0 1 sad! I bear 800 thousand usury for my ex-wife
Some people say that women are really terrible.
Mother received a phone call saying that she wanted to raise some money to help her cousin Arjun tide over the difficulties.
I am surprised that their family has always been rich. Why do they suddenly want to borrow money?
Mother said angrily, it's not just divorce. The woman let Ajun bear 800,000 usury!
Speaking of A Jun, we played together occasionally when we were children. He is honest and quiet, but he is a teacher. As a graduate majoring in architecture in a key university, he found a very glamorous job in a state-owned enterprise.
Seven years ago, his parents told him about a marriage. Xiao Xuan, a woman, is a college student, but she is very smart. She is engaged in pharmaceutical sales, and her annual salary exceeds that of Ajun.
The two young people hit it off immediately, fell in love and got married soon.
After getting married, they took out the bride price and savings and bought the first suite in full. Soon, when her daughter was born, Xiao Xuan wanted to buy a school district house for her daughter, so he paid the down payment with his savings, and the monthly payment was paid back by Ajun.
At this time, Arjun had to raise children, pay off mortgages and car loans, and be responsible for various expenses of the family. His monthly income of more than 10 thousand yuan is simply not enough.
On the other hand, Xiao Xuan is building her own coffers and has never supported her family. Looking at the rising housing prices in recent years, Xiao Xuan's ambition is expanding. Not long after, she took out the money in the vault, borrowed more than 65,438 yuan from relatives and bought a third small house.
The original heavy mortgage and life pressure have made Ah Jun almost breathless. Under this, the little dear is even worse, and said in a mandatory tone:
Honey, if you want to make money hard, you have a mortgage again. Remember to call my account with 5 thousand more every month!
That's easy to say. I want my husband to keep paying the loan. In her mind, it seems that Arjun is a "mortgage teller", letting her dominate and overdraw.
Smart and calculating Xiao En, unexpectedly, Arjun refused this time. He said: I have to carry so many mortgages and support my family. Now I'm so anxious that my hair is going to fall out. Please don't burden me any more!
However, Xiao Xuan didn't see the fatigue on her husband's face and the increasingly backward hairline. She continued to ask:
I want to marry you because my career prospects are good and I think you are a potential stock. Who knows that you are so worthless now, it is better for my wife's family to keep cancer wages in state-owned enterprises every day! If you can't afford the monthly payment for two suites, you can change your job and get a better one!
His wife's words deeply hurt Arjun's self-esteem. But he thinks there is nothing wrong with pursuing an ordinary life. His wife just wants to buy a house everywhere, and she really lost herself.
Over time, Xiao Xuan thought Arjun was not worthy of her at all, and wanted to leave this "enterprising" honest man. But before leaving, she can't go home empty-handed. She should try to maximize the benefits as much as possible.
So, she began to separate from Ah Jun. After a year of separation, Ah Jun gave up completely. Immediately, the two signed a "most unequal divorce agreement in history".
After the marriage, Arjun got the first suite, with a value of 165438+ ten thousand, and returned 550 thousand to Xiao Xuan, because it was the married property purchased by both of them.
The two suites bought later were all owned by Xiao Xuan on the grounds that they were all bought by Xiao Xuan's savings and had nothing to do with Ah Jun; However, the debt of 6.5438+0.5 million borrowed from relatives when buying the third suite was also given to him.
My daughter has nothing to do with Ah Jun, and she doesn't want Ah Jun to pay alimony, so make a clean break.
After the divorce, A Jun was heavily in debt. Incredibly, the cruel Xiao Xuan asked him to pay off 550 thousand yuan as soon as possible, because she had found another shop and needed to pay urgently.
In desperation, Ajun first borrowed 6.5438+million from relatives and friends, and more than 400,000 could only borrow usury. Unfortunately, he was unlucky and met with a routine loan. One year later, the interest rose to 800,000. He's really scared!
I have no choice but to raise money everywhere and pay interest first. Otherwise, we can only sell the house.
A divorce not only robbed Arjun, but also made him lose his favorite daughter and ordinary life dream.
Doesn't his ex-wife who stepped on his dream of "flying into the sky" feel a little indebted in her heart?
02 sad reminder! This divorce turned out to be robbing the poor to help the rich!
People's hearts have never been cool thin, and it's not decent to break up.
Around us, there are scenes of divorce farce of "robbing the poor to help the rich".
Just last week, I heard that my former colleague Xiao Hai divorced. The house is gone, the car is gone, and the savings are gone, leaving only a cold divorce certificate.
Xiao Hai was my colleague when I worked in a cultural media company a few years ago. He works hard and treats people warmly. Everyone praises others as their names, and his mind is as broad as the sea.
