Therefore, in order to provide for the elderly, some parents give their children unconditionally, thinking that their children are "honest" when they are old and sick.
So, can raising children really prevent old age? Next, share a true story around me.
Aunt Hu was a star among aunts before she became a grandmother.
Aunt Hu has a son and a daughter, both of whom graduated from prestigious schools and settled in the city. My son, in particular, has become an executive, but also a treasure of Aunt Hu.
Aunt Hu does sanitation work in their town. As she grew older, she felt very painful in her body, especially the waist disease. Pain is fatal, but Aunt Hu must be strong so as not to bring trouble to her family. last
At this time, an old sister advised her: since the doll can earn money after graduating from college, let her do more work. It's been a long time, don't toss her old arms and legs.
Others secretly told aunt Hu that the child's home is not his own, but his own nest. Let her take care of it, renovate the old house and prepare for retirement.
But aunt Hu is not worried about this. This is not raising children, preventing the youngest children. She has such a promising child. What are you afraid of?
In fact, what Aunt Hu can't tell is that her son changed a big house some time ago and supported them with all his money, regardless of his wife's opposition.
Because of this incident, the friendship boat between my daughter and Aunt Hu and her daughter was overturned.
However, Aunt Hu is not particularly worried about her future life. She can still do it anyway. I just can't, so my son can ignore her?
My son once said that he changed his big house to live with his parents.
Aunt Hu is a little tired, but she is happy in her heart.
But the good days came to an abrupt end in 2020.
Aunt Hu had to resign because of the worsening back pain, but she was relieved to live the city life she had been longing for this year.
Aunt Hu has been trying to help take care of her grandson since her daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, but her daughter-in-law refused her for various reasons, including illiteracy. Instead, she found a golden nanny at a high price.
In this epidemic, the work of Aunt Hu's daughter-in-law was affected and her income was greatly reduced. In order to alleviate the financial pressure at home, the daughter-in-law fired the nanny and took Aunt Hu to the city.
Aunt Hu has a strong personality. When she says one thing at home, her wife can only follow, but this daughter-in-law is as rich as she is, so it is inevitable to get along with her.
At the beginning, my son will also say a few words for Aunt Hu. After that, he may face pressure. In the face of aunt Hu's nagging, he lazily responded with a "hmm, oh, I see", sometimes it is very simple. Pretend not to hear.
Aunt Hu is naturally unhappy.
One day, the daughter-in-law and son were still at work. Aunt Hu's wife called and said that they brought a bag of freshly planed sweet potatoes and put them at the door of the community.
What Aunt Hu wants most is to think about the smelly face of her son and daughter-in-law. Seeing the baby asleep, she went downstairs and picked him up. Seeing that the bag was not big, she was going to carry it upstairs.
Unexpectedly, the sweet potato just out of the mud is too heavy. Aunt Hu fell to her horse, and the security guard quickly connected her son's phone.
After admission, the doctor said that Aunt Hu had a serious lumbar disc herniation and had to undergo surgery, otherwise it would lead to hemiplegia. I regret to say that I wish I had seen a doctor earlier.
After the incident, my son and daughter-in-law had to take time off to take care of her mother-in-law and Mengwa at home.
This operation was reimbursed by Aunt Hu. Although she reimbursed part of the medical expenses, all her own money was used to make up for her son. The rest of the money is naturally given by her son and daughter-in-law, and she is even more generous and panting. .
As for my daughter-in-law, because of too many vacations, this position has long been replaced by others.
When a person is forced into a dilemma by life, it is difficult to maintain dignity and good temper, and he will unconsciously vent this negative emotion on the people around him.
Aunt Hu is naturally not less angry, but worse is yet to come.
As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son before a long bed. In the first half of the month after the operation, Aunt Hu, in addition to the functions of hands and mouth, turned over and became an extravagant hope, and had to take care of her daughter-in-law.
My daughter-in-law has no superhuman powers. How to take care of Macey Eva and her patients? ! Naturally, the face won't look too good.
Slowly, the hostility established between them gradually erased the friendship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
What breaks Aunt Hu's heart even more is that her son seems to be used to all this now. After work, there is less communication between mother and her, and the family is like roommates.
My son never seems to remember the promise of "you raise me and I will raise you old".
After more than a month, the daughter-in-law became ugly and smashed into a routine. The son selectively ignored all this.
Aunt Hu is also a very strong person in her bones. She doesn't want to think of her selfless dedication to her son.
Once, I was so angry and excited that I fell out of bed and broke my arm. Not only did it cost me a lot of money, but I also had to support myself.
Seeing that her son's daughter-in-law's face stinks every day, Aunt Hu had to take the initiative to ask to go back to her hometown.
The son and daughter-in-law also began to reflect, and advised Aunt Hu to stay and continue to recover, saying that it would not be too late to wait for her to return to her hometown.
Finally, I saw that Aunt Hu had plans to leave, so I had to take all the daily necessities to send her back.
The house in my hometown was in ruins at that time. Aunt Hu refused to listen to persuasion, raised her son with all her money, and blamed her.
As the saying goes, the sun is as high as the moon and is the closest relative of husband and wife. Moments later, the man who once coaxed Aunt Hu for a long time when she coughed, now he is sobbing in the dark, without gentleness.
Coupled with the need of work, I lost a lot of patience when Aunt Hu came.
Aunt Hu's son and daughter-in-law are also very busy. Mortgage, car loan, baby milk powder, too much to breathe. Where can I take care of her?
I said I'd go home and have a look, but the number of times I really went to this house can be counted in a slap.
After autumn, there are yellow leaves everywhere. Aunt Hu walked around the tree three times, without branches to rely on, and finally fell down.
On the day of burial, a son and a woman cried several times and fainted, but Aunt Hu never knew.