1, girls who are kind-hearted and soft-hearted and can't bear to refuse introverted personality are often very kind, easy to put themselves in others' shoes, and almost never have the heart to refuse others' demands. Light light blue told me yesterday that she was cheated of another 65,438,000 yuan. I asked her what happened, and she said she had another mobile phone card. Light light blue is a kind-hearted person. Before, she always got a call from online customer service. Every time the customer service recommends an upgrade package, she will choose to upgrade. Afterwards, she regretted it. Just like this time, she has already set up two mobile phone cards and heard from the customer service that she wants to get a card. She said that every time the customer service called, she hesitated, but in the end she would answer, so that her package fee would increase from 38 yuan/month to 128 yuan/month within one year. She said that she was embarrassed to refuse and felt that customer service was not easy! 2, easy to be deceived, credulous introverted girls are easy to believe what others say, they always think others are true, so this is also the main reason for being deceived. Light light blue is often cheated. She spent four years in college and was cheated by the internet five times. The first time was telecom fraud, stealing her identity information and posing as a police fraud. Fortunately, her father found out in time. A few times, I worked part-time online. Seeing the part-time information forwarded by the students in the group, I did not hesitate to implement it. As a result, my living expenses were cheated for a month. Then there is the so-called WeChat business. She saw the "WeChat business" circle of friends telling her true story and felt that "WeChat business" was very reliable. As a result, she was cheated 1000 yuan to buy back 20 bargains. Afterwards, she said that the story of the circle of friends of WeChat business was very touching and true. I didn't expect him to be a liar! 3, cowardice, no opinion, introverted girls are always cowardly, no opinion, always easy to go with the flow, even if unwilling, dare not stick to themselves. When I was in college, we were roommates in a group. From beginning to end, light light blue has never expressed any opinions or suggestions. She always says yes to what others say and asks her to look up the information. She can't decide which one to look for. We spit on her and she was silent. Sometimes I want to say something clearly, but I always flinch and say that I am wrong. 4. Introverted girls who are delicate and afraid of hurting others are always very delicate. She has to plan for a long time before doing something, fearing to influence or hurt others. I don't like to disturb others. I am female, male, light light blue, and I did some shopping after graduation. She is the only little girl in the purchasing department. Every time the goods arrived, she saw that her colleagues were busy and took the initiative to be a porter. The express delivery went from the first floor to the eleventh floor. When she can't hold it, she bends down and pushes it, and never asks others for help. 6, like quiet, introverted girls who like to be alone often like to be alone, have their own space to be themselves, do what they like quietly, and not be disturbed. 7, introverted girls who are easy to be bullied, but dare not fight back, because they look weak, always easy to be bullied, afraid to fight back after being bullied, or even have no heart to fight back. Light light blue once said that when she was in primary school, she was often punched and kicked by two female deskmates. Two deskmates often put small notes on her and even wrote on her desk to scold her. But she never dared to resist. Finally, the teacher found out and asked her if she was often bullied. She has always denied it, and she can't bear to tell the truth, fearing that her deskmate will be punished. In desperation, the teacher can only adjust the seat. 8, passive, cold outside and hot inside, introverted girls sometimes look very cold, people dare not approach, but in fact, the heart is warm. They are just very slow and passive. When you really know her and have been in contact with her for a long time, you will find that they are actually very enthusiastic, and high cold is just their "hypocritical shell." 9. Girls who don't make friends, who are introverted and don't like to make phone calls often rarely make friends, and even refuse to make friends with the increasing number of "friends" in various fields. When chatting, those who can type will never make a sound, and those who can make a sound will never make a phone call. 10, girls who live independently, but are easily moved, tend to be independent in thinking and behavior in life, but they are strong and independent in appearance, but extremely soft in heart and easily moved. Light light blue works far from home, but no matter what the weather is like or how late she gets off work, the boss won't let her father drive her. No matter how much luggage she has, she always drags it by herself. She feels that she has to do her own thing and there is no need to bother others. Watching a very gentle movie or variety show or social news, she is often moved, and her girlfriends always blame her for being "worthless". Characteristics of introverted and weak girls 2 1. Realistic introverts often don't like to participate in exchanges and discussions, not because they don't want to discuss, but because they feel that many exchanges and discussions are meaningless and prefer to think quietly alone. From this perspective, introverts actually have their own unique and profound understanding of many problems, and it is easy to see the essential problems. 