At that time, the company was planning a project, and she was assigned to a group with Xiao Jing, a post-90 s girl. They cooperated well together, stayed together for a long time, and slowly their feelings began to sprout.
Xiao Jing is the daughter of a prefecture-level city official, a typical white woman from Jiao Jiao. And Ahai is a poor boy who came out of the mountains, saved money, mortgaged his house and owed a debt.
But the power of love crossed the gap of material disparity, and they got married after talking for more than two years. The whole company was surprised. I feel that A Hai is not worthy of Xiao Jing, and neither of them is right. Moreover, the face value does not match.
Can a poor rustic boy and a spoiled rich girl really be happy?
Perhaps, only time knows people best. It will give all the good and bad, right and wrong answers.
Later, I changed my career and left my job. I heard about Xiaohai's marriage experience and misfortune from other friends intermittently.
At first, the married life of the young couple was quite happy. Xiaohai contracted all the housework, and Xiaojing was only responsible for beauty. Even living in a small house with two rooms and one living room, Xiao Jing feels particularly warm and beautiful.
However, it didn't take long for Xiao Haiyin to travel to other places for a long time, and the two of them could only meet once every half month. Suddenly there is no one to take care of, and there is less concern. Xiaojing was very unhappy and complained about her husband on WeChat all day.
Complaining, quarreling, feelings will fade. They divorced quietly, and colleagues and friends around them didn't know for a long time.
Until one day, Xiao Hai was transferred back to work at the headquarters, and then Xiao Jing resigned. Xiaohai also looked for colleagues everywhere to find a house because he had no place to live. Colleagues discovered that the young couple who once loved each other are now strangers.
Afterwards, some people say that Xiaojing has a strong personality and belongs to the royal elder sister type. Most men can't control her. In addition, their backgrounds are different, and their consumption concepts and values are too different. Divorce is also expected.
But what is incredible is that when Xiao Jing divorced, she took the only house and car that Xiao Hai bought before marriage as her own, and even took hundreds of thousands of deposits from the same account.
After divorcing Xiaohai, he became nothing. After seven or eight years of struggle in this city, it was all in vain, from poor to poorer, from bitter to more bitter.
Xiao Jing is not short of money. Now that she has got all the marital property, she is richer.
Everyone feels worthless for Xiaohai, and thinks that Xiaojing is the second generation of officials and has no worries about food and clothing. Why is he so cruel, blowing the small sea to nothing? Isn't this naked robbing the poor and helping the rich?
Perhaps, for Xiao Jing, who has lived a luxurious life for a long time, a house, a broken car and a little savings are the minimum compensation. If she marries a rich man, this property is nothing.
But she never thought how difficult it would be from now on. In the early 30 s, everything has to start from scratch, and everything is endless loneliness and night.
Perhaps, two divorced people, don't care about each other's life or death.
How sweet it is when you are in love, and how heartless it is when you are apart.
Be careful! Please beware of the exquisite egoism in marriage!
Divorce is expensive. Sometimes, you really can't afford to lose.
Everyone is eager to have a beautiful and equal marriage, and no one wants to be the one who is calculated, overdrawn and predatory in legal relations.
You walked into the marriage hall with the belief of "wishing for one heart and never parting", but in the face of reality, the beautiful vows were slowly crushed by the triviality and heaviness of life, and finally you could only choose to part ways.
Clutch is normal. But you don't want to be robbed when you are separated.
Like the ex-wife who made money by divorce, she only cares about the house and money, and completely forgets the responsibility of marriage. Finally, she did not forget to turn her ex-husband into a "black sheep" who borrowed usury.
Bai, who is neither poor nor poor in money, showed no weakness in the divorce, scraping off her not-rich ex-husband, and instantly turning a hardworking poor boy into a powerless "pauper".
They won't hesitate, they won't be soft-hearted and they won't feel bad. The happiness and warmth that marriage once had, in their eyes, are worthless at all.
As bystanders, we may accuse them of selfishness and their inhumanity and injustice …
But none of this makes sense. Our accusations can't change the fate of the weak side, and our anger can't save everything that woman took away.
I didn't expect the soil of marriage to "nourish" so many "exquisite egoists"!
I just want to remind a virtuous and cowardly man that marriage needs to be cautious and divorce needs to be sober.
The beginning or dissolution of marriage is likely to bring about the redistribution of property, and your attitude and status determine your distribution value.
You can give for the whole family, but don't forget that the other person may enjoy your contribution endlessly, or even empty your life.
You know, in marriage, there are also the law of the jungle.
I hope you don't become the prey of the other side.