regard work as a way to realize their dreams. You see, change your mind, what a world of difference?
The essence of marriage is life, and life needs endless hearts and endless things. Aren't these all things we are willing to pay for the people we love?