Why is the marriage unhappy? Some people say that everything in this world, including happiness in marriage, is believed, not disbelieved. This feeling is like some people are born happy and some people are born unhappy. Some people are naturally happy in marriage, while others are naturally unhappy in marriage.
For example, many of my visitors have really found a very good, excellent person they like very much, but they don't believe that they will be happy, so they will do whatever it takes to destroy it, and finally the other person leaves. Because he never believes in happiness, it is your ability to believe that makes you happy, so some people say that people who are not so smart are more likely to be happy, but this has nothing to do with being smart or not. This is related to your own heart. If you believe it, you will open your heart. Why are most talented people unhappy in marriage? Because they often question everything, so that they can't rest assured. Give up your heart.
Don't punish each other with your life After the quarrel, some couples don't cooperate with each other in life, or even shut out. This not only hurts each other's self-esteem, but also hurts the foundation of their relationship. Avoid the history of liquidation. Every time we quarrel, we count each other's past "mistakes" to prove our correctness and each other's mistakes. This is not only not conducive to the solution of the current problem, but also gives the impression that "you don't trust me and don't like me for a long time". There are many harms and no benefits. Don't talk about divorce when there are contradictions, which will not only make people feel threatened by divorce, but also leave a rude impression on the other party. In the long run, it will eventually lead to the breakdown of marriage.