The related story happened in episode 26. Detailed story: The police handling the case explained the reason for finding Jojo. The woman who took Jojo away in those years was afraid to show up easily because she saw the police looking for children everywhere. Later, the garment factory closed down and the woman became terminally ill. For Jojo's future, the woman finally decided to hand over the child to the police and let the police contact the child's family.
Zhao Zuozuo went to Jojo and wept with joy. He Jing was too scared to recognize Zhao, but instinctively pushed him down. Although he and Zhao are the children's parents, the children were brought up by others after remembering, so naturally they can't accept their parents at once. Zhao is coming to pick him up with the child. He decided to open a suite first and let the children have a good rest.
The truth of divorce that Jiang Xiaoyu didn't understand for three years: children are just an excuse.
I always thought that Zhao chose to divorce him because he lost his child. Even after three years, the children returned to them, and Jiang Xiaoyu didn't change his original idea.
It is precisely because he blamed the divorce on the fact that he lost his child that when discussing the custody of the child three years later, he felt that Zhao could not give him custody.
But in the past three years, he has never really understood the truth of their divorce. For Zhao, the child is just an excuse, or it can be said that it just gives her a suitable time for divorce. In fact, even if the children are not lost, their marriage will not go smoothly to the end.
He married Zhao at the university graduation ceremony, and Zhao was found pregnant when he entered the physical examination. At that time, the parents of the two families were unanimous and did not agree to get married in such a hurry and have children so early. But they are like two rebellious teenagers. The more their parents obstruct them, the more they have to do so.
As a result, Zhao became a housewife without any foundation. In order to give her a little sense of security, her parents wanted to buy a house, but they just graduated and didn't have the ability to buy a house at all, so Zhao's mother proposed that her child should take Zhao's surname and promised to change her surname after buying a house.
At that time, this request was opposed by everyone, including Zhao. Although he said he didn't care about the children's surnames, he lost his temper with his parents when he learned that they really gave their children their surnames.
Of course, under the influence of traditional ideas, it is understandable not to be wronged, but at least there must be a premise that Zhao cannot be wronged in other things. However, in the present situation of their marriage, it is obvious that they don't want to lose their children's right to be crowned, which is equivalent to handing all the grievances to Zhao.
A girl, when she married you, had nothing, didn't even have a decent wedding, and lost her job because she had a baby. Even if she doesn't care about this, her parents can't care about her daughter, and she can't completely ignore her parents' feelings.
However, he has never considered this issue from Zhao's standpoint, which shows that he does not understand Zhao as a husband, and their marriage failure is inevitable.