Marriage is boycotted by family members. Should we stick to it?

I didn't want to answer your question. When I see your name is Tangtang, I think I'd better analyze your situation and give an answer, because my good friends usually call me Tang Tang. This question is not complicated, but what you said is a bit complicated. It is painful to know that two people have never been recognized by their families.

First of all, you should make sure whether your love for him is still firm after so many things, because many times your heart will cool down after encountering many obstacles. If you are not firm, you might as well give up. After all, love without blessing will not be happy. Of course, if you love him firmly, you must stick to it. It will be painful to miss someone you love deeply for life.

Secondly, when you are sure that you are firm, you need to know whether he really loves you. Did he give up others for you before because those people were not good enough, or because he only loved you? This question is also very important. If he doesn't accept the girls introduced by his parents because they are not good enough to attract him, then he is likely to waver one day when his parents introduce him to a girl who is more attractive than you. If you can be sure that he loves you and that you are the best in his mind, then you should stick to it.

What you can do at this time is as follows:

1. Talk to him openly and tell him that you love him very much and you don't want to lose him. You don't want to lose the person you love most because of your parents. Tell him that you should strive for happiness together and make a plan.

Second, do the work of both parents separately, and let him convince his parents that you really love each other; And you can tell your mother that although you haven't been dating for long enough, you have determined that he is the person you want to marry most in your life. I hope your parents will bless you and take the initiative to communicate with his parents. Your parents will show your sincerity by actively communicating with his parents. Of course, you should be neither humble nor supercilious, or you will be looked down upon by the other party. Your mother can say that she refused before because she thought the children were young and had not been in contact for long enough, and wanted them to go everywhere. Now she finds out that your boyfriend is really a good boy and the parents at home are very sensible people, so as to ease the relationship between the two families.

Third, you can always contact his parents and show them your advantages. You really like their son. You are a kind and sensible girl. It depends on what you do. Don't be too proud at this time. After all, it is lifelong happiness.

Fourth, be gentle and considerate to him. His parents put a lot of pressure on him. As you mess with him again, he will definitely give up and don't want to insist!

Because I don't know many details, that's all. I hope my little sugar can be happy. If you have any questions, welcome to communicate!