When visitors are willing to completely open their hearts to themselves, many people even choose to see a counselor, but when they describe their situation, they will subconsciously hide something, such as some secrets that they can't tell, and some family matters that they don't want to tell. The main reason why they can't completely open their hearts is their incomplete trust in psychological counselors. They are worried that the counselor will deny and ridicule him like everyone else, or think that even if he speaks out, the counselor can't help them. This makes the counselor a little hurt, but it can only let the visitors slowly unload their guard and express their inner thoughts as much as possible. The more information is disclosed, the more appropriate the judgments and suggestions the counselors can give, and the greater the help they can get. The professional ethics and conduct of psychological counselors is to keep secrets for visitors, and visitors need not worry at all.
When your own psychological counseling can really help visitors, sometimes for some reason, counseling has little effect on visitors. The reason for this situation is that the visitors didn't tell the truth about themselves, they didn't listen to the advice of the counselors, and the level of the counselors was limited. This is still a pity. Psychological counselors hope that their consultation can help the visitor, perhaps to help him open his heart, perhaps to help him provide a new way of thinking and so on. It can make psychological counselors feel a sense of accomplishment.