In my mind, having my own house is the real home, the feeling of home, the real sureness in my heart and the sense of belonging. Many ordinary people around me have this idea, just like my sister, the couple scrimped and saved for the house, and the initial days were really tight.
But personally, there is no conflict between the quality of life and the house. We can still pursue a better life when trying to save money to buy a house, all because of our personal mentality and family life management. My sister has to pay the mortgage every day and raise a child. The couple are really tired every day. But every day my sister can make all kinds of delicious food with simple ingredients. You can't go to the amusement park during the holidays, and you will also take your children to ride bicycles and have a picnic. The couple also often go shopping and dating romantically. Warm little details can be seen everywhere at home, such as wild flowers collected by the roadside placed in vases on the dining table, various gadgets made by DIY, and so on. The family is also happy and full of flavor.
Therefore, as long as you have a positive and optimistic attitude and enthusiasm for life, you can enjoy life and enjoy life even if you need to save money to buy a house and pay the mortgage.