2. Contradictory combination An introvert is a contradiction. In unfamiliar situations, you will find that they are quiet and don't like to talk, but when you get familiar with them, you will find that they are also talkative. Psychologists call this kind of personality a naturally sensitive temperament, that is to say, in front of familiar people, you can talk about Kan Kan, but in front of strangers, it seems out of place and the temperature rises slowly. 3. Introverts with strong empathy usually have strong empathy, which means that they are more likely to think from each other's perspective. Of course, it is not that extroverts have no empathy, but that introverts may be more emotional and more aware of other people's emotional changes. So sometimes you will find that when a person is depressed or hit, they are more willing to talk to an introvert because they think introverts will understand them better. 4. It is often unexpected that introverts are the most easily overlooked because they can hardly express themselves, but in fact they may have rich emotions or high talents, but they are generally unwilling to show them. If given the right opportunity, they will show their emotions and talents to the fullest, which is unexpected. This is perhaps the best place for introverts. As the saying goes, "if you don't say it, it will be a blockbuster." Extended data:
False introversion can be said to be relatively high and common among introverts. We may have met such people in our life, who are eloquent in front of people close to us, but when we meet strangers in strange places, we are speechless. On the phone, a student asked us for help: she is a college student, usually quiet, introverted, and has few friends in recent years. She really wants to talk and laugh like other students and have many friends. But I feel uncomfortable, nervous and blushing in front of my classmates. She also said that she really wanted to communicate with others and make friends, but she never had the courage, and she didn't know what to say, what topic to talk about and ask for help. Characteristics of introverted and weak girls 3 If you are an introverted and indecisive girl, it is recommended to engage in these four jobs. 1. Introverted girls are good at observation, like introspection and will seriously consider things. Contrary to extroverts, they will not start doing something without thinking, but will repeatedly consider all kinds of information and finally make a more rational decision. And they are naturally cautious and rigorous, and can concentrate on what they are doing. So the research and development work is very suitable for them. On the one hand, it conforms to their meticulous thinking characteristics. On the other hand, this kind of work generally has a quiet and simple working environment, does not need to socialize, and is not easily disturbed by the outside world. Just like some scientific researchers in colleges and universities and technical R&D personnel in enterprises are often introverted. Secondly, the research on creative work shows that introverts often have high creativity. Especially for women, introverted women have more acute observation ability, are good at capturing the details of life, and further develop association and creation. Moreover, they can think deeply and get inspiration, and have rich imagination and emotional expression ability, which are in line with creative work. Jk Rowling, the author of Harry Potter series, is also a typical introvert. The stories in each of her novels are complicated and creative. She once wrote: "I have been writing since I was six years old, but I have never been so excited." This book is very inspiring. " But I was helpless, because I didn't have a pen at hand, and I was embarrassed to talk to others ... I didn't have a pen at that time, but I thought it might be a good thing. I just sat there thinking for four hours (because the train was late), and all the details popped up in my mind. I imagine a thin black-haired boy with glasses. He didn't know he was a wizard yet, but his image became clearer and clearer in my mind. "It is not difficult to see that Rowling needs to spend a lot of time alone to write stories every day in order to create satisfactory works. This is also suitable for introverts who like quiet personality and can concentrate on thinking about inspiration. Therefore, creative work is very suitable for introverted girls. Third, file management for many introverted girls, file managers or librarians are very suitable. Just sort out some documents or articles and works of art every day. Introverted and quiet girls know how to sum up these things better and have the ability to sum them up in an orderly way. They are serious and responsible, and will check and check repeatedly, so it is completely reliable to give them the work. In addition, most of this kind of work is to sum up things, and at the same time, some time is planned by themselves, which is just in line with girls' quiet living habits. Fourth, consulting or mediation work because introverted girls are better at detecting, whether for themselves or others, they can keenly capture emotional feelings, be able to put themselves in others' shoes, and have higher "* * *" ability. Rogers, a humanistic psychologist, believes that * * * love means being able to experience the inner world of others, which is what introverted girls are good at. At the primary emotional level, such women are good at sharing their own experiences and communicating with others enthusiastically, resulting in an experience of empathy and mutual understanding. In a more advanced relationship, they can start from each other's inner frame of reference and guide each other to make further thinking. Therefore, they are often good listeners and thinkers, suitable for a job that needs care and understanding, such as psychological counselors and teachers.