It is Nana's mother-in-law who opens the door for Xiaowen. After greeting the old man, Xiaowen went to her best friend's room. Nana opened the door and was very happy to see Xiaowen. She quickly invited her into the house and locked the door behind her.
"Why did you lock the door?" Xiaowen looked at Nana with a puzzled face. In Xiaowen's impression, Nana is not an insecure person.
Nana sighed and complained to her best friend.
It turns out that since the birth of the child, the in-laws often go in and out of their rooms at will. As two women, the mother-in-law is easy to say, but the father-in-law is not shy. Sometimes he is nursing the baby, and the father-in-law pushes the door directly.
Nana felt embarrassed and embarrassed to communicate directly with the old man, so she had to ask her husband for help.
"Don't let your dad come into my room at will, okay?" The maternal mood itself is a little anxious, which leads to Nana's poor tone of voice.
It happened that her husband was a dutiful son and thought Nana and her in-laws had problems. Instead of communicating with her parents, she called Nana a sissy.
So Nana decided to lock the door every time she came in. No matter what happened to her husband, she was happy anyway!
There is also a treasure mother, Zhang Ping, who empathizes with Nana. After giving birth to the child, Zhang Ping was kept in her husband's house. The mother-in-law is responsible for cooking and cleaning, and the father-in-law is responsible for taking the children to play.
Living habits lead to in-laws never closing the door when they go in and out of the bedroom, and they don't have the habit of knocking at the door, so it is often when Zhang Ping is breastfeeding that her father-in-law comes in to see the children.
Zhang Ping has a thin face. She once whispered this to her mother-in-law. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to say that your father is not an outsider, so don't make a fuss.
Zhang Ping is aggrieved and helpless, so she can only complain online. Unexpectedly, such a "spit" has triggered the * * * voice of countless netizens:
@ Huludao:
Postpartum confinement, put the child to sleep at one or two every night. As a result, the next morning, my father-in-law took the key and opened our bedroom door directly, saying that he had come to take the children's dirty clothes to wash.
Although I know he means well, I am really embarrassed and in a bad mood because I didn't sleep well. Everyone will be depressed. Fortunately, my husband is more reliable and went back to teach my father a lesson. Later, my father-in-law never came into our bedroom on his own initiative.
@ mode:
Don't talk about my father-in-law, even my own father should avoid suspicion! All reasonable people know that a daughter-in-law is confined to her confinement, and no one of the opposite sex can enter the house except her husband.
If you want to see the child, just wait for the child to be taken out after eating milk and push the door in without saying a word. You can only say that this person has a personality problem.
@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫 is not confused:
I've seen more amazing things. When my cousin was pregnant, there was less milk, and my in-laws were very anxious about it. Every time my cousin breast-feeds, my in-laws cran their necks to see if the child is breast-feeding.
This move is really unacceptable. My cousin had a big fight with her husband, and later she directly invited Yue Yue to replace her in-laws.
Giving birth to a child is a family event. Out of love for babies and concern for adults, parents often do everything themselves, and relatives and friends must also visit their mothers and children.
Although everyone means well, the moon ovary is always a relatively private place, and not everyone is suitable to enter. A little carelessness will lead to embarrassment and discomfort.
Ma Bao is confined, so don't let these four kinds of people into the room. Not superstitious!
1. Sick people
The lying-in women in the second month have not fully recovered, which leads to a decline in resistance. If the person who comes to see a doctor is sick, it is easy to bring germs into the ovary of the month.
Once Ma Bao is infected, it is not only difficult for her to recover, but also impossible to continue breastfeeding her baby. Therefore, it is not suitable for patients to enter the ovary of the second month to visit parturient and baby.
2. Other members of the opposite sex except the husband
Ma Bao often breastfeeds during confinement. If the opposite sex enters the room directly without saying hello, it will make the other party feel embarrassed.
Therefore, in addition to the husband, including the mother's biological father and father-in-law, it is best not to enter the moon ovary.
If a friend of the opposite sex visits the child, she should inform Ma Bao in advance and ask Ma Bao to take the child to the living room. After all, it is impolite for the opposite sex to enter the maternal bedroom.
3. People who speak too loudly
Some people are born with loud voices. No matter who they talk to, they will not lower their voices. They are always surprised.
However, postpartum Ma Bao and the baby need a quiet rest environment. If people with loud voices often come in and out of the moon ovary, it will affect Ma Bao's mood and interfere with the baby's sleep.
Therefore, when loud people visit, Ma Bao must also remind them to keep their voices down and not disturb the baby's sleep.
4. Children
Many relatives and friends who come to visit will take care of their children. Children are always noisy, which not only affects the rest of mothers, but also scares babies who are not yet full moon. Therefore, it is best not to let children enter the moon ovary!
If relatives and friends bring their children to visit, parents can let them play with toys or watch TV in the living room, and tell them not to disturb their aunts and babies in the bedroom at